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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by tom sarbeck 10 hours ago. 4 Replies

I received a gift this morning from a virtual friend, Pamela Smith:A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :" One day an old wise teacher was walking through a village. A very angry and rude young man came up and began insulting him. "You have…Continue

Speak English? YOU FIRST! (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Thomas Murray 18 hours ago. 4 Replies

Honestly, the title to this piece is badly under-representative of the content.  To be far more accurate, what we have here is Mrs. Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, going on a rant.  Before you say it ... Say WHAAAA?  Betty Bowers ranting? …Continue

Tags: America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

A Prayer for Our Nation (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner yesterday. 2 Replies

I'm going to keep this one short and sweet.  Mrs. Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, has seen what is going on with the current occupant of the Oval Office, and my impression is that she is not at all happy with it.  True to her citizenship,…Continue

Tags: prayer, Donald Trump, Oval Office, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Any Babymetal Fans Here?

Started by Bruce Carroll. Last reply by Idaho Spud Sep 12. 5 Replies

Any Babymetal fans here besides me? I have to ask because 1) I really like Babymetal and 2) Babymetal unknowingly played a role in my journey out of religion.For those who are unfamiliar with Babymetal, here is a link to one of their most popular…Continue

Tags: Japanese Idol, Babymetal

If you could rid the world of one thing, what would it be?

Started by Idaho Spud. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Sep 11. 30 Replies

Today, I heard Seth Andrews talk about the question, "If you could rid the world of one thing, what would it be?"  My first thought was religion, but after a few seconds I decided it would be irrational or anti-scientific thinking.  That would take…Continue

Tags: anti-scientific, irrational

Ignorance is Bliss: Why Religious People Seem Happier Than the 'Nones'”.

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Idaho Spud Sep 11. 16 Replies

“Highly Religious Volunteer More, Lie Less, and Claim to Be Happier”~ Houston Chronicle; “Strongly Religious People are Happier than Non-Religious”  ~ Christian Daily."The study determined that 40 percent of highly religious adults—defined as those…Continue

Tags: Nones, happiness, non-religiosity, religiosity, bliss

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Comment by Joan Denoo on January 6, 2015 at 2:58am

Thanks for the Jazzy music Patricia. I am enjoying it. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 6, 2015 at 12:52am

Comment by sk8eycat on January 6, 2015 at 12:49am

Ohhhh, Carl!  That's sewwww saxy.  I used to listen to a late-night DJ who played that kind of music when I was in high school.   I hung out with some of the band group, and they were always experimenting with jazz.

Later, (almost 10 years) I was dating a fire-fighter who moonlighted as a headwaiter at Shelly's Manne-Hole, and got wrapped up in jazz again.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Shelly_Manne

Whew!  Takes me right back.  Thank you.

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 6, 2015 at 12:15am

Carl, a beautiful piece. I love "I don't know why!" The sax sounds wonderful, too. Never heard of Don Byas. Another new artist to put in my music file. 

The bitter cold snapped; we are now at or a tiny bit above freezing. A couple of day of this and the ice will melt on the streets and sidewalks. I expect we will have freezing weather, but for today ... it is not freezing.  

Comment by The Flying Atheist on January 6, 2015 at 12:00am

It's snowing here.  The temperature is 7 F / -14 C.

After reading the posts here it sounds like many of us have the winter blues.  Wish we could all be together in a room and chat with each other with some appropriate music in the background.

Comment by Dyslexic's DOG on January 5, 2015 at 10:52pm

Well Patricia, I used to be considered a people person, I can go anywhere and casually start a conversation with anybody about anything, too often I instigate the conversation. Yet lately I find myself avoiding the usual haunts but, still, I could be in a supermarket and start a discussion about anything with total strangers and within a few minutes cover a wide range of topics.

As I tend to drift from one subject to another very quickly.

Mostly I avoid religion, especially during religious festive periods.

Those total strangers often become acquaintances and will acknowledge me every time I see them from then on.

Probably stems from my first job as a salesman, selling chemicals and farm supplies.

So often I had to pretend to be knowledgeable on veterinary supplies, but If the answers were not on the packets (which I memorized), then I would tell them to get their vet's opinion.

Comment by kathy: ky on January 5, 2015 at 9:24pm
Patricia, that wedding invitation made me laugh. It's so much like what I live with in this area. It could have been printed here.
My gson got me a sweatshirt for xmas that reads Hell For Certain with Kentucky printed beneath. It's actually the name of a town here. I love it. It seems to offend all the fundies.
Comment by Joan Denoo on January 5, 2015 at 6:31pm

Patricia, you do look miserable. Must be some unhappy memories to go with the look. 

Let's build some good memories. What brings you pleasure? What do you do and discover that hours have gone by? Who are the people you enjoy being with? Do you like to write? You communicate so clearly and inspire me and led me nicely through cancer. 

I know, we are limited by our bodies getting older. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 5, 2015 at 6:21pm

I hope I don't come across too hard, Mindy. Life kind of toughens one up. Especially when faced with systemic problems. Being part of the 1960s movement for ethnic diversity and women's rights, I became a strategist. 

I know people fight powerfully against what I believe in. I realize there will be resistance and retaliation, I just compartmentalize it and go on with I think I can and need to do. 

Comment by sk8eycat on January 5, 2015 at 6:01pm

Our (Great) Aunt Grace had dark red hair (which had already turned white by the time we were born), and she really was a good example of the word....as in gracious, and graceful.  She and her husband put Dad through USC in the 1920s.  (He had a scholarship, but it didn't pay for everything.)

 

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