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Hang With Friends

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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

Nobody here is into mind games. A discussion started with a loaded guilt-throwing question will be deleted.

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Goodwill to Few Men (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Donald R Barbera Jul 23. 3 Replies

Think Goodwill Industries does well by the poor?  Fact is, they do WAY BETTER for themselves, to the point where America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers, thinks they're ripping off the christian playbook a bit too well!  Have a look for yourself:…Continue

Tags: ripoff, Goodwill Industries, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Your favorite photobombs?

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Plinius Jul 10. 12 Replies

Running of the bulls photobomb.Continue

losing faith (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller Jul 5. 0 Replies

TheraminTrees has recently begun producing a new series of YouTube videos, which added to a wonderful library of earlier observations regarding his experience of religion. Good as all those pieces are, I personally think they pale against this…Continue

Tags: story, history, faith, TheraminTrees

Betty Explains Religious Freedom (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Jul 3. 10 Replies

Well, considering all the RFRA bills popping up all over the United States, plus all the fun and games ISIS is bringing to the good folks in Syria and Iraq, Betty Bowers, the epitome of well-dressed christianity, has decided to clarify the true…Continue

Tags: persecution, ISIS, Religious Freedom, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner May 6. 82 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

Tags: surreal

Let's not define ourselves or others by our worst behaviors

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Dominique Lutz Apr 16. 6 Replies

My take on the recent melt down at Hang With Friends, of which I missed part, is that some of us were tripped up by a habit of thought. It's something we learn growing up, and use without realizing how much pain it can generate -  failing to…Continue

Tags: dispute at Hang With Friends

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Comment by Joan Denoo on November 25, 2013 at 4:58pm

Patricia, according to my son, daughter and son-in-law, all who work in or own their own computer companies have very strong thoughts about Microsoft and Windows. My daughter got me into Mac's years ago and now I am using MacBook; I love it, take it with me in my brief case, can take photos with it. Not good quality, but at least I can gap a shot if not too detailed. 

My daughter uses MacBook Pro in her business, Larry uses one in his business, and they just bought one for the Pend Oreille County Volunteer Fire Dept. 

Comment by Joseph Corder on November 25, 2013 at 4:46pm

Thanks guys!!  I will say nothing unless she wonders why.  I was more afraid of what to say than saying nothing at all!  She will no doubt wonder if I am avoiding her request.  If this happens I will tell her what I think and why.  I hope that she understands and doesn't try to push the issue unless she want to see Mr. Ugly rear his defiant head!!

Comment by Loren Miller on November 25, 2013 at 4:26pm

Joe, stating that you don't believe in anything supernatural is hardly what I would call an inflammatory statement.  Question: would you former girlfriend follow and join an atheists' group?  Is sauce for the goose a horse of a different color?

Have her try that shoe on the other foot - see how it feels to her.

Comment by Idaho Spud on November 25, 2013 at 4:23pm

Joseph, I'm more hardcore than you and would tell her that I'm sorry, but I'm certain religion does a lot more harm than good, so I can't support her.  That's basically what I've told my family.

Comment by Joseph Corder on November 25, 2013 at 4:10pm

Hey guys,  I have a problem.  I have been talking to an old girlfriend from 33 yrs. ago.  She is nice but she is a jesus freak but doesn't talk to me about it (she knows how I feel)  She runs a youth group and the other day she asked me to like and follow them.  It is helping kids but with a jesus component.  She has a list of things that she thinks are wrong with the kids today.  One is that the average kid in her area spends about 1 hour a week (this is to long for me!).  I find myself not wanting to do what she asked me to do because of the religious component!  I hate not supporting her youth group, but I can't do it with the religious slant!!  I surprised myself that I am that hardcore and its scary!  What would you guys do?  I have found a way to feel comfortable if asked about religion.  I just tell them that I DO NOT BELIEVE IN ANYTHING SUPERNATURAL.  Is this bitching out?  I don't want to hurt any feelings, so I ignore her invitations to follow her group.  I Need Help and this is the only place that I feel comfortable!!  What would you do?

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 25, 2013 at 2:25pm

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 25, 2013 at 2:03pm

Spud, I like Facebook because new information constantly arrives on my major interests, politics, economics and religion. I simply block anyone or thing in which I am not interested.

I want my story out there because I want people to understand family violence. Not being seen, and people having so many myths about it, I want rich/poor, educated/uneducated, dominant/submissives to know the harm that comes from socialized behaviors, and I want victims to know they don't have to be victims.

It seems even some brutes read my stuff and some get violent with me and others ask me questions. My skin is so tough, most bad stuff just bounces off and makes me more determined to tell my story!  

Comment by Idaho Spud on November 25, 2013 at 1:54pm

I think I will close my G+ page.  I never use it.

Comment by Idaho Spud on November 25, 2013 at 1:52pm

I've not had any bad comments on my facebook page, but have been thinking of closing it before it happens.  I don't have any personal things on it, and only keep it so I can see what a Private Salt Lake City ex-mormon group is doing.

I'm still thinking about it, but at the first comment I don't like, it will be history.

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 25, 2013 at 1:51pm

Patricia, you and I must be twins. "gimme my reading, music, pets, & leave me the hell alone, thanks" is my theme in many ways. "Don't tell me what to do" fits just a little better for me. 

Love your photo of the starfish. 

Steph: your kitty and bird look so cute. 

 

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