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Learning a Language as a Mature Adult

Started by Daniel Wachenheim. Last reply by Plinius 4 hours ago. 1 Reply

Trying to keep my mind exercised, and not interested in most of the reading materials that I can find.I decided to attempt to learn a language.  Actually, two.  The dilemma is, how do I do that without going to school - not an option - and without…Continue

What Annoys God Most? (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat on Thursday. 10 Replies

Long story short, it's those near misses, the almost-but-not-quite, close but no cheroot moments, or, would you believe ... Near Death Experiences!  So what's the big deal?  Betty Bowers, America's BEST Christian and self-proclaimed expert on such…Continue

Tags: Near Death Experiences, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

degrading love — part one (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat Nov 22. 11 Replies

Love is by many considered among the highest of positive emotions.  Yet when love of the type offered by deities is examined, something seems to go seriously wrong.  The love of Yahweh seems less a gift than a demand, not so much beneficence as a…Continue

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Ning, Error 500s, and Whether to Migrate

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Nov 13. 47 Replies

I just got the following notice from Ning yesterday, (31 October, 2016), in the wake of this latest website outage:As some of you may be aware, we experienced a system outage earlier this morning. The cause was due to a specific network…Continue

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Introducing Douglas Murray

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 7. 4 Replies

Most of us who have been around atheism for a while know the heavyweights of our ilk.  Names like Hitchens, Dawkins, Dennett, Harris, Dillahunty and AronRa get nearly daily mention in posts and discussions on Atheist Nexus.  One name I was…Continue

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If There's a God - She's a Woman - The Author T

Started by Joe. Last reply by Chris Nov 3. 4 Replies

I came across this story and thought some here might find it interesting and humorous.It’s titled:If There’s a GodShe’s a WomanFrom the Series:Things You Can Learn from a VaginaIts on the website TheAuthorT.com under the tab, “Free to Read…Continue

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Comment by k.h. ky on September 11, 2014 at 2:51pm
@sk8yecat, I believe we remember the bad more vividly because it's always so unexpected.
@Carl the glass half full/half empty always puzzled me. All I ever see is half a glass. I could never figure it out. Then I had a chance to asked a psychiatrist about it after a lecture one night . She said a person who only sees half a glass is non judgemental.
Comment by sk8eycat on September 11, 2014 at 2:22pm

What IS it about humanity that we memorialize disasters/attacks, but not the GOOD things?  Very few Americans understand the significance of 7-20-1969, for one thing...

I'm thoroughly sick of being reminded of the faith-based mess that was caused by 19 nobodies on Sept. 11, 2001....  We have made those religious fanatics immortal by remembering their treachery.  Just what their nitwit boss wanted. 

We memorialize Dec. 7th...when Pearl Harbor was attacked, NOT the day the official surrender was signed.

November 11 was changed from Armistice Day to Remember Maimed/Dead Veterans Day.

What is the MATTER with us?

Comment by Bertold Brautigan on September 11, 2014 at 1:46pm

Carl, I hope your upswing continues!

Comment by Bertold Brautigan on September 11, 2014 at 1:45pm

The Sam Harris quote is what I wish everyone would take to heart. I remember Bill Maher got into big trouble for saying they weren't cowards.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on September 11, 2014 at 1:42pm

It's hard to believe that thirteen years have already passed since the attack of September 11, 2001.  So much has changed since then.  It seems like lifetimes ago but at the same time, for me, the horrible events and raw emotions from that day still linger and can bring me to tears.  I didn't know anyone personally who died on that day, but it was my co-workers from my company who were the first to be murdered on 9/11.  Flight attendants had their throats slashed so that the hijackers could gain access to the flight deck.  There hasn't been one singe day in the past thirteen years that I haven't thought about what happened that day.  It totally changed my life and my career. 

Comment by Idaho Spud on September 11, 2014 at 1:37pm

I like that quote Ian.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on September 11, 2014 at 1:32pm

Ian, actually I haven't started dialysis yet.  I don't know when it will start but right now I'm stable enough to hold off.  In fact, this past week I seem to be in a period of having an upswing of energy whereas before I was constantly tired and lethargic.  I just had some blood drawn yesterday and will know the results this coming Monday.  I've been told there will be periods of ebb and flow regarding my kidney function.   

Comment by Ian Mason on September 11, 2014 at 1:24pm

Comment by Ian Mason on September 11, 2014 at 1:23pm

Carl, I'm getting sceptical about doctors. I think research has outstripped them to the extent that even the best (and they're not all good) can't keep up. Second opinions will have to be more commonplace in the future so a second doc. has a chance to spot what the first one didn't think of. 

How are you feeling just now and how far are you in the dialysis process? 

Comment by The Flying Atheist on September 11, 2014 at 1:07pm

Joan, I tend to be a "glass half full" type of person.  I have a very positive outlook in life.  That being said, I am also a realist and fully know the seriousness of my condition and the importance of carefully following medical advice.  Having a positive attitude is important but also knowing that Pollyanna thinking and denial is harmful both physically and mentally.  All I can do is to realistically take one day at a time and to meet each challenge with logical thinking and actions.  To me, the biggest peace of mind comes from knowing what is real and acting accordingly.  I also know I have a wonderful network of family and friends to rely on.     

 

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