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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Men who challenge men to stop violence

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Idaho Spud Jan 9. 19 Replies

Many men join in the effort to reduce violence against women and children and other men. He speaks of the need to place responsibility on men instead of focusing on women to stop violence. He offers a breath of fresh air, as do so many of the men on…Continue

Ian, a beautiful New Years blessing.

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Chris Jan 5. 7 Replies

Ian, for some reason, my comment would not "send" on Hang with Friends; perhaps it will here!Ian, a beautiful New Years blessing. It goes in my file. I especially like the thought of surprising myself. Laura made a special trip to my Spokane home to…Continue

degrading love — part two (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller Jan 1. 0 Replies

TheraminTrees set up religion with his left in Part One of his treatise on how religion demeans and degrades the value of love.  Here in Part Two, he brings in a devastating, "Mike Tyson" right, which negates and invalidates any claim that either…Continue

Tags: Christianity, Islam, TheraminTrees, god, love

The Ark Encounter: A Less than Grand Opening (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Idaho Spud Dec 31, 2016. 27 Replies

The day finally arrived.  Ken Ham's Ark Encounter opened on 7 July, 2016 ... to something a bit less than Disney-sized crowds, and more than a couple dissenting voices!  Seth Andrews has gathered a quartet of significant participants in the protest…Continue

Tags: Tracey Moody, Dan Broadbent, Seth Andrews, David Silverman, AronRa

Learning a Language as a Mature Adult

Started by Daniel W. Last reply by Idaho Spud Dec 14, 2016. 27 Replies

Trying to keep my mind exercised, and not interested in most of the reading materials that I can find.I decided to attempt to learn a language.  Actually, two.  The dilemma is, how do I do that without going to school - not an option - and without…Continue

What Annoys God Most? (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat Dec 7, 2016. 10 Replies

Long story short, it's those near misses, the almost-but-not-quite, close but no cheroot moments, or, would you believe ... Near Death Experiences!  So what's the big deal?  Betty Bowers, America's BEST Christian and self-proclaimed expert on such…Continue

Tags: Near Death Experiences, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

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Comment by Steph S. on August 4, 2013 at 10:16pm

How is everyone? Yes I am still alive.

Just one more week of this summer class.

Wow - it has been lots of work.

Final Exam is on Friday.

Then I hope to spend more time with all of you.

I sure have missed you all.

I hope you all are doing well.

Comment by Joan Denoo on August 4, 2013 at 9:58pm

Oh my gosh! What on Earth would a person be doing out at sea alone? Doesn't sound like fun to me. 

Comment by Loren Miller on August 4, 2013 at 7:48pm

Any Robert Redford fans here?  I'm not a huge one, particularly.  Never saw Dances With Wolves or Out of Africa, love The Natural ... but in any case, you might want to consider the following:



because it looks like the man has his "A" game on...

Comment by sk8eycat on August 4, 2013 at 6:11pm

Universal Single-Payer healthcare obviously benefits everybody. What I don't understand is why so many people in this country just don't effing GET it!  What are they afraid of?  Because the hateful comments I see online are full of fear; the words "communism" and "socialism" are tossed around by people who don't know what they really mean. They just think they are insulting dirty words...like "bullshit"....and "atheism," I guess.  Heh!

(See? I'm getting my sense of humor back.  You all are helping...immensely.)

As for Hairy Jerry...he was one of the few cats I've had who really liked to sleep in my arms...up until a few weeks ago.  Then last week he went downhill so fast that I had trouble getting the money together AND a ride.  (I sold my car and let my drivers' license lapse last year because 1) I'm afraid of 80% of the drivers on the road around here, and 2) I have neuropathy in my feet, and sometimes couldn't feel whether I was stepping on the brake or the gas.  Too dangerous!)

Warm hugs to everybody here!  It's so good to have a group of friends who really understand...About 30 years ago I was in this same emotional place, only I was working in a large ad office, and some jackass said something like, "Why are you carrying on like that?  He was only a cat."  I started to go after him with my Exact-o Knife....and decided he wasn't worth making a mess over.  But I still clench my jaw whenever I think of remarks like that.

Love Cats in Moonlight

Comment by Idaho Spud on August 4, 2013 at 2:19pm

Simon & Garfunkel.  My favorite group.

Comment by Idaho Spud on August 4, 2013 at 2:18pm

Feeling for you Felaine.  I tear-up every time I read something about Hairy Jerry.

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on August 4, 2013 at 12:54pm

Ian, I agree 100% with your post about universal health care.

Comment by Plinius on August 4, 2013 at 10:07am

Soon memories of him will make you smile.

And you're right, Mindy! I've got about ten cats playing games in my memory, talking to me or just sleeping, somewhere  where I can almost see them - I miss them, but the memories are wonderful.

Comment by Ian Mason on August 4, 2013 at 5:02am

Comment by Ian Mason on August 4, 2013 at 4:48am

Condolences, Felaine. I'm sure he had a happy life.

Proof reading: "our husband"? Joined the Mormons, Joan?

One more night of work and then I'm off to England for a week. Half my time there will be in care homes though, but as a visitor, not a worker.

 

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