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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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The Burial Waltz

Started by Donatien Alphonse François. Last reply by Donatien Alphonse François Apr 26. 4 Replies

Hi everyone,It was almost a half-century ago, at age 15 or so, that I encountered one of the more important influences in my life: a crazy group of poets/musicians who called themselves The Fugs.They had a huge impact on me in that, though raised in…Continue

Some William Blake to Ponder

Started by Donatien Alphonse François. Last reply by Donatien Alphonse François Apr 25. 6 Replies

Hello all,I'm new here, and so hope this isn't old hat. But, I just had to point you toward a marvelous poem by William Blake in case you've never read it. Despite his sometimes heavily tinged biblical references in his other art and poetry, this…Continue

God's Not Dead - The Christian Persecution Complex (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Annie Willis Apr 20. 7 Replies

Doubtless most if not all of you have heard about that sorry piece of cinema known as God's Not Dead, and perhaps its sequel, cleverly entitled: God's Not Dead 2 (wow, how original!).  Personally, I have wasted neither time nor money on either,…Continue

Tags: God's Not Dead, patheos, Neil Carter, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

Confirmed: flagged by religious people for "bullying."

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Loren Miller Apr 19. 4 Replies

According to Seth Andrews @SethAndrewsTTA  Apr 16"Confirmed. TTA was flagged by religious people for "bullying." Apparently, criticism and skepticism = persecution. #GodHatesFacts"Others reported as "Flagged" and taken off line: @The Thinking…Continue

Tags: @SethAndrewsTTA, @morehead_sarah, @Matt_Dillahunty, @jteberhard, confirmed

The Value of Atheist Nexus ... and of Keeping Contact

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Apr 17. 13 Replies

I don't know about you, but the last 24+ hours were VERY uncomfortable for me.  Why?  Because something I value a LOT, being Atheist Nexus and the people I care about on A|N were temporarily unavailable to me.  No, we're not Facebook; I don't think…Continue

Tags: maintenance, community, availability, Atheist Nexus

Atheist Pig STRIKES AGAIN!!!

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Qiana-Maieev Apr 5. 1 Reply

There's no getting around it, Atheist Pig is fast becoming my fave secular comic, and as evidence, I refer you to the following.  Jesus and Mo had better watch their respective asses, 'cuz they got a porker coming up on the outside, and I'm pretty…Continue

Tags: Atheist Pig

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Comment by Idaho Spud on April 5, 2014 at 11:55am

I think laughter is very good for us.  For one thing, it helps us face the challenges of life and overcome anger and depression.  It's the reason I watch my favorite comedy movies once a year, as well as the few comedies on TV I can find.

I wish I were like Mindy and could laugh a lot.  I can if I'm with the right people, but those people are few and far between.

Comment by Idaho Spud on April 5, 2014 at 11:48am

Good one Loren.  That's a keeper.

Comment by Idaho Spud on April 5, 2014 at 11:47am

I agree with everyone else Joan.  Your daughter was amazing as well as you.  What a story!

So glad that you were able to escape the horrible abuse and help other women as well.

Comment by Joan Denoo on April 5, 2014 at 11:44am

Please do remember, my story is not a pitty-potty story. It is all fact and that is the point of my telling it. Hundreds of women - and men - attended my classes and pulled themselves out of their viral lives. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on April 5, 2014 at 11:40am

Oh NO! I just reread my comment Between Grinning Cat and Arp, 

I misspoke. I did not write what I meant.  I wrote, 

"The conversations that occur on Atheist Nexus are very different than on Facebook and Twitter. The real food for thought comes on these sites. This is where I come for nourishment and for a safe place to rant." 

I should have written:

The conversations that occur on Atheist Nexus are very different than on Facebook and Twitter. The real food for thought comes here on Atheist Nexus sites. This is where I come for nourishment and for a safe place to rant. 

Comment by Randall Smith on April 5, 2014 at 8:15am

Admittedly, I've led a very sheltered life. Reading I Fired God,  Joan's story, plus some recent television "exposes", I realize that there's a different world beyond my insolated walls--savage, brutal, sickening. My rose colored glasses have really fogged up recently. Thanks to all that are doing something about the ugliness of our society.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on April 5, 2014 at 1:42am

Joan, thanks for sharing the intimate details of your story.  It really humbles me and puts perspective on my own life.  I've been extremely lucky to have been raised by two caring parents along with three other wonderful siblings.  Other than the expected backlash of anger I may have received from my parents when I truly deserved it, there was no kind of abuse whatsoever in my childhood.  I can't imagine what it must have been like for you to live in a constant state of fear of physical or mental abuse, both as a child and as an adult. 

It seems almost ironic that it took the actions of a small 10 year old kid to stand up to your husband and to plant the seeds of freedom into you.  You did a wonderful thing for yourself and for your children by taking your life back.  And it shows when you post stories and pictures of them here on A|N.  You have accomplished so much in your life and have proven yourself as a extraordinary role model.  Hugs to you. 

Comment by Plinius on April 5, 2014 at 1:23am

And I can't figure why someone would want to beat two month old babies! That's a crime!

Comment by Plinius on April 5, 2014 at 1:20am

I marvel at your daughter, Joan, how she found the strength to defend herself - she must have learnt it from you, I think, but you didn't dare to use it at the time. Wonderful, how you escaped and grew strong!

I never laughed too in my parents' house. Sexist men only joke with people they see as equals, never with women. Such men target their unfunny jokes at women, then say women have no sense of humor.

The humor broke out when I felt good about myself, and it's still there. I even use it in teaching - so good when fifteen people have a good laugh together!

Comment by Arp on April 5, 2014 at 12:53am

Joan, I read your story, and I realized what you went through. I can only say you are a real life hero. You have my admiration.

About revealing my atheism, I have no fear in revealing my atheism to the people I know such as friends, family and relatives.

I'm only concerned about strangers and school bullies (I'm still a student) who just need a thing to pick on others.

 

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