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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Learning a Language as a Mature Adult

Started by Daniel Wachenheim. Last reply by Plinius 3 hours ago. 1 Reply

Trying to keep my mind exercised, and not interested in most of the reading materials that I can find.I decided to attempt to learn a language.  Actually, two.  The dilemma is, how do I do that without going to school - not an option - and without…Continue

What Annoys God Most? (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat on Thursday. 10 Replies

Long story short, it's those near misses, the almost-but-not-quite, close but no cheroot moments, or, would you believe ... Near Death Experiences!  So what's the big deal?  Betty Bowers, America's BEST Christian and self-proclaimed expert on such…Continue

Tags: Near Death Experiences, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

degrading love — part one (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat Nov 22. 11 Replies

Love is by many considered among the highest of positive emotions.  Yet when love of the type offered by deities is examined, something seems to go seriously wrong.  The love of Yahweh seems less a gift than a demand, not so much beneficence as a…Continue

Tags: TheraminTrees, god, love

Ning, Error 500s, and Whether to Migrate

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Nov 13. 47 Replies

I just got the following notice from Ning yesterday, (31 October, 2016), in the wake of this latest website outage:As some of you may be aware, we experienced a system outage earlier this morning. The cause was due to a specific network…Continue

Tags: downtime, Atheist Nexus, Ning

Introducing Douglas Murray

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 7. 4 Replies

Most of us who have been around atheism for a while know the heavyweights of our ilk.  Names like Hitchens, Dawkins, Dennett, Harris, Dillahunty and AronRa get nearly daily mention in posts and discussions on Atheist Nexus.  One name I was…Continue

Tags: Agatan Foundation, Douglas Murray

If There's a God - She's a Woman - The Author T

Started by Joe. Last reply by Chris Nov 3. 4 Replies

I came across this story and thought some here might find it interesting and humorous.It’s titled:If There’s a GodShe’s a WomanFrom the Series:Things You Can Learn from a VaginaIts on the website TheAuthorT.com under the tab, “Free to Read…Continue

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Comment by Joan Denoo on August 23, 2014 at 9:32pm

It seems the message I sent when I was in the back yard didn' get through. 

Carl that T-shirt is atrocious! No redeeming qualities at all. 

Comment by The Flying Atheist on August 23, 2014 at 7:48pm

I just want to clarify.....there's absolutely nothing wrong with large breasts, it's just that they made this awful T-shirt stand out even more prominently. 

Comment by The Flying Atheist on August 23, 2014 at 7:12pm

I wouldn't wear that T-shirt to take out the trash for fear of my neighbors seeing me. 

Comment by Plinius on August 23, 2014 at 7:00pm

I'd love to experience a totally different body, just for the different treatment you get. And Spud, you can spell my name anyway you like, even if the FSM doesn't agree.

Comment by Idaho Spud on August 23, 2014 at 6:56pm

And, only $25.  You save 4 cents.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on August 23, 2014 at 6:50pm

Once while riding the people mover train between terminals at the Dallas/Fort Worth Airport, a large, big-breasted woman in her 40's got on the train wearing a T-shirt with the following picture:

http://www.amazon.com/Think-Money-Coming-T-Shirt-XX-Large/dp/B006MP...

Very classy.  The epitome of having good taste out in public. [sarcasm]

Comment by Joan Denoo on August 23, 2014 at 5:06pm

I'm a denim and T-shirt person, myself. My old support shoes with orthotics are for the garden, my new ones are new support shoes with newer inserts. Cary cut off all my wire hair and it came back in soft as can be.

Carl, I imagine you have seen just about everything in the airports as far as fashion is concerned.

As far as a new body is concerned, Jeez, I would hate to have to train a new one! I suppose, if we still had our brains, we could use our experiences and do better the second time around.

There are those parents who claim the head of the first child should be snipped off because so many mistakes are made the first time around. We learn by doing, I suppose. 

I'm making a batch of pickled beets today; they won't be ready for at least a few days. 

The squirrels are extra busy today bringing horse chestnuts into the garden to store for their winter food supply. Such industry. 

Comment by Idaho Spud on August 23, 2014 at 4:50pm

GC, sounds like good SiFi.

Comment by Joan Denoo on August 23, 2014 at 4:37pm

We had a tremendous lightning, thunder and rainstorm yesterday. Today is beautiful blue skies with tiny puff balls of cotton-clouds. It is 2:30 here in Spokane and the temperature is a lovely 77 degrees. Perfect for puttering, reading, writing, and napping. All big project are completed and I have some little projects in the planning stage. Autumn is the perfect time to make changes.

Comment by Grinning Cat on August 23, 2014 at 4:18pm

Speaking of body transplants, one bit of SF I wouldn't mind having in the real world is the medical technology in John Varley's Steel Beach. Not only are most ailments handled as uneventfully as when we take a car to a (competent, honest) mechanic, but in that world many people routinely get new bodies every decade or two in adulthood.

But Wait, There's More! It's not uncommon for people to switch genders when they simply feel like a change. In addition to getting "original equipment" with full sexual and reproductive functionality, they obviously benefit from tech to successfully shape gender identity too. Anyway, it's noteworthy that in that society you're only considered a full adult once you've lived as a woman and as a man. (Goodbye sexism!)

(One short story set in that world featured a teenage boy with the knack of recognizing people across body changes, by their mannerisms, speech patterns, and so forth. One day his doorbell rings and he finds someone he's never seen before... except he recognizes her as his best friend, who'd been a guy but managed to get a body and gender change earlier than usual. Now she's intent on getting into the sack with him, and he's freaked out by the prospect, having never thought of his friend in those terms!)

 

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