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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Men who challenge men to stop violence

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Idaho Spud Jan 9. 19 Replies

Many men join in the effort to reduce violence against women and children and other men. He speaks of the need to place responsibility on men instead of focusing on women to stop violence. He offers a breath of fresh air, as do so many of the men on…Continue

Ian, a beautiful New Years blessing.

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Chris Jan 5. 7 Replies

Ian, for some reason, my comment would not "send" on Hang with Friends; perhaps it will here!Ian, a beautiful New Years blessing. It goes in my file. I especially like the thought of surprising myself. Laura made a special trip to my Spokane home to…Continue

degrading love — part two (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller Jan 1. 0 Replies

TheraminTrees set up religion with his left in Part One of his treatise on how religion demeans and degrades the value of love.  Here in Part Two, he brings in a devastating, "Mike Tyson" right, which negates and invalidates any claim that either…Continue

Tags: Christianity, Islam, TheraminTrees, god, love

The Ark Encounter: A Less than Grand Opening (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Idaho Spud Dec 31, 2016. 27 Replies

The day finally arrived.  Ken Ham's Ark Encounter opened on 7 July, 2016 ... to something a bit less than Disney-sized crowds, and more than a couple dissenting voices!  Seth Andrews has gathered a quartet of significant participants in the protest…Continue

Tags: Tracey Moody, Dan Broadbent, Seth Andrews, David Silverman, AronRa

Learning a Language as a Mature Adult

Started by Daniel W. Last reply by Idaho Spud Dec 14, 2016. 27 Replies

Trying to keep my mind exercised, and not interested in most of the reading materials that I can find.I decided to attempt to learn a language.  Actually, two.  The dilemma is, how do I do that without going to school - not an option - and without…Continue

What Annoys God Most? (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat Dec 7, 2016. 10 Replies

Long story short, it's those near misses, the almost-but-not-quite, close but no cheroot moments, or, would you believe ... Near Death Experiences!  So what's the big deal?  Betty Bowers, America's BEST Christian and self-proclaimed expert on such…Continue

Tags: Near Death Experiences, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

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Comment by Grinning Cat on March 31, 2014 at 11:49pm

"Alright" is alwrong, indeed!

Following the (sometimes arbitrary) conventional rules of spelling and grammar and such doesn't make our ideas any more or less worthy. It's just that we're so conditioned to language that follows the rules that breaking them is, simply, a noticeable distraction!

In recent times, there's a parallel of sorts in our power to choose fonts and other aspects of presentation. It used to be only print shops and artists that had this visual power.

Following in Ruth's footsteps, here's a graphic:

Comment by Joan Denoo on March 31, 2014 at 11:27pm

Felaine, I am so glad you pay attention to such details. I try really hard to do a better job of writing and don't see my errors until after I press Add Comment. Sometimes I don't see them until much later. It seems proofreading fails to catch those mistakes when the material is old. I assume all the correct words are in the copy, even when that is not so.

It is kind of fun to see the slip of the finger typos; sometimes it makes very interesting reading. One wonders if they are Freudian slips.  

Comment by sk8eycat on March 31, 2014 at 10:59pm

Joan, 'm a compulsive proofreader (because I'm mildly dyslexic), and the only errors I have seen in any of the discussions in A/N have been obvious "slip of the finger" typos.  And most of them have been mine.  A sign that I need to file my nails.

Comment by Joan Denoo on March 31, 2014 at 10:50pm

I'm loving the grammar focus. Please let me know when I make a booboo. I will try really hard not to do so. 

Comment by sk8eycat on March 31, 2014 at 10:27pm

Cat, neither do "yours" and "ours."   ;> )

Lately I've been seeing "alright" in hardcover books.  AAAAACK!  Several of my teachers would make us write "ALRIGHT IS NOT ALL RIGHT."   I cringe whenever I see that one in print.

Comment by Grinning Cat on March 31, 2014 at 9:58pm

Mindy, I hope things go well with you and your son! We'll be thinking of you.

Felaine, I still like the sign I saw, "Whenever you make a typo, the errorists win."

Apostrophes can be confusing, even when we know they don't mean "Beware of oncoming S!" We write about "Jen's book" or "Josh's coat", and "it's" looks like it could be part of the same pattern, only it's not. I remember that by thinking of "his", "her", "its" -- none of them have apostrophes.

Comment by Joan Denoo on March 31, 2014 at 9:49pm

Mindy, a big challenge right now. Your daughter's help will be invaluable. She will feel so proud of herself after tackling the demanding tasks, she will not doubt feel her value and purpose. Not that she will find a calling, but she will face a problem and take it on like a trouper.  One day, one hour, one minute at a time. She will do just fine. 

I expect you and your son will come through the procedures well and be better for them. Do keep us up to date. Will send out positive energy and thoughts for both of you. 

Comment by sk8eycat on March 31, 2014 at 8:50pm

Oh, la, Joan!  My friend who writes, edits and publishes The Pet Press gets hung up with "it's" and "its," and I would get on her case about it when I was working as her proofreader.  I finally made a small poster, in the largest font that fit a sheet of printer paper, "IT'S MEANS 'IT IS' - NOTHING ELSE!"  I put it in a stand-up frame, and gave it to her for Hanukkah. 

I think she still has it on her desk.

Comment by Joan Denoo on March 31, 2014 at 7:39pm

Grinning Cat, thank you so much for your grammer sites. I am gitting so bad, I have to kepe my grammer guides by my elbo because I not only cannot remimber how to spell, I can't remimber its from it's and all the other little niseties.

Comment by sk8eycat on March 31, 2014 at 5:54pm

Patricia, it reminds me of an old, OLD joke where a small church held a mass pre-easter baptism at the local river. It had been a hard winter and there was still a layer of ice on the river.  So the men brought pickaxes, and chopped a hole in the ice large enough to allow the baptisms to be done...quickly. 

The first candidate waded out till he was in water up to his waist, the minister said the required words, grabbed the guy by his collar, and dunked him in the icy water.  BUT his hands were stiff from the cold, and he inadvertently let go of the first man, and the river current carried him under the ice and away.

The minister looked stunned for a few seconds, then he turned to the horrified crowd standing on the riverbank, and shouted, "Another brrrrotherrrr gone to glorrrry!  Amen!  NEXT!"

 

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