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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

Nobody here is into mind games. A discussion started with a loaded guilt-throwing question will be deleted.

This group is not intended to compete with other groups on topics they cover but to "fill in the cracks." Whenever a discussion dwells at length on a topic for which there's an existing group, we urge you to provide members a link to that group to continue along their tangent.

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What Annoys God Most? (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Chris Nov 30. 9 Replies

Long story short, it's those near misses, the almost-but-not-quite, close but no cheroot moments, or, would you believe ... Near Death Experiences!  So what's the big deal?  Betty Bowers, America's BEST Christian and self-proclaimed expert on such…Continue

Tags: Near Death Experiences, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

degrading love — part one (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat Nov 22. 11 Replies

Love is by many considered among the highest of positive emotions.  Yet when love of the type offered by deities is examined, something seems to go seriously wrong.  The love of Yahweh seems less a gift than a demand, not so much beneficence as a…Continue

Tags: TheraminTrees, god, love

Ning, Error 500s, and Whether to Migrate

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Nov 13. 47 Replies

I just got the following notice from Ning yesterday, (31 October, 2016), in the wake of this latest website outage:As some of you may be aware, we experienced a system outage earlier this morning. The cause was due to a specific network…Continue

Tags: downtime, Atheist Nexus, Ning

Introducing Douglas Murray

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 7. 4 Replies

Most of us who have been around atheism for a while know the heavyweights of our ilk.  Names like Hitchens, Dawkins, Dennett, Harris, Dillahunty and AronRa get nearly daily mention in posts and discussions on Atheist Nexus.  One name I was…Continue

Tags: Agatan Foundation, Douglas Murray

If There's a God - She's a Woman - The Author T

Started by Joe. Last reply by Chris Nov 3. 4 Replies

I came across this story and thought some here might find it interesting and humorous.It’s titled:If There’s a GodShe’s a WomanFrom the Series:Things You Can Learn from a VaginaIts on the website TheAuthorT.com under the tab, “Free to Read…Continue

His Dark Materials and the Catholic Church

Started by Tonya R. Wheeler. Last reply by k.h. ky Oct 30. 35 Replies

I recently watched the movie, "The Golden Compass" and since I could not find the sequels, I read the books. I enjoyed them, and I will be reading the first one, Northern Lights, starting tomorrow, since it just arrived via inter-library…Continue

Tags: Fantasy, Catholic, Religion, Atheist, Pullman

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Comment by sk8eycat on April 3, 2014 at 11:11am

Welcome back  to deepthought42, and belated greetings to Arp.

This is a safe place for any kind of comments, rants, whatever you need to get off your chest, or just share with friends.  I've never seen any evidence that trolls or snoops/hackers have ever been able to tap into A/N, and we've all said some pretty personal things at one time or another. Not to mention slamming every type of True Believer.

Lately I have been withdrawing into myself here in Beautiful Downtown Burbank, and this is the only place I feel comfortable connecting with real live people with lively minds...instead of getting meaningless platitudes in return, I get sensible and warm comments and advice.

So, welcome, again...pull up a chair, or a giant beanbag, or whatever makes you most comfortable...picture a cozy fire of aromatic wood crackling in the fireplace, and maybe some popcorn (or chili) in a big bowl

DO visit the "FOOD" discussion(s)!

Anything that makes you feel at ease....

Comment by Arp on April 3, 2014 at 4:26am

Oh, and thanks to you too Patricia!

Comment by Arp on April 3, 2014 at 4:24am

Hey, it worked. Thanks Grinning Cat.

Okay, those of you who have seen my name, please refer to me as Arp henceforth. You may continue to use my original name in private messages and places which are not indexed by the search engine.

I just realized if I say something which the theists perceive as offensive and they find it through the search engine, I might be in trouble if they also happen to know me in the real world.

It will be slightly better if my profile doesn't give my identity right away.

Comment by Plinius on April 3, 2014 at 3:16am

Changed both, and it works. Thanks, Grinning Cat!

Comment by Plinius on April 3, 2014 at 3:11am

I tried that, but I don't see immediately if it worked.

Comment by Grinning Cat on April 3, 2014 at 2:04am

Yes, under "Settings" (upper right, under your name and Inbox/Alerts/Friends), there are two pages where you can change your name here.

Your full name is in the normal "Profile" information (first page of Settings).

Your profile URL (for example http://www.atheistnexus.org/profile/GrinningCat) can be changed in the "My Page" section. (Especially important for people who signed up using their real name, then realize they didn't want to do that!)

Comment by Arp on April 3, 2014 at 12:17am

Hi, I was wondering if there was a way to change my user name. Can a admin do that for me?

Comment by deepthought42 on April 2, 2014 at 10:01pm

Oh goodness, I haven't been on here in a long time! Hmm, not much going on at the moment. Ok, not true. My little sister is in treatment for multiple issues and I had to break up with my boyfriend. But, I am ready to shake off the negative feelings and just enjoy my own company (and everyone here). :) I'm a bit anti-social (shy, introverted loner) as well.

Comment by Joan Denoo on April 1, 2014 at 9:03pm

Carl, you are sweet! 

Melinda, I join you in enjoying being a curmudgeon. It is a whole lot more fun than swallowing all that garbage. 

Comment by The Flying Atheist on April 1, 2014 at 9:00pm

Mindy, I just realized I called you Melinda.

Maybe I'll just call you Sybil

 

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