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Steven Weinberg on his anti-theism

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Loren Miller yesterday. 4 Replies

I like the sound of Steven Weinberg's voice. He has a calming impact on me as I rush to get my home of 41 years ready to sell and plan and put into motion the new garden at my daughter's home. My home is full o empty boxed quickly filling with the…Continue

Goodwill to Few Men (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Donald R Barbera Jul 23. 3 Replies

Think Goodwill Industries does well by the poor?  Fact is, they do WAY BETTER for themselves, to the point where America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers, thinks they're ripping off the christian playbook a bit too well!  Have a look for yourself:…Continue

Tags: ripoff, Goodwill Industries, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Your favorite photobombs?

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Plinius Jul 10. 12 Replies

Running of the bulls photobomb.Continue

losing faith (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller Jul 5. 0 Replies

TheraminTrees has recently begun producing a new series of YouTube videos, which added to a wonderful library of earlier observations regarding his experience of religion. Good as all those pieces are, I personally think they pale against this…Continue

Tags: story, history, faith, TheraminTrees

Betty Explains Religious Freedom (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Jul 3. 10 Replies

Well, considering all the RFRA bills popping up all over the United States, plus all the fun and games ISIS is bringing to the good folks in Syria and Iraq, Betty Bowers, the epitome of well-dressed christianity, has decided to clarify the true…Continue

Tags: persecution, ISIS, Religious Freedom, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner May 6. 82 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

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Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on August 29, 2013 at 1:41pm

Greetings, All! I finally woke up at 7:30 AM, like a normal person.

I don’t quite have my head on straight yet. Maybe I'll adjust to this waking up in the morning life in a few days.

Thanks for the description of your niece’s wedding, Flying Atheist. And your cute pictorial introduction. When I was an undergraduate my friends were hooked on trains, particularly their sounds. They took me to sit by a railroad early in the morning just to listen to the train going by.

Booklover, I’m so glad your daughter is happy. Drag racing is’t my cup of tea either, but it’s good for couples to have separate interests too. I seldom un-join groups here, even if I haven’t contributed in a long time. Because as soon as I’d do that the next day I’d have some fascinating bit of news on THAT topic that I’d live to share.

Sk8eycat, your talent for dancing contrasting to other coordination skills fascinated me.  I hadn’t imagined such a discrepancy were possible. My physical skills usually hovered around the median, excepting for sewing (D-).

Thanks for your patience, Everyone.

Comment by Ian Mason on August 29, 2013 at 12:57am

Hi  Carl. Glad to hear that you've being enjoying yourself amid all the rush and long days. Allways good to read your posts. That's a fun "Instant cat kit"

Comment by The Flying Atheist on August 28, 2013 at 11:57pm

Hello, Friends.

I'm a little

and trying to

I've been busy working a lot, it seems.  No more than usual, it just seems like a lot.  I've had some long days, though.  (Had a 15-hour long work day last week.) 

I did manage to spend five days in Sacramento in mid-August with lots of family members for my niece's wedding.  The wedding was in a wonderful setting.  The ceremony was held outside on the grass at a California wine vineyard and the reception was inside their barn building tasting room.  They served a scrumptious silky smooth Petite Sirah and an almond-infused sparkling wine.  Mmmmm

Sacramento also has a wonderful state railroad museum.  So much railroad history is there because Sacramento was the western terminus of the transcontinental railroad (or the beginning of the line for the Chinese laborers who worked going west before meeting up in Utah with the Irish from the east.)  Several years ago I had read Stephen Ambrose's book Nothing Like It In The World: the Men Who Built the Transcontinental Railroad, so the museum was a great visual supplement to that book and it's colorful characters.  We all have our differences across cultures and around the world, but throughout the years I've noticed one universal trait that is consistently clear:  everybody loves trains.  Riding them, watching them, real trains, model trains, all ages.  My parents and I had a nice relaxing ride aboard a 1920's coach railroad car.  

Patricia, the video of the orca's is phenomenal.  What a sight to see!  So many in one place.  Oh, and 'hello' to a fellow sax player. 

Mindy, I totally understand wanting to scale down and simplify.  I dislike clutter and being overwhelmed by possessions, although I do appreciate an interesting collection as a hobby.  I have my postcard collection and my Halloween decorations appear to magically be growing ten-fold.  (Must stay away from eBay.)   

Ian, I'm sorry to read about your family's medical issues, but I'm glad that you're relatively close enough to fly there to take care of business.  Dealing with loved ones who have deteriorating issues is difficult, but they are lucky to have you there to make important decisions on their behalf.  I wish you all well. 

Felaine, I so enjoy reading about your entertainment past and seeing your photos.  I can just imagine the many wild stories you have in your memory from your show days.  Believe me, I know.  When you get musicians, actors, theater performers, showbiz types all together, hilarity and questionable activities ensue.  

Sorry to be so long.  Time for bed now.  It's good catching up with all of you. 

Comment by Lillie on August 28, 2013 at 10:14pm

Don't know how they got them all to sit still in the box.  Mine would have been all over the place.

Comment by sk8eycat on August 28, 2013 at 8:24pm

Carl, send me a kit ASAP!  How much is it? Do you take debit cards?

Comment by Idaho Spud on August 28, 2013 at 3:12pm

Got a good chuckle out of the Crazy Cat Lady starter kit.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on August 28, 2013 at 1:28pm

Just for you, Mindy.........

Comment by Plinius on August 28, 2013 at 2:11am

LOL, I know how hard balls are when they hit you in the face, so I  stayed out of ball games.

I like Ackroyd's books! I read London Under and The Clerkenwell Tales. Now reading the biography of a Dutch atheist - Adriaan Koerbagh 1633 - 1669) who wrote a new dictionary: every lemma was a kick in the face of religion, and he was tortured till he died for it.

Comment by Ian Mason on August 27, 2013 at 9:56pm

Nothing wrong with a ramble, Mindy. I agree with the "library" quote.

It's useful to catch a moving ball when it's heading your way, Chris. Do you know how hard a cricket ball is?

After some periods without a pc (holiday, pc broken) I've found that I can live without one most of the time and have read a lot more, the way I used to. Latest: "London: the biography" by Peter Akroyd" ( Over 800 pp), and "Breakfast of Champions" by Kurt Vonnegut.

Have a new lap-top now and am having to spend time learning some basics for Windows 8. Still haven't found how to access the media player so as to hear my favourite radio stations, KCSM and Radio Mozart but can hear the BBC, a good thing when the Prom season is in full swing.

Peace and love, all.

Comment by sk8eycat on August 27, 2013 at 2:04pm

Joan, I don't think I was particularly disciplined, I just couldn't stand still whenever I heard music. Some of my earliest memories are of making up my own "dances" to "The Nutcracker," "H.M.S. Pinafore," and whatever Glenn Miller or Andrews Sisters stuff was playing on the radio.  I had never actually seen ballet or any kind of dancing till I began taking lessons when I was six.

I first saw ice skating when I was eleven, after Dad bought a TV set.  I roller-skated on the sidewalks with all the other kids, of course, but it has snowed here only once in my lifetime.(We went bonkers.)  "Frosty Frolics" was a summer replacement TV show, broadcast live from a big rink in Pasadena.  I was HOOKED! Obsessed.  Gliding looked so much more graceful than tippy-toeing across a stage in those painful pink shoes. (I hated dancing en pointe.)
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Ian, I think most people are somewhat "mixed brain." I'm right-handed, but always hated sports that required hand-eye coordination...particularly soft(HAH!)ball. I never could catch the damned things...and I got hit in the face more than once trying.  They HURT! 

When I was in high school, my gym class had a short course in archery; I never managed to even hit any targets.  My arrows went all over the field. It was fortunate that I didn't hit a classmate, OR the teacher.

If I wasn't using my legs, I was a total KLUTZ!  (Never was able to touch-type, either...still can't.  For some odd reason, I became a whiz at using a 10-key...the numbers went directly from my eye to my fingers...may have been using my left eye at the time. I dunno. So I spent 40 years as a bookkeeper. I actually enjoyed it.)

 

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