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Mental health in the age of violence: Dr. Elliott Ingersol

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Randall Smith 14 hours ago. 1 Reply

I literally just discovered Dr. Elliott Ingersol yesterday, as a part of a discussion I had with other members of the Northern Ohio Freethought Society.  Dr. Ingersol is a licensed psychologist and clinical counselor in Ohio, as well as a professor…Continue

Tags: talk, psychotropic, therapy, psychology, Elliott Ingersol

maggie and milly and molly and may (Edward Estlin Cummings & Eric Whitacre)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 20. 2 Replies

It's amazing what you discover when you go looking for something you had no idea you'd find.  On an impulse, I pulled up Eric Whitacre's website to see if he had created any new pieces.  It would seem that he has: a song cycle called The City and…Continue

Tags: e e cummings, Eric Whitacre

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISIS

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Randall Smith Nov 18. 1 Reply

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISISGrowth in population, policies and practices that create a gap between the typical person and the wealthy,…Continue

Passive and Active voices

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Nov 16. 1 Reply

Have you noticed that much of the discussion in families and with friends, in the print media, on TV, and now on the internet is in the Passive Voice? Many people whine, complain, gripe, accuse, blame, call names, ridicule, grumble, bitch, rebuke,…Continue

Tags: and, behaviors, communication., attitudes, learned

Detroit Businesswomen Team Up to Get Rape Kits Tested

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by The Flying Atheist Nov 14. 2 Replies

Detroit Businesswomen Team Up to Get Rape Kits Tested"In 2009, a Wayne County assistant prosecuting attorney noticed…Continue

Tags: women, Enough, SAID, black, victims

Something Beautiful – Nathan Phelps & Seth Andrews

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 10. 7 Replies

And it is beautiful, too, indeed, I think some of Seth Andrews' best work.  Interesting point: rather than Seth's dulcet baritone doing the narration, this piece presses Nathan Phelps' deep bass intonation into service, bringing a different flavor…Continue

Tags: Nathan Phelps, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews, beautiful, something

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Comment by sk8eycat on March 12, 2014 at 12:53am

Polar Bear Cub Reveals His Name

Comment by Joan Denoo on March 11, 2014 at 9:59pm

Carl, these beautiful figures from metal utensils amaze me. How a person can imagine anything but a spoon, fork or knife is beyond my conception. Thanks for the link. 

Comment by The Flying Atheist on March 11, 2014 at 5:25pm

Artist Crafts Metallic Animal Sculptures From Stainless Utensils

Comment by The Flying Atheist on March 11, 2014 at 5:23pm
Artist Crafts Metallic Animal Sculptures From Stainless Steel Utensils

Gary Hovey Sculptures

Some samples. Very cool.....

Comment by sk8eycat on March 11, 2014 at 1:43pm

"NOT!" again!  (Yahoo Mail drives me crazy!)

Comment by Ian Mason on March 11, 2014 at 2:56am

I once saw a TV documentary where a man in CA claimed to predict earthquakes by reading the smallads and seeing how many pets had run away. Might be worth trying.

Sorry to hear about your son, Mindy. Something I was suprised to hear a few years ago was that only 7% of the healing arts are really empirical science. Most is based on "circumstantial evidence", i.e. "this usually works so the cause is probably....." When in doubt doctors often resort to "nonspecific" or in psychiatry "atypical", a word that's been attached to every diagnosis I've had.

Having said that,I do hope things work out for your son. Ask to be refered to Greg House :-D

Comment by The Flying Atheist on March 11, 2014 at 1:31am

I've never felt or experienced an earthquake, but the prospect of being in a big one frightens me.  It's in the back of my mind every time I'm in Los Angeles and San Francisco.  I think about them when I'm in Seattle as well.  The thought of having the surroundings around me collapse and then being stranded away from home in an unfamiliar place without any utilities or working infrastructure is quite unnerving to me.          

Comment by Joan Denoo on March 11, 2014 at 12:59am

Felaine, I wouldn't want to be caught in that earthquake. It will devastate everything. My cousin was in the Northridge quake; they slept on the second floor and were tossed out of bed. They tried to get downstairs and the stairwell had collapsed. The next morning they found their china closet tipped over on the sofa and the only thing that didn't break was an antique clock that landed on the sofa. 

I can't even imagine what you must have experienced. Your poor cat surely had some advanced notice. I wonder what it is they feel? Something as delicate and valuable as your mother's crystal can't be replaced. On the other hand, you survived, I hope unscathed. 

Here is an update just in at 10:55 PM Spokane, time 

If you click on this, you might be able to scan in and out. 

Comment by Grinning Cat on March 11, 2014 at 12:39am

Mindy, I hope they learn something useful about your son's condition!

And the joy in so many of those one-second snippets in the video Carl shared is contagious!

Comment by sk8eycat on March 11, 2014 at 12:25am

I've been doing the same thing with the USGS maps, including the whole world, sometimes.  It scares me, but fascinates me, too.  The USCS maps change as soon as another "event" occurs.

I just had to learn what that silly icon was all can choose all kinds of different views, including every known fault line in the USA....

And a "perfect" deity was supposed to have made all this chaos?  Huh! 

During the 1970 (?) Sylmar quake, it was pitch dark (after a bright flash of light outside), and seemed to go on forever.  I was holding onto the edges of my mattress with all fingers and toes, moaning, "Make it stop!  Make it STOP!"

My cat woke me up just before the quake because he was frantic to go outside...I thought he just had to pee, or something, so I let him out.  He didn't come back for three days.  I was afraid he'd been grabbed by a coyote or something.

Our house was a mess; all the kitchen cupboards had flown open, and the contents were all over the floor...including flour and sugar.  Ugh.. And  Mother's wedding crystal glasses were in shards. Not a single one survived.

Slopped a lot of water out of the pool, too, but the 1994 Northridge quake did more damage to the pool than to the house.

I just do NOT want to be here when the southern end of the San Andreas Fault finally becomes unstuck...I think it's going to flatten Los Angeles and San Bernardino Counties altogether.  I hope it stays locked till my ashes are fish food.


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