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The Burial Waltz

Started by Donatien Alphonse François. Last reply by Donatien Alphonse François Apr 26. 4 Replies

Hi everyone,It was almost a half-century ago, at age 15 or so, that I encountered one of the more important influences in my life: a crazy group of poets/musicians who called themselves The Fugs.They had a huge impact on me in that, though raised in…Continue

Some William Blake to Ponder

Started by Donatien Alphonse François. Last reply by Donatien Alphonse François Apr 25. 6 Replies

Hello all,I'm new here, and so hope this isn't old hat. But, I just had to point you toward a marvelous poem by William Blake in case you've never read it. Despite his sometimes heavily tinged biblical references in his other art and poetry, this…Continue

God's Not Dead - The Christian Persecution Complex (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Annie Willis Apr 20. 7 Replies

Doubtless most if not all of you have heard about that sorry piece of cinema known as God's Not Dead, and perhaps its sequel, cleverly entitled: God's Not Dead 2 (wow, how original!).  Personally, I have wasted neither time nor money on either,…Continue

Tags: God's Not Dead, patheos, Neil Carter, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

Confirmed: flagged by religious people for "bullying."

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Loren Miller Apr 19. 4 Replies

According to Seth Andrews @SethAndrewsTTA  Apr 16"Confirmed. TTA was flagged by religious people for "bullying." Apparently, criticism and skepticism = persecution. #GodHatesFacts"Others reported as "Flagged" and taken off line: @The Thinking…Continue

Tags: @SethAndrewsTTA, @morehead_sarah, @Matt_Dillahunty, @jteberhard, confirmed

The Value of Atheist Nexus ... and of Keeping Contact

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Apr 17. 13 Replies

I don't know about you, but the last 24+ hours were VERY uncomfortable for me.  Why?  Because something I value a LOT, being Atheist Nexus and the people I care about on A|N were temporarily unavailable to me.  No, we're not Facebook; I don't think…Continue

Tags: maintenance, community, availability, Atheist Nexus

Atheist Pig STRIKES AGAIN!!!

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Qiana-Maieev Apr 5. 1 Reply

There's no getting around it, Atheist Pig is fast becoming my fave secular comic, and as evidence, I refer you to the following.  Jesus and Mo had better watch their respective asses, 'cuz they got a porker coming up on the outside, and I'm pretty…Continue

Tags: Atheist Pig

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Comment by k.h. ky on May 15, 2014 at 4:09pm
And, no, fa, she didn't agree. If she had there would be no problem now.
Comment by k.h. ky on May 15, 2014 at 4:07pm
Thanks folks. FA, my daughter was close to my mom but I don't believe any of the other 13 could have came to an an agreement had they been asked. The g kids are all adults. I don't feel they had any say so in it.
sk8ycat, I'm with you on abortion rights.
Patricia, in Ky next of kin can override last wishes, even those made at the funeral home by prior directive. I have a deceased friend whose family did just that.
I think my daughter being an only child is the reason she thinks she should be included in any decisions.
Comment by sk8eycat on May 15, 2014 at 1:50pm
Comment by sk8eycat on May 15, 2014 at 12:52pm

I joined the Neptune Society 20 years ago, and am completely paid up...that includes dumping my ashes at sea.  BUT I told my sister I didn't care if she flushed them down the loo if she wanted to.

Ghod, I'm SO glad I never had kids!  Abortion IS a blessing, even when it was illegal (as mine were).

Comment by The Flying Atheist on May 15, 2014 at 12:35pm

K.H., I don't think it was unreasonable at all having just the five siblings make the burial decision for your mother.  Just the fact that there were disagreements among the five of you is quite enough without bringing in 14 additional opinions!  I'm curious of the reason why your daughter is so upset over this.  Did she not agree with the final decision?  Is that why she is stating she should have been consulted as well?  Is she the lone voice in this or is she speaking on behalf of the 14 grandchildren?  In any case, I don't think you or your siblings have done anything egregious.  It's fairly standard to have the closest "next of kin" make those decisions unless otherwise stated elsewhere.  This is a perfect example of why everyone should have their final wishes spelled out in a will. 

Comment by k.h. ky on May 15, 2014 at 10:12am
I am in need of an outside perspective. When my mom died last year my five siblings and l disagreed on where to bury her. We went by majority vote and we're all fine with that. However.. My daughter, one of 14 grandchildren, has been a bitch about it. She thinks all the g kids should have been included in the decision. I don't think they had any say so in the matter. My daughter and I have had a couple of disagreements about it over the last year with the last one getting rather nasty. I told her when I died she could do whatever the hell she wanted but that was my mother. Am I wrong or is she being unrealistic?
Comment by k.h. ky on May 15, 2014 at 9:44am
Booklover, have fun and I hope it's not raining and cold like it is here.
Comment by k.h. ky on May 15, 2014 at 9:43am
FA, funny. I remember when my older sister wore her hair like that.
Comment by The Flying Atheist on May 14, 2014 at 8:14pm

Mindy, enjoy your time out with the girls.

Comment by sk8eycat on May 14, 2014 at 9:43am

A-hah!  Sometimes you can tell a book by its cover!  Too bad buybull publishers aren't honest enough to print that information.

Thanks, Mindy!

 

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