Hang With Friends

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The myth of religions

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Joan Denoo Feb 16. 3 Replies

The creation myth of civilizations instructs men to dominate, to conquer, to go forth and multiply. No reasonable person would pay attention to such a god. No hunter-gatherer receives such a senseless message from wise elders.However, that idea…Continue

Tags: masculine, violation, imperative, go forth and multiply,, conquest

Winter Driving, Preparing for the worst

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Joan Denoo Feb 1. 2 Replies

Now that we enter the time the Celtics called Imbolc, a pagan celebration of the beginning of spring and season of new life, I ran across this video on preparing for winter driving. It offers reasons for each thing he puts in his vehicles to be safe…Continue

Tags: prepare, driving, winter

A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Chris Dec 26, 2017. 10 Replies

I received a gift this morning from a virtual friend, Pamela Smith:A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :" One day an old wise teacher was walking through a village. A very angry and rude young man came up and began insulting him. "You have…Continue

10 Tricks from 46 (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Nov 6, 2017. 3 Replies

Apparently, Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, has been slumming.  That is to say, she's been talking to Mike Pence [gasp!].  It would seem as though Mike has offered some of his not-so-personal tricks of the trade on how to be a 21st century…Continue

Tags: tricks, Mike Pence, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Grinning Cat Oct 19, 2017. 99 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

Tags: surreal

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Comment by Patricia on February 15, 2018 at 2:41pm

Comment by Joan Denoo on February 15, 2018 at 11:41am

Too many parents, at least in my opinion, give too many things to their kids, expecting stuff to replace good parenting. And, too many parents think that transporting their children to music lessons or athletic practice is good parenting. I hear the kids cry out for free time and they just can't have it. 

I feel sorry for kids raised in covenant communities because they require limited noise and activities, like play, which helps children develop their attributes. 

One of the things I like about living deep in the forests of Washington State is the opportunity the kids have to explore and experiment. They build tree houses and dig caves. They design and create forts and all the while, surrounded by pet animals, and abundance of wildlife. They can give out loud squeals as they discover something new or invent tools to complete a task. They also have chores that matter, i.e., feed the animals, clean the hutches and pens, and load up trash for a trip to the dump.

Jobs of the future will require training in technology. Homes of the future will need plumbers, electricians, carpenters, and other skilled trades. Society needs people who can work with others, plan, design, and create new technologies. World Wide interaction requires skills of valuing diversity and working as part of a team. Is education providing the kinds of training that prepare children for the future into which they will grow?


Comment by Joan Denoo on February 15, 2018 at 11:35am

It was April 16, 1999, in Littleton, CO., at Columbine High School when two teenage boys, Eric Harris, 18, and Dylan Klebold, 17, murdered 12 students, a teacher, wounded 20 others, and killed themselves. 


Some say others bullied Harris and Klebold, or that they belonged to a group of social outcasts called, "The Trenchcoat Mafia." Both killers watched violent video games and music. None of the theories were ever proven. 

Investigative journalist Dave Cullen, author of the 2009 book ”Columbine,” described Harris as ”the callously brutal mastermind, while Klebold was a quivering depressive who journaled obsessively about love and attended the Columbine prom three days before opening fire.

I don't know why the massacres happened here in Littleton or at the many other places. I do know the atmosphere feels very different in family and community life for children today than in my childhood. There is so much pressure to make a living that stress permeates the family unit. The middle-class kids have tremendous pressure put on them to perform, academically and athletically so they can get scholarships for college. I don't like living with such force, I don't think it is good for marriages, and I very much reject what is happening to the kids. 

Comment by Ian Mason on February 15, 2018 at 7:23am

I really don't know what's wrong and I really don't know how to stop it. Is it because the US has a national 'mythology' that problems can be solved with guns? You know, the way John Wayne, Gary Cooper, Clint Eastwood and the rest of them have done. Does each new shooting 'inspire' the next? Would some people rather be famous for a crime than live unnoticed? Is Western society becoming self-destructive? I really don't know.

Comment by Loren Miller on February 15, 2018 at 5:50am

Such headlines are fast becoming the new normal, Patricia ... and faster making me want to empty my stomach.  I swear, people are becoming fucking blind to what's going on.

Comment by Joan Denoo on February 15, 2018 at 5:26am

Randy, your trip sounds like an adventure full of wonder. Have a great time. I'm happy to learn your daughter and her family will be moving closer to you; family life can be fun!

Comment by Plinius on February 15, 2018 at 3:03am

Because the NRA campaigns on and whines on about the right to bear weapons, and people believe the nonsense. That was the 17th mass murder in the USA this year...

Comment by Patricia on February 15, 2018 at 12:08am

Rex Huppke in the Chicago Tribune:

A slaughter.

Seventeen dead. At a high school. In America

It has happened before, it happened Wednesday and it will happen again.

Why? Because nothing. We do nothing.

School shooting. Nothing.

School shooting. Nothing.

School shooting. Nothing.

Comment by Ian Mason on February 14, 2018 at 4:12pm

Have a great trip, Randall.

Comment by Patricia on February 14, 2018 at 1:36pm

Sounds great, Randy. Good trip.


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