Hang With Friends

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maggie and milly and molly and may (Edward Estlin Cummings & Eric Whitacre)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 20. 2 Replies

It's amazing what you discover when you go looking for something you had no idea you'd find.  On an impulse, I pulled up Eric Whitacre's website to see if he had created any new pieces.  It would seem that he has: a song cycle called The City and…Continue

Tags: e e cummings, Eric Whitacre

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISIS

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Randall Smith Nov 18. 1 Reply

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISISGrowth in population, policies and practices that create a gap between the typical person and the wealthy,…Continue

Passive and Active voices

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Nov 16. 1 Reply

Have you noticed that much of the discussion in families and with friends, in the print media, on TV, and now on the internet is in the Passive Voice? Many people whine, complain, gripe, accuse, blame, call names, ridicule, grumble, bitch, rebuke,…Continue

Tags: and, behaviors, communication., attitudes, learned

Detroit Businesswomen Team Up to Get Rape Kits Tested

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by The Flying Atheist Nov 14. 2 Replies

Detroit Businesswomen Team Up to Get Rape Kits Tested"In 2009, a Wayne County assistant prosecuting attorney noticed…Continue

Tags: women, Enough, SAID, black, victims

Something Beautiful – Nathan Phelps & Seth Andrews

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 10. 7 Replies

And it is beautiful, too, indeed, I think some of Seth Andrews' best work.  Interesting point: rather than Seth's dulcet baritone doing the narration, this piece presses Nathan Phelps' deep bass intonation into service, bringing a different flavor…Continue

Tags: Nathan Phelps, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews, beautiful, something

Your favorite photobombs?

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Joan Denoo Oct 27. 14 Replies

Running of the bulls photobomb.Continue

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Comment by The Flying Atheist on February 2, 2014 at 1:27am

Mindy, I'm glad your heart monitor results show that all is well.  

{{{ reassuring hug }}}

Joan, thank you for the kind words.  As always, you are an inspiration.  In fact, everyone here is an inspiration.  I marvel at the wide range of topics discussed here.  It's all these stories. our highs and our lows, that trigger the necessary support from others that we need from time to time.  What a great group of people!

And now on to the mundane.......I did my federal tax return earlier this evening.  

Oh, Sk8eycat.  I love the cat walk video!  I got quite a good laugh from it. 

Comment by sk8eycat on February 2, 2014 at 12:20am

Joan, I posted this in the Kitty Group:


I think he's attacking his reflection in that shiny, tall kitchen waste basket thingie.

One of our (orange tiger) cats did that "walk" many years ago, when I was holding a tiny toy made of rabbit fur....above his head.  I never have a camera handy when things like that happen.
His name was Lyle;  I called him that so he could say his own name.

Comment by Joan Denoo on February 1, 2014 at 11:51pm

sk8eycat, a great kitty video! I've never seen a cat do THAT!

Comment by Joan Denoo on February 1, 2014 at 11:48pm

Chris, I do hope your b-i-l's convalescent home stay helps him and relieves you. What is the procedure when a person is no longer able to live alone or at his/her home? Are there facilities that he can go into? Does the government pay those bills? Not to ask about your personal situation, but as a societal issue when a person doesn't have money resources. 

When I visited a home in Hamburg, Germany, it was nationally owned and financed, I think. At least that is what I understood them to mean. It included a children's home as well. I enjoyed my visit there and found the aged and young fit well together with proper planning and policies and age-appropriate programs.  

Comment by sk8eycat on February 1, 2014 at 7:42pm

Thanks, Spud.  Now I'm twitching a bit, too.  Went online to find out how long this is going to go on..."7 - 21 Days"  is what they said.  GACK!  I have a cat-sitting job starting the 11th.....

Comment by Idaho Spud on February 1, 2014 at 1:51pm

Sorry Elaine.

Comment by sk8eycat on February 1, 2014 at 1:11pm

Oh, good, Mindy!  (About the heart monitor results)

Elaine is still having explosions.  :>(  I hate it when that happens.

So...this is the cutest kitty video I've seen in a while.  I posted it in Ailurophiles, but I thought I'd post it here too, and then go back to bed.

This kiity is adorable, but the really FUNNY part is in the last quarter of the video:

Comment by Idaho Spud on February 1, 2014 at 11:03am

No, Mindy, I don't think you did mention the results from searing your heart monitor were normal, and didn't mention the results from wearing it either : )

In any case, it's good news, and I'm glad for you.

Comment by Plinius on February 1, 2014 at 12:51am

Good morning! Such strong people you are when experiencing embarrassing health problems!

Brother-in-law went to a convalescent home to learn a lot of things all over again, like walking. We are still working in his packed apartment, cleaning out the Augean stable to find the scaredy cat. When we find her, she will go to animal care, it is impossible to put her with our cats.

Comment by Joan Denoo on February 1, 2014 at 12:03am

Good to get your news Mindy! And a good weekend to you and all on A/N. 

sk8eycat , interesting groupings. I can recognize some; we are predictable are we not?! 

Patricia, clever creation story. It makes as much sense as the garden version. 

Carl, how you doing? You have been working hard, I suspect; and I miss you when you aren't chiming in. 

Napoleon, repeat after me, "theology is nonsense". 


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