Hang With Friends

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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

Nobody here is into mind games. A discussion started with a loaded guilt-throwing question will be deleted.

This group is not intended to compete with other groups on topics they cover but to "fill in the cracks." Whenever a discussion dwells at length on a topic for which there's an existing group, we urge you to provide members a link to that group to continue along their tangent.

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maggie and milly and molly and may (Edward Estlin Cummings & Eric Whitacre)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 20. 2 Replies

It's amazing what you discover when you go looking for something you had no idea you'd find.  On an impulse, I pulled up Eric Whitacre's website to see if he had created any new pieces.  It would seem that he has: a song cycle called The City and…Continue

Tags: e e cummings, Eric Whitacre

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISIS

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Randall Smith Nov 18. 1 Reply

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISISGrowth in population, policies and practices that create a gap between the typical person and the wealthy,…Continue

Passive and Active voices

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Nov 16. 1 Reply

Have you noticed that much of the discussion in families and with friends, in the print media, on TV, and now on the internet is in the Passive Voice? Many people whine, complain, gripe, accuse, blame, call names, ridicule, grumble, bitch, rebuke,…Continue

Tags: and, behaviors, communication., attitudes, learned

Detroit Businesswomen Team Up to Get Rape Kits Tested

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by The Flying Atheist Nov 14. 2 Replies

Detroit Businesswomen Team Up to Get Rape Kits Tested"In 2009, a Wayne County assistant prosecuting attorney noticed…Continue

Tags: women, Enough, SAID, black, victims

Something Beautiful – Nathan Phelps & Seth Andrews

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 10. 7 Replies

And it is beautiful, too, indeed, I think some of Seth Andrews' best work.  Interesting point: rather than Seth's dulcet baritone doing the narration, this piece presses Nathan Phelps' deep bass intonation into service, bringing a different flavor…Continue

Tags: Nathan Phelps, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews, beautiful, something

Your favorite photobombs?

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Joan Denoo Oct 27. 14 Replies

Running of the bulls photobomb.Continue

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Comment by Tony Carroll on November 10, 2013 at 9:23pm

Comment by Ian Mason on November 10, 2013 at 2:47pm

My daughter and her boyfriend have found a flat and are moving in together on the 3rd Jan. My little girl has grown up. I hope I  can get used to saying "son-in-law" before I start hearing "granddad". They've got to finish uni and get jobs first so I may have a couple of years to go. I just hope they'll be happy. My daughter is sensible enough to choose a good man so they have every chance.

Comment by Idaho Spud on November 10, 2013 at 10:53am

Love the sewage water graphic Patricia.

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 10, 2013 at 5:42am

Ian, I understand and share the urge to read more. This piece on Joseph Campbell and "Follow your bliss", including his works. Near the end of his life he powerfully supported Marija Gimbutas work and they both wrote more sensitively as a result of their friendship. 

I'm going back to the piece now to read (MORE: Why Fighting Enemies Isn't Good for You) and (MORE: Life Lessons From 'The Wizard of Oz'). 

Comment by The Flying Atheist on November 10, 2013 at 3:45am

Ian, thanks for posting the link referring to Joseph Campbell.  I've never read any of his books but I have watched many of his lectures and interviews on DVD.  He's endlessly interesting and educational.  I always end up with the feeling that I just earned a college degree.

I know it's a turn-off for some, but I've always enjoyed his academic, classroom-style of presentation.  I could listen to him speak and tell stories for hours.        

Comment by Ian Mason on November 10, 2013 at 1:25am
Comment by Ian Mason on November 10, 2013 at 1:08am

Joan, you write a beautiful picture of the season.

Actually, I've been using less time on  the computer and more time catching up on reading. It  feels like the right thing to do at the moment. Not that I'm ignoring my friends here as I do try to keep up with what's going on but sometimes I feel I have less to say.

Keep well, all.

Comment by Steph S. on November 9, 2013 at 10:01pm

thank you Tony - very good

Comment by The Flying Atheist on November 9, 2013 at 2:30pm

Comment by Joan Denoo on November 9, 2013 at 1:50pm
Tony, I am not sure I want to open the Palin site! I've already heard her philosophies far too many times. Oh well, what the heck. Here goes ....

So, nothing new from her lips.

Here is the good news, we quickly move from Autumn Equinox to Winter Solstice, with leaves so bright in color it takes my breath away. A more beautiful scene can not be produced even by the finest painter. Or the sounds of autumn chores preparing our gardens for wet weather followed by cold blasts of wind and snow. The sounds of kids making snow structures, including our yearly igloo that glows in the dark. The harvest season always includes huge feasts of fresh foods and celebrations and Solstice brings feelings of closeness of family and friends with a feast to honor the shortest day of the year. For me, in includes the five generations gathered around the biggest family table and making decorations with sprays of coniferous branches and cones from the forest. We exchange gifts on the shortest day of the year and on New Years day we call out to the sun to start its trip across the sky bringing more light. O! It is a grand time full of love and sharing and care for the needy. The animals of the garden and forest creep into our vision, just long enough to thank them for a fine year and grateful for no forest fires.

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