Hang With Friends

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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

Nobody here is into mind games. A discussion started with a loaded guilt-throwing question will be deleted.

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Mental health in the age of violence: Dr. Elliott Ingersol

Started by Loren Miller 2 hours ago. 0 Replies

I literally just discovered Dr. Elliott Ingersol yesterday, as a part of a discussion I had with other members of the Northern Ohio Freethought Society.  Dr. Ingersol is a licensed psychologist and clinical counselor in Ohio, as well as a professor…Continue

Tags: talk, psychotropic, therapy, psychology, Elliott Ingersol

maggie and milly and molly and may (Edward Estlin Cummings & Eric Whitacre)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 20. 2 Replies

It's amazing what you discover when you go looking for something you had no idea you'd find.  On an impulse, I pulled up Eric Whitacre's website to see if he had created any new pieces.  It would seem that he has: a song cycle called The City and…Continue

Tags: e e cummings, Eric Whitacre

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISIS

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Randall Smith Nov 18. 1 Reply

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISISGrowth in population, policies and practices that create a gap between the typical person and the wealthy,…Continue

Passive and Active voices

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Nov 16. 1 Reply

Have you noticed that much of the discussion in families and with friends, in the print media, on TV, and now on the internet is in the Passive Voice? Many people whine, complain, gripe, accuse, blame, call names, ridicule, grumble, bitch, rebuke,…Continue

Tags: and, behaviors, communication., attitudes, learned

Detroit Businesswomen Team Up to Get Rape Kits Tested

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by The Flying Atheist Nov 14. 2 Replies

Detroit Businesswomen Team Up to Get Rape Kits Tested"In 2009, a Wayne County assistant prosecuting attorney noticed…Continue

Tags: women, Enough, SAID, black, victims

Something Beautiful – Nathan Phelps & Seth Andrews

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 10. 7 Replies

And it is beautiful, too, indeed, I think some of Seth Andrews' best work.  Interesting point: rather than Seth's dulcet baritone doing the narration, this piece presses Nathan Phelps' deep bass intonation into service, bringing a different flavor…Continue

Tags: Nathan Phelps, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews, beautiful, something

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Comment by Ian Mason on January 8, 2013 at 8:09am

Comment by Plinius on January 8, 2013 at 6:44am

Thanks for sharing, Sk8eycat!

Comment by Tony Carroll on January 8, 2013 at 6:14am

Comment by sk8eycat on January 8, 2013 at 12:02am

Oh, Steph!  I luvz taht's me all over!  My internal clock is all bass-ackward from the 12 days I spent with Mr. Duncan.  We watched TV ALL night, almost every night...mostly waiting for congress to get its sh*t together New Year's Eve.

So, now I'm still awake all night, and sleeping late when I have things I HAVE to do in the AM. 

I have to find a new MD...Dr. BadJokes, who has been my GP for 42 years (!!!), finally retired, with very little warning.  I feel like I've lost a member of my family.

I also have to find a vet for the who gives discounts to "seniors."  I came home to find a great lump on Hairy Jerry's jaw/neck.  He doesn't seem to feel any pain from it when I touch it, and he's eating normally, but still...  It must be looked at and dealt with.  He really does look like a kid with mumps on one side.  (I'm hoping it's "just" an abscessed tooth...not a tumor.  Yikes!)

I should have done something about both situations last week, but I'm a world-class procrastinator.  Just like that kitteh.

Comment by Steph S. on January 7, 2013 at 10:14pm

Booklover - I love your walk is over now lol.

Cute mouse Joan.

I am enjoying reading all the posts here. Thanks to all of you for sharing.

Comment by Ian Mason on January 7, 2013 at 10:12pm

Thanks for the Nat Geo pics, Joan.

It's been fascinating to follow the recent discussions on education and love. Both subjects leave me feeling very confused.

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 7, 2013 at 8:36pm

Thanks Frank-Vicky Giannangelo

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 7, 2013 at 8:13pm

“The aim of art is to represent not the outward appearance of things, but their inward significance.” ~ Aristotle via Phil Rockstroh

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 7, 2013 at 7:04pm
Ruth, you are braver than I. Any thought of re-marriage puts me into a state of deep depression that is hard to climb out. Your second marriage works for you, and I assume, for him as well. Good job. A hat-tip to you both.
Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on January 7, 2013 at 6:53pm

The fox is my favorite, Joan. Thanks for sharing the NatGo pics.

Thanks for your heartfelt account, sk8eycat. I feel as if I know you better. I've often been in love, but I'm lucky to have found a lot of much nicer guys. And smart enough to give back the engagement rings of the first two prospects, when their true nature showed through. Never regretted those decisions. My second husband has been the real keeper.


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