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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

Nobody here is into mind games. A discussion started with a loaded guilt-throwing question will be deleted.

This group is not intended to compete with other groups on topics they cover but to "fill in the cracks." Whenever a discussion dwells at length on a topic for which there's an existing group, we urge you to provide members a link to that group to continue along their tangent.

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Please start a discussion to share stories, photos, and videos. Replies will pop up in your "latest activity" and a conversation can develop from the feelings and thoughts you contributed. Groups are built on discussions.

Discussion Forum

Secular and Reclaimed Winter Holiday Songs

Started by Grinning Cat. Last reply by Grinning Cat May 2. 42 Replies

This is an appropriate day of the year for this subject...What are some of your favorite winter holiday songs?It would be especially good to share powerful new secular lyrics to tunes that have become associated with Christmas.…Continue

Tags: singing, lyrics, reclaimed, reclaiming, HumanLight

appropriating morality (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo May 1. 7 Replies

We've all heard the claim: "Human morality comes from god."  And we've all seen for ourselves what Yahweh's "morality" looks like, from condemnations of homosexuality and the treatment of women as chattel to inexplicable sanctions against the eating…Continue

Tags: morality, appropriating, TheraminTrees

Bible Belt Atheist (New York Times)

Started by Loren Miller Apr 19. 0 Replies

The following showed up in my YouTube feed this morning, and I decided to have a look.  Turns out, the New York Times has given us a reasonably even-handed look at a good friend of ours, being one Jerry DeWitt, former bible-thumper and now a pretty…Continue

Tags: Bible Belt, atheist, Jerry DeWitt

How would you respond?

Started by Christina Scribner. Last reply by Christina Scribner Apr 10. 5 Replies

So, this morning, I was at my local coffee shop as I am most weekdays between bus runs. I do the editing on my husband's books so I had my laptop with me. My wallpaper is a picture I found online sometime back of a double helix with the word atheist…Continue

The Fake Christian Busybody Show (Andrew Bradley)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Plinius Apr 9. 1 Reply

It seems as though there was a Gay Pride parade in some town somewhere and a Christian commentator, herein known as The Activist Mommy, apparently got her panties so in a bunch about it that she had to fire up her video camera and record a…Continue

Tags: gay, pride, The Activist Mommy, Andrew Bradley, America's Best Christian

America Held Hostage: Day 436 (MisterDeity)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Apr 9. 1 Reply

Now that Sinclair Broadcasting has stated their position regarding fake news and its threat to our democracy, Mister Deity's Brian Dalton has decided to throw his $0.02 worth in as well ... though I don't quite think his presentation was really what…Continue

Tags: fake news, Deity, Mister, Broadcasting, Sinclair

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Comment by Plinius on August 13, 2015 at 7:20am

Oh, I meant: Happy Left-handers Day!

Comment by Plinius on August 13, 2015 at 6:01am

A Left Handed Thing

Comment by Plinius on August 13, 2015 at 1:03am

Welcome Hex5! You're not disrespectful at all and we're used to everyone being in a different mood. I like the Noah story!

Comment by Hex5 on August 12, 2015 at 4:56pm
I dont mean to be direspectful but i thought a bit of humor might ease your pain. I came up with this whimsical bit to a creationist who was trying to discreadit darwin to no avail....Ye and god said unto noah take unto the ark two of each animal according to its kind. The wolf and the bear the lion and the zebra and tyranosaurs rex and all the dinosaurs according to there kind. And noah said unto god holy shit i dont think they are going to fit, but god commanded it anyway and when the floods came the boat under great weight sank, and everyone died
Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on August 12, 2015 at 3:16pm

It's hard to imagine our group without sk8eycat/Felaine. Think I'm still in denial.

Welcome to Hang With Friends, Hex5. Sorry you came just when we're grieving the loss of a beloved member. Thanks for sharing your deconversion story.

Sorry to hear about your job problem, Ian. Are you able to retire, or will you have to job hunt?

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on August 12, 2015 at 3:16pm

It's hard to imagine our group without sk8eycat/Felaine. Think I'm still in denial.

Welcome to Hang With Friends, Hex5. Sorry you came just when we're grieving the loss of a beloved member. Thanks for sharing your deconversion story.

Sorry to hear about your job problem, Ian. Are you able to retire, or will you have to job hunt?

Comment by Joan Denoo on August 12, 2015 at 2:30pm

Richard, I realize we have an uphill battle to be able to fully function as a citizen and atheist; however, I feel so strongly that I, and I hope others, want to work toward universal health care. Felaine lived under a failed system and she is only the tip of the iceberg. 

Atheism reframes life and values in such a way that each individual has a right and obligation to think critically.

Living under the boot of capitalism, that needs religion to thrive, results in a failed religion and failed capitalism. We can do better. 

"It was the church more than any other agency, writes historian Randall Collins, that put in place what Weber called the preconditions of capitalism: the rule of law and a bureaucracy for resolving disputes rationally; a specialized and mobile labor force; the institutional permanence that allows for transgenerational investment and sustained intellectual and physical efforts, together with the accumulation of long-term capital; and a zest for discovery, enterprise, wealth creation, and new undertakings."

How Christianity Created Capitalism

Comment by Joan Denoo on August 12, 2015 at 1:53pm

Carl, I feel so grateful to you for keeping in touch with Felaine and then her sister. It is strange how a person we meet over the internet can become so much a part of one's life. I f elt a real affection for her, as I know so many other Atheist Nexus members felt. 

Thank you, dear friend, for your loving care. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on August 12, 2015 at 1:37pm

Ian, I am disgusted with USA's social programs failing and sad to learn Europe is turning more toward private enterprise to conduct their business. We should have learned from Europe about how to care for our people. Money won over people. 

Well, the outcome is clear to me, if we continue with this privatization trend of NeoCons and NeoLibs, we will surely end life as we know it. Sharks and cockroaches will live homo sapiens and so many other flora and fauna. 

Given that reality, what is one to do today? What I plan to do is grow a garden, teach my great-grandchildren how to grow their own food, and find ways to b happy. I also intend to teach them stress management techniques because they will need all the mental and emotional skills possible. 

Ian, what a great friend we had in Felaine. I do miss her and know she wanted to leave, even as I attempted to encourage her. 

Comment by Ian Mason on August 12, 2015 at 1:13pm

Welcome, Hex5,  to a great community. We're a bit sad at the moment as we've lost a dear friend. Things are usually a bit brighter with experiences and opinions going back and forth.

Joan, as an outsider, it seems absurd that the U.S. doesn't have a proper health service. That said, Europe is going your way with private treatment being a growth industry. NeoCon and NeoLib policies are the order of the day, even with the traditional Social Democrat/Socialist parties.

 

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