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Degrees of Doubt: The Claims and Credentials of Ravi Zacharias (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Chris May 17. 1 Reply

Anyone here ever run onto an apologist by the name of Ravi Zacharias?  I've seen his name dropped multiple times on YouTube as supposedly being THE ONE APOLOGIST that no atheist wants to cross swords with, because of his facility with christian…Continue

Tags: Ravi Zacharias, Steve Baughman, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

The Most Hated Woman in America (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Gary S Apr 19. 7 Replies

Before Aron Ra and Matt Dillahunty, before Dawkins or Dennett or Harris or even Hitchens, there was Madalyn Murray O'Hair.  In the midst of an America where Christianity was being flaunted as a defense against the godless communists of the Soviet…Continue

Tags: Frank Zindler, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews, Madalyn Murray O'Hair

Proud Dad is REALLY Proud Now!

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Todd Williams Apr 12. 16 Replies

As some of you may or may not know, my daughter is a television news producer, currently working in Nashville, Tennessee.  Her assignment is the morning news, which means she blasts herself up at umpti-ump in the morning to organize and prepare a…Continue

Tags: Emmy, news, television, daughter, dad

attacking ideas (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat Apr 4. 1 Reply

Attacking ideas is a considerable portion of what we as atheists do.  Why attack ideas?  Ideas earn attack when they don't serve people, not just us but those who adopt said ideas, mistakenly thinking that they have value when they don't.  Our…Continue

Tags: ideas, Islam, TheraminTrees

bending truth, or "We Can All Be Manipulated" (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat Apr 4. 40 Replies

The following is one of TheraminTrees' most thorough-going pieces, wherein he looks at the process and techniques whereby a "religious" organization (which will sound VERY familiar to most of us, once introductions are made!) takes a person who…Continue

Tags: indoctrination, truth, manipulation, TheraminTrees

The Playboy Interview: Richard Dawkins

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Mar 28. 16 Replies

I suppose it was the news that Playboy magazine was returning nudes to its pages after a year's hiatus that sufficiently perked my curiosity to check them out again.  I hadn't looked at Playboy since perhaps 2008, when I began to recognize that I…Continue

Tags: Richard Dawkins, Playboy

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Comment by Plinius on October 24, 2014 at 2:21am

Best wishes to you, Brent. I'm glad you're there with family that can work together and help your mother.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on October 23, 2014 at 11:01pm

Hi, Brent.  Glad you had a moment to sign on and say hello.  Sounds like you really have your hands full.  Sorry you've had some unsettling moments with your mother recently.  She's lucky to have you and your sister around.  I hope she continues to stabilize.

You sound very excited about your future prospects in writing.  I sure hope that all works out for you.  My best regards to you, Brent.  Thanks for the stopping in.  Feel free to do so more often if you're able.    

Comment by Joan Denoo on October 23, 2014 at 10:54pm

Brent, I know the changes taking place in your mother's behaviors and difficult to watch. The fact that you have good doctoral care, and had tests done is about all you can do. 

Because my cancer chemo and radiation were hard on my heart, I am having some symptoms not unlike your mother's. It is terribly frightening for my son. I am in no plain at all, but I have a change in behavior. Please don't let these changes upset you. They are part of the processes of aging. There is nothing you can do except be there for your mother and comfort her. If she becomes afraid, reassure her and maybe hold her if she likes that. She is doing the best she can. You are the caregiver now. You need to stay calm and do whatever it is that you need to do to assure her good medical care. Reassure her that she is not alone and that you are there for her. 

I am happy to learn of possible opportunities for you in the "news game". I hope all goes as you wish.

Thanks for keeping us posted.  

Comment by Brent Feeney on October 23, 2014 at 10:17pm

Hope everyone's doing well these days. Wanted to stop by and give everyone an update on what's been going on, especially with mom.

Overall, she's still doing well (the first anniversary of her stroke took place Tuesday), but back in September - not long after my birthday - something went a bit wrong.

She had just had a shower getting ready for a scheduled doctor's appointment and was getting dressed when she suddenly felt dizzy and weak. She was sitting on the toilet, so there wasn't any danger of her falling, but she almost felt out of it. She was speaking gibberish for a bit and looked blank.

My sister was there with me and she called the doctor to describe her symptoms. The doctor recommended she head to the hospital immediately, which she did. She would up staying for two days and the doctors there thought she had a seizure.

Some medication was prescribed for her, but it didn't work very well, plus it was leaving her pretty much out of it - sleepy, groggy and all sorts of things. We've weaned her off the medicine for that, and she's back to normal. We're not wondering if she had a recurrence of congestive heart failure or something else. All the tests that were ran on her in hospital either came back inconclusive or showed no new damage to her brain.

It really bothered me seeing her so out of it because of the meds. I continue to help take care of her during the week and glad she's better, though she still has some moments.

Personaly for me, I may be getting back into the news game. I've been doing some roundup-type stuff or a group of small weeklies near where I am (a long-time friend of mine, after being out of work for a few months, got a job at the papers and asked me to help). There's some other things going on I can't comment on at the moment, but I can say there's some good possibilities that may be coming down the pipeline.

Wish me luck on that!! I still have the writing biz in my blood, believe me.

Comment by Ian Mason on October 23, 2014 at 12:48pm

I've no idea about the cats, Spud. Just a Google search.

Comment by Grinning Cat on October 23, 2014 at 12:04pm

Mindy, well put, at least about the convinced, fully believing Christians. It's part of the mindware's "immune system" that suffering and dying "can't be" evidence that the belief system doesn't work so well, but rather reinforce that the mindware is "right" -- because everything will be made right in heaven.

I'll share again DarkMatter2525's video pointing out that most Christians might hope for heaven, but don't really believe in it. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dMaK6k4oZ20

Comment by Grinning Cat on October 23, 2014 at 11:55am

Birthdays are good for you. Statistics show that those who have the most live the longest. Happy Birthday, Elaine!I'm glad you're here!

Comment by Idaho Spud on October 23, 2014 at 10:46am

Ian, are those the singing cats from "Babe: Pig in the City"?

Comment by Idaho Spud on October 23, 2014 at 10:45am

Happy day after birthday Felaine.  Always sorry for your circumstances, and appreciate your humor.

Comment by Idaho Spud on October 23, 2014 at 10:43am

Love the Christian vs Atheist statements Mindy, and glad your feeling better.

 

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