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Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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11 "unanswerable" questions for atheists - answered (Aron Ra)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Tom Sarbeck Jun 6. 1 Reply

If you spend any time around YouTube and have any history of looking at atheist material (or even theist material!), you will inevitably run into: "XX Questions Atheists Can't Answer."  These are occasionally followed by: "XX Questions Atheists…Continue

Tags: apologist, answer, questions, unanswerable, Aron Ra

worshipping narcissists (qualiasoup & theramintrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Idaho Spud Jun 3. 1 Reply

They're all around us: people who perceive the world as revolving around them and will go to considerable lengths to make it so: narcissists.  Such beings have been with humanity, I suspect, since humanity emerged from the gene pool.  Even worse,…Continue

Tags: narcissist, QualiaSoup, TheraminTrees

Secular and Reclaimed Winter Holiday Songs

Started by Grinning Cat. Last reply by Grinning Cat May 2. 42 Replies

This is an appropriate day of the year for this subject...What are some of your favorite winter holiday songs?It would be especially good to share powerful new secular lyrics to tunes that have become associated with Christmas.…Continue

Tags: singing, lyrics, reclaimed, reclaiming, HumanLight

appropriating morality (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo May 1. 7 Replies

We've all heard the claim: "Human morality comes from god."  And we've all seen for ourselves what Yahweh's "morality" looks like, from condemnations of homosexuality and the treatment of women as chattel to inexplicable sanctions against the eating…Continue

Tags: morality, appropriating, TheraminTrees

Bible Belt Atheist (New York Times)

Started by Loren Miller Apr 19. 0 Replies

The following showed up in my YouTube feed this morning, and I decided to have a look.  Turns out, the New York Times has given us a reasonably even-handed look at a good friend of ours, being one Jerry DeWitt, former bible-thumper and now a pretty…Continue

Tags: Bible Belt, atheist, Jerry DeWitt

How would you respond?

Started by Christina Scribner. Last reply by Christina Scribner Apr 10. 5 Replies

So, this morning, I was at my local coffee shop as I am most weekdays between bus runs. I do the editing on my husband's books so I had my laptop with me. My wallpaper is a picture I found online sometime back of a double helix with the word atheist…Continue

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Comment by Joan Denoo on September 11, 2015 at 10:20pm

Carl, it is very good news, indeed, that your kidney transplant can take place now and your heart is strong enough. 

Falls seem to happen to people when we are the most vulnerable.

I am certain your audience identified with you and your fall. Were you able to get up and go about your business? Hopefully, you had compassionate and effective help.  

Comment by The Flying Atheist on September 11, 2015 at 7:45pm

I'm so behind here and needed to catch up with this group!

Randy, I finally was able to peruse you're family's website and watch your video.  Very impressive!  You must all be very proud of what you accomplish.  I know it's extremely hard work, and your family's dedication shows through.  What a wonderful operation.  My hat's off to you.

I had to laugh at the postings about Spike Jones.  Believe it or not, I grew up listening to Spike Jones because as a kid, I was in possession of my Grandmother's 78-rpm record collection, which included quite a few Spike Jones.  Cocktails For Two and The William Tell Overture were two of my favorites.  

Spud, I feel bad a cable company has taken advantage of your trust.  I'm glad you took a stand, even though it involves lugging a computer back and forth to the library.  Now that's persistence!  I hope you can have an in-home remedy soon.  I would be lost without access to the world at my fingertips.  

Hex, welcome to Hang With Friends.  It's always nice to meet someone new. 

Ruth, the condition we have brought upon our plant is indeed depressing.  What I find most frustrating is that people actually fight against having clean air, clean water, and a sustainable future.  Do these people really have no sense of ethics?  I'm at a loss trying to understand their mindset. 

An update on me:  I was just cleared last week by my cardiologist to proceed with my kidney transplant.  To quote him, I've had a "remarkable" recovery from my valve replacement.  Hopefully that will happen within the next 30 to 60 days. 

But not all news is good.  Two weeks ago I fell due to my weak knees and I'm now nursing a small fracture next to my right big toe.  I'm wearing a surgical boot and my foot and leg is wrapped up for stability for four to six weeks.  I'm not in any pain, however.  But this shouldn't delay my transplant.  I fell downtown on my way home from a medical appointment.  Of course this had to happen on a bright, sunny day at two in the afternoon right in front of Chicago's famed Water Tower on Michigan Avenue.  Needless to say, I had a big audience.  :)

Comment by Randall Smith on September 11, 2015 at 7:03am
There always seems to be a trade-off when it comes to health issues. Hopefully, Chris, you'll find the right combination. I reckon you can be thankful for the good news.
Ruth, that drought map IS scary. I think it immediately applies.
Hope everyone has a good weekend. I have a birthday party to attend--granddaughter's third!
Comment by Plinius on September 11, 2015 at 1:50am

Stupid me! I have been back on a strict diet for health and weight loss for some five months now: the doctor who treats my worn knees told me again about the importance of weight loss. And it took me all that time to realize that the injections they gave me PREVENT weight loss.... oh well, I can walk better and with less pain.

Comment by Ian Mason on September 10, 2015 at 9:16pm

There's always time for books, Ruth.

I understand your worries for the future and share them. The problems in this part of the world will probably be different but the root cause is the same.

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on September 10, 2015 at 3:55pm

Glad that works out for you at the library, Idaho spud.

When will you have time for all of those DVDs, CDs and books, Ian?

I'm being lazy today. It's raining. Not an excuse for skipping the gym.

Did you guys see the news about the flooding in Japan (including groundwater around the reactor flooding into the ocean)?

I've been a bit depressed about future drought projections for the Americas.

Worried About Refugees? Just Wait Until We Dust-Bowlify Mexico And ...

... here is what a 2015 NASA study projected the normal climate of North America will look like. The darkest areas have soil moisture comparable to that seen during the 1930s Dust Bowl.

Even though I'll be long dead, this is such a depressing prospect. I keep imagining all of the Americas' population trying to squeeze into ... damn there's nothing left is there? The drought goes right up to the Arctic.

Comment by Ian Mason on September 10, 2015 at 8:20am

Back again after a few days in England. Nice to see the family. It was my sister-in-law's 50th birthday too.

I went wild in the charity shops and bought over 20 books plus a few DVDs and CDs. Should see me through the winter.

How are you all? When not lugging computers to and from the library, that is :-D

Comment by Idaho Spud on September 9, 2015 at 12:17pm

Thanks Kathy.  Since I found-out the library has internet service that can be accessed outside the building (maybe even several blocks away, I keep hoping the city will get with it and make the internet available everywhere in the city.  I've heard that some cities do.

I like your stories of demanding decent prices and winning.

Comment by kathy: ky on September 9, 2015 at 12:08pm
Complain away Spud. Unfortunately many of us are in the position of not having reliable or affordable internet service. I think it's in the 90% range.
But, since we can't get reliable Internet service we can't really complain about it now can we?
Comment by Idaho Spud on September 9, 2015 at 10:58am

Thanks Bertold.  I did put a thumb drive in my pocket, and will try it when I find something I want to print.

 

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