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The End of the World ... Again?!?

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Pat on Thursday. 5 Replies

Uh, guys and gals?  Hate to tell you, but the world ended the other day.  And the hell of it is, I MISSED IT!  Yeah, too busy with other stuff, mowing the lawn, enjoying the company of my wife, and taking care of puddy-cats, and I just MISSED it!One…Continue

Tags: AronRa, prophecy, end of the world

Sam Harris The Case Against Christianity

Started by dudaboli yev. Last reply by Donald R Barbera on Wednesday. 1 Reply

Sam Harris The Case Against Christianity Sam Harris offers his case against the Christian god conceptSamuel Benjamin "Sam" Harris is an American author, neuroscientist, philosopher, the co-founder and chief executive of Project Reason, a non-profit…Continue

Your favorite photobombs?

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by amer chohan Sep 2. 13 Replies

Running of the bulls photobomb.Continue

An AN member passed away

Started by Deidre. Last reply by Deidre Aug 18. 4 Replies

Went into the chat room last Friday night, for the first time in a while, and learned that Mequa passed away. I had been good friends with him for a time, but we had differences and stopped talking back in the spring of this year. I knew however,…Continue

A Parable by Mrs. Betty Bowers

Started by Loren Miller Aug 17. 0 Replies

Betty Bowers is becoming SO GOOD at delivering as America's Best Christian, she now does 30-second parables!  (Okay, 32 seconds!  Picky, picky!) Have You Had YOUR Betty Today?Continue

Tags: bible, parable, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Goodwill to Few Men (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Michael Penn Aug 16. 8 Replies

Think Goodwill Industries does well by the poor?  Fact is, they do WAY BETTER for themselves, to the point where America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers, thinks they're ripping off the christian playbook a bit too well!  Have a look for yourself:…Continue

Tags: ripoff, Goodwill Industries, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

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Comment by Tony Carroll on December 17, 2012 at 7:15pm

Comment by sk8eycat on December 17, 2012 at 7:14pm

I had some "issues" with my dad when I was in my teens, but when he sobered up I quit skating and went to work in his bookkeeping and escrow office.  I learned a LOT, and got to know him better, but always felt that I'd let him down because I never went to college, never got married, etc. 

But the week after he died, I had to call ALL his clients to tell them that I wasn't qualified do their taxes and stuff (I was working in advertising by then).  Anyway, every single one of them told me "He was so proud of you."  I fell apart....and I have always wondered why he never told me that.

Oh, and we had a row with Dad's sister and her husband (son of a preacher-man) because Dad had been adamant about no services... he just wanted his ashes scattered in the ocean without any fuss, so that's what we did.  (I've already made arrangements for the same thing for myself. Phish Phood.)

Families....there's always someone who has to complicate things. Or feel offended, or whatever.

Comment by sk8eycat on December 17, 2012 at 6:42pm

Just got this as part of an e-mail from FFRF...I think it's clever


Comment by sk8eycat on December 17, 2012 at 6:34pm

Dear Grinning Cat, when my father died (in 1985, right before my 46th birthday), some twit did say "He's in a better place now," and I screamed back, "WELL, I'M NOT!!!"  Idiots.

This is not a comforting thing to say, but I have to tell the truth...I still miss him.

Comment by Grinning Cat on December 17, 2012 at 4:14pm

Thanks for all of your support and good thoughts! (And refreshingly, without having to deal with well-meaning theistic talk about a better place, etc.)

Felaine, the hugging cat is perfect!

Comment by sk8eycat on December 17, 2012 at 3:20pm

"I bought this at Macy's Cyber Monday Re-tail Sale!"

(I don't know if this is a PhotoShop-type job or not, and I don't really care...'tis beautiful!)


Comment by sk8eycat on December 17, 2012 at 2:54pm

Flying "A"...OH! YESS!  I always wanted to skate to that, but I was never good enough. (couldn't jump.)

Comment by The Flying Atheist on December 17, 2012 at 2:09pm

Yes, sk8eycat, Blood, Sweat and Tears is another great group, as well.  So is The Association.  They had a lot of great hits.  In my opinion, Chuck Mangione is the guy who introduced and popularized the flugelhorn for the masses.  He had some big hits in the 70's and 80's playing it.   

Comment by sk8eycat on December 17, 2012 at 12:33pm

Good morning, Flying A.....Blood, Sweat & Tears has amazing brass, too.  I get chills (of happiness) when I hear the intro to "Spinning Wheel."

The Association (the original group) had a couple of horns, too.  One of the guys played a strange looking thing called a Flugelhorn.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on December 17, 2012 at 11:56am

Tony, good morning and thanks for posting the Lighthouse song.  I've never heard of them.  Great song!  I've always liked rock music that included horns.......Tower of Power, Chicago, Earth Wind and Fire, etc. 


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