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Secular and Reclaimed Winter Holiday Songs

Started by Grinning Cat. Last reply by Grinning Cat May 2. 42 Replies

This is an appropriate day of the year for this subject...What are some of your favorite winter holiday songs?It would be especially good to share powerful new secular lyrics to tunes that have become associated with Christmas.…Continue

Tags: singing, lyrics, reclaimed, reclaiming, HumanLight

appropriating morality (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo May 1. 7 Replies

We've all heard the claim: "Human morality comes from god."  And we've all seen for ourselves what Yahweh's "morality" looks like, from condemnations of homosexuality and the treatment of women as chattel to inexplicable sanctions against the eating…Continue

Tags: morality, appropriating, TheraminTrees

Bible Belt Atheist (New York Times)

Started by Loren Miller Apr 19. 0 Replies

The following showed up in my YouTube feed this morning, and I decided to have a look.  Turns out, the New York Times has given us a reasonably even-handed look at a good friend of ours, being one Jerry DeWitt, former bible-thumper and now a pretty…Continue

Tags: Bible Belt, atheist, Jerry DeWitt

How would you respond?

Started by Christina Scribner. Last reply by Christina Scribner Apr 10. 5 Replies

So, this morning, I was at my local coffee shop as I am most weekdays between bus runs. I do the editing on my husband's books so I had my laptop with me. My wallpaper is a picture I found online sometime back of a double helix with the word atheist…Continue

The Fake Christian Busybody Show (Andrew Bradley)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Plinius Apr 9. 1 Reply

It seems as though there was a Gay Pride parade in some town somewhere and a Christian commentator, herein known as The Activist Mommy, apparently got her panties so in a bunch about it that she had to fire up her video camera and record a…Continue

Tags: gay, pride, The Activist Mommy, Andrew Bradley, America's Best Christian

America Held Hostage: Day 436 (MisterDeity)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Apr 9. 1 Reply

Now that Sinclair Broadcasting has stated their position regarding fake news and its threat to our democracy, Mister Deity's Brian Dalton has decided to throw his $0.02 worth in as well ... though I don't quite think his presentation was really what…Continue

Tags: fake news, Deity, Mister, Broadcasting, Sinclair

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Comment by Joan Denoo on June 18, 2014 at 5:27pm

Ian, it is interesting you chose Sisyphus for the other side to represent daily labor against alcoholism and depression. 

Sisyphus did not win victory over his history, but paid the ultimate price of failing throughout all eternity. 

May I offer a Greek god, Zeus, who was victorious over his father who tried to destroy him. He became king of the gods and lived with his brothers and sisters on Mt Olympus. They did battle with Titans with strength restored by nectar “that which overcomes death” and ambrosia upon which the Olympians feasted perpetually. Zeus’ weapon was a thunderbolt and he was victorious over his adversaries. He became known as the dragon slayer, known to punish those that lie and break oaths. 

Zeus becomes a metaphor of one who overcomes adversaries, using his weapon, a thunderbolt to take on his demons.

Comment by Ian Mason on June 18, 2014 at 4:32pm

I've only got one tattoo, an ankh and my daughter's name, on my left (heart side) arm. For me, it represents living on through children, the only "immortality" we can have. I will have grandchildren's names added if and when they turn up. I'm also considering getting one of Sisyphus on the other side to represent my daily labour against alcoholism and depression. I'm quite happy about having them as they mean something to me, they're not some kind of decoration that I'll regret in the future.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4w90iTGBm2o

Comment by Grinning Cat on June 18, 2014 at 3:53pm

And I'm with Carl when it comes to tattoos. I've admired beautiful ones on other people, but for myself I'll pass -- too painful and too permanent.

(Hey... why don't more of the fundamentalist Christian god-botherers denounce tattoos? It violates the very same book of Leviticus they love to quote in other contexts.)

Comment by Joan Denoo on June 18, 2014 at 3:49pm

The year was 1959, Time magazine came out with an article about the African witch doctors that used eyes of newt, tails of lizard, bones of ancestors and slime from the brackish waters and danced around the person infected with some deadly diseases. 

Modern medicine came to the African countries to try to eradicate those awful diseases, and no one would come to them.

So, the western medicine people and the African elders got together and devised a scheme whereby the African medicine man would cast his magic spells over the suffering person and the western medicine man would do a differential  diagnosis, develop a treatment plan and administer modern medicine or techniques. The person who suffered got better, the African dignity was maintained and the modern methods did their job. Over time, the medicine man cast his approval on western medicine and he could bow out. It took years and it worked. 

My husband was in dental school at the U of WA and I wrote many of his papers for him. I had first hand knowledge of modern methods of diagnosis, treatment and prevention. I looked at the photos of African medicine man and women, their tattoos, their body piercings, and their magic and just decided I would not insult my body with tattoos or body piercings, nor would I accept, without skepticism, any medical technique.  

Comment by Grinning Cat on June 18, 2014 at 3:42pm

Tardigrades, the half-millimeter-long "water bears", do seem like something straight out of science fiction!

They "can withstand temperatures from just above absolute zero to well above the boiling point of water, pressures about six times greater than those found in the deepest ocean trenches, ionizing radiation at doses hundreds of times higher than the lethal dose for a human, and the vacuum of outer space. They can go without food or water for more than 10 years, drying out to the point where they are 3% or less water, only to rehydrate, forage, and reproduce."

Comment by Joan Denoo on June 18, 2014 at 3:37pm

Well, Mindy, this took a little searching and this is what you might mean 

tardigrade

Comment by The Flying Atheist on June 18, 2014 at 1:05pm

I've never been a tattoo or piercing kind of person.  I'm not knocking it for other people, but for myself I can't think of anything that is so important in my life that I want a representation of it permanently enshrined on my skin.  I'm not into wearing rings, necklaces or jewelry either.

Comment by Plinius on June 18, 2014 at 12:54am

That ís a tragedy, to be stuck with a bad tattoo. I wonder how many people hate their tattoos after a few years?

Comment by Ian Mason on June 17, 2014 at 10:39pm

Awlays find a tattooist who can spell.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on June 17, 2014 at 2:38pm

That's a great story, Chris.  Nice surprises are wonderful.  

 

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