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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Chris Dec 26, 2017. 10 Replies

I received a gift this morning from a virtual friend, Pamela Smith:A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :" One day an old wise teacher was walking through a village. A very angry and rude young man came up and began insulting him. "You have…Continue

10 Tricks from 46 (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Nov 6, 2017. 3 Replies

Apparently, Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, has been slumming.  That is to say, she's been talking to Mike Pence [gasp!].  It would seem as though Mike has offered some of his not-so-personal tricks of the trade on how to be a 21st century…Continue

Tags: tricks, Mike Pence, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Grinning Cat Oct 19, 2017. 99 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

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Speak English? YOU FIRST! (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Donald R Barbera Sep 27, 2017. 5 Replies

Honestly, the title to this piece is badly under-representative of the content.  To be far more accurate, what we have here is Mrs. Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, going on a rant.  Before you say it ... Say WHAAAA?  Betty Bowers ranting? …Continue

Tags: America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

10 Things About Patriotism (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Plinius Sep 26, 2017. 2 Replies

It seems as though lately, Mrs. Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, is evolving into America's Best Patriot.  She has recently been taking some fairly well-aimed shots at a certain Orange Nightmare and his sycophantic hangers-on, regarding the…Continue

Tags: patriotism, Donald Trump, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

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Comment by sk8eycat on May 31, 2015 at 11:39am

Dear Pliny, what a coincidence!  I had a major dizzy spell last night, and landed on my knees and hip on the hardwood floor.  Took me 10 minutes to crawl to a chair and haul myself upright again....still dizzy.  I was too angry to be scared. 

I'm 75, and sick and tired of fighting gravity....in 1969 I had hopes of retiring to 1/6 G, but Tricky Dick Nixon wiped out that dream. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on May 31, 2015 at 11:18am

Ian, your description and history of "hotbed" makes gardening and sharing such a healthy hobby even as it produces something useful. 

Now, if we can all eat strawberries at Xmas time, I will be happy. Too bad the peasants couldn't enjoy the benefits of fresh fruit during the cold weather of Elizabethan England.

Comment by Ian Mason on May 31, 2015 at 9:40am

Lovely team-work, Joan. A family to be proud of.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oXo6G5mfmro

The garden bed resembles something I know as a 'hotbed': dig a hole, fill with horse manure, top off with soil. Brought from the Nederlands by Protestants fleeing Catholic persecution, it revolutionised vegetable and fruit farming in England. I've read somewhere that Elizabeth I ate strawberries at Xmas that way.

Comment by Randall Smith on May 31, 2015 at 7:39am

Ditto, Joan (to what Chris said). And don't worry about your repeat sentences. We know about the glich. Just keep writing!

Ian, I've never been to Ireland. Eager to hear about your trip.

Comment by Plinius on May 31, 2015 at 3:34am

That's quite something, a whole family working together in joy and harmony! Thanks for the story! 

Comment by Joan Denoo on May 31, 2015 at 3:04am

Ian, I remember Dublin with very fond memories. I was there during peony blossom time and I was sad that I could not be in my garden with these lovely colors. I went to a botanical garden in Dublin and discovered a most lovely peony garden, complete with tea room and biscuits.

Comment by Joan Denoo on May 31, 2015 at 2:58am

We didn't put in the stone layer in our hugelkulture because we live on a sand hill, probably a part of the moraine of the last Ice Age. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on May 31, 2015 at 2:55am

Comment by Joan Denoo on May 31, 2015 at 2:53am

There goes my computer, repeating a sentence that I edited. Why "10-year-old Ethan and I created a strawberry patch." repeated at the end of the narrative is beyond me. Even when I read my comment before posting, this ghost of a former sentence gets tagged onto the end. If anyone knows why this happens, I will be most grateful to learn how to stop it. 

10-year-old Ethan and I created a strawberry patch. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on May 31, 2015 at 2:46am

The morning started with a heavy downpour, lightning and thunder. We thought our work day would have to be delayed. About mid-day, the sun came out, the sand was moist but not wet. Laura, Larry, my two granddaughters, Michelle and Laurie, Michelle's five children all showed up and took those jobs that matched their skill level and interests. My great-granddaughter, Brooklyn, entertained us all through the day. She walks now, is getting a vocabulary of a few words and lots of experimenting with her voice. 

The three dogs and a herd of cats joined in. 

Zac cut down five trees; Larry, Jacob and Travis drove the tractor with a backhoe and a loader. They dug two large hugelkulture trenches, the kids filled them with slash and old and new logs, then Travis covered them over with sand to form a fire break. The wood will become like a sponge and store water. The sticks will decompose and provide humus to the sand. 

Laurie took charge of the kitchen and Brooklyn and prepared the most excellent dinner with the help of 14-year-old Katelynn. Larry smoked three racks of ribs and BBQed lots of hamburgers. The girls made potato salad and cabbage salad, and Laurie made a chocolate cake topped with whipped cream and fresh strawberries. 

Eight-year-old Austin pulled grass out of a patch of Earth so that 10-year-old Ethan and I could prepare the soil for strawberries. Six-year-old Noah gathered glaciated pebbles to create a walkway. 

We all worked hard, ate well, laughed a lot and created memories that will last a lifetime for these young people. My memories will stay with me as I get older. I feel such pride and respect for this very healthy family. Not a cross word was spoken, nor any sign of criticism. There was a lot of teaching and learning going on. I was so proud of 16-year-old Jacob as he learned how to drive the tractor, dig the trench, and move sand around. He made a lot of mistakes and Larry very firmly and gently taught him how to manage the backhoe and loader, and how to place the out-riggers. When Jacob became frustrated, Larry encouraged him to climb back in the seat and try again. Jacob comprehended the skills. 

I am tired, very happy, and confident my family will be able to meet the changes taking place in society and have the sense of being self-sufficient. 

10-year-old Ethan and I created a strawberry patch. 

 

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