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God's Annual Performance Review (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on Monday. 6 Replies

I don't know about you guys, but there wasn't a performance review I had in 30 years of field service that I didn't LOATHE.  It seems as though Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, is up for turning the tables on the person you would expect would…Continue

Tags: review, performance, god, American's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Learning a Language as a Mature Adult

Started by Daniel W. Last reply by Joan Denoo Mar 2. 28 Replies

Trying to keep my mind exercised, and not interested in most of the reading materials that I can find.I decided to attempt to learn a language.  Actually, two.  The dilemma is, how do I do that without going to school - not an option - and without…Continue

The Playboy Interview: Richard Dawkins

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Chris Feb 19. 14 Replies

I suppose it was the news that Playboy magazine was returning nudes to its pages after a year's hiatus that sufficiently perked my curiosity to check them out again.  I hadn't looked at Playboy since perhaps 2008, when I began to recognize that I…Continue

Tags: Richard Dawkins, Playboy

Such Lyrics!

Started by Donatien Alphonse François. Last reply by Grinning Cat Feb 13. 9 Replies

Hello Friends,I was ruminating a bit today on my sixty-some years existence. My mind went back to teenage years when I first figured out religion is not only obnoxiously loud, but also nothing I wanted anything to do with. Truly. I knew by age 15…Continue

degrading love — part two (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Feb 11. 1 Reply

TheraminTrees set up religion with his left in Part One of his treatise on how religion demeans and degrades the value of love.  Here in Part Two, he brings in a devastating, "Mike Tyson" right, which negates and invalidates any claim that either…Continue

Tags: Christianity, Islam, TheraminTrees, god, love

Questions......

Started by Thomas Murray. Last reply by k.h. ky Feb 9. 6 Replies

   It has been 6 month now since I signed up for Atheist Nexus membership. The past year has been sort of a bi-polar wave of emotions for me. I hope I wasn't offensive to the folks on here and I think I have been but I don't know to who. My desire…Continue

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Comment by Plinius on September 15, 2014 at 11:44pm

That's no way to treat cats! Not funny to me and not strange either; the cats behave naturally. The commercial talks about sensitive cats, but doesn't show how they like it when they remove the tape!

Comment by The Flying Atheist on September 15, 2014 at 7:31pm

I'm not quite sure what to make of this commercial.  It's both funny and really strange. 

Comment by Ian Mason on September 15, 2014 at 2:12pm

Love the story about your young ones, Joan. If you ever get the chance there's a British T.V. series called "Time Team" which shows archeology and explains it in layman's terms.

That picture of the Riverwalk makes me want to go and see for myself. Could be interesting.

Comment by sk8eycat on September 15, 2014 at 12:13pm

Joan, imagine seeing hordes of crickets on ice that you need to glide on....while wearing an enormous hoop skirt that drags on the ice.

I freak when I see anything with more than four legs...even photos of them in magazines give me the creeps.  So my imagination would run wild thinking about those damn things crawling up the inside of my skirt....

Comment by sk8eycat on September 15, 2014 at 12:07pm

Carl, I haven't seen the Riverwalk since 1960...we always changed trains in San Antonio on our way back from Mexico.  It is MUCH more attractive now than it was all those years ago...not that it was ever ugly, but the mature greenery really makes a difference.

Comment by Idaho Spud on September 15, 2014 at 12:02pm

That's a good story Joan.  Tiny little scientists.

Comment by Joan Denoo on September 15, 2014 at 10:30am

Carl, yes, the San Antonio river walk is so lovely. We were stationed at Brooke Army Medical Center. There was a market in San Antonio, a galleria, that had a lot of Mexican nationals there with their families. It was an excellent opportunity to meet and talk with Mexican mothers and their children. Very friendly, and generous people, good bargainers as I remember. I enjoy Mexican food music, colors, architecture, and history. 

While there, my three children were pre-school age and I became acquainted with a curator of Witte Museum. He gave me a map to a dig they were working on. To get there, I had to drive on dirt roads, open and close barbed wire fences, and stare at those huge beasts that they grow in Texas, the famous beef steak providers.

When I got to the dig, a group of archeologists were in the pits with dental scrapers working on individual bones of the pre-christian native population. My three 3-year old children observed this for a while and then occupied themselves under the shade of a tree. One of the archeologists came to me and asked if I knew what my kids were doing. Investigating, I found them burying sticks in the dirt in the form of human bones, covering them, and then "doing" a dig. It was a most precious moment. Their education in archeology began in a dry, dusty, scorpion and rattler infested ancient graveyard. 

Comment by Idaho Spud on September 15, 2014 at 9:09am

Randy, now you mention it, I've noticed the same thing.  Doctors moving constantly.  Especially the ones I like the most.

Comment by Randall Smith on September 15, 2014 at 7:33am

I'm meeting with my new doctor this morning. It's a "get acquainted" session which I think is a good idea. I like knowing someone before he sticks his finger up my rectum. My old doctor "transfered" to another location. This will be my 4th doctor in the past 6 years. Whatever happened to the good old days when your family doctor was for a lifetime?

Comment by The Flying Atheist on September 15, 2014 at 6:21am

Joan, have you been to the Riverwalk?  It's quite nice.  Even in the intense heat of the Summer, it must be 10 to 15 degrees cooler than at the higher street level sidewalk surrounding it.  It's lush with green trees, foliage and water.   

 

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