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Hang With Friends

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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

Nobody here is into mind games. A discussion started with a loaded guilt-throwing question will be deleted.

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Goodwill to Few Men (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Donald R Barbera Jul 23. 3 Replies

Think Goodwill Industries does well by the poor?  Fact is, they do WAY BETTER for themselves, to the point where America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers, thinks they're ripping off the christian playbook a bit too well!  Have a look for yourself:…Continue

Tags: ripoff, Goodwill Industries, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Your favorite photobombs?

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Plinius Jul 10. 12 Replies

Running of the bulls photobomb.Continue

losing faith (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller Jul 5. 0 Replies

TheraminTrees has recently begun producing a new series of YouTube videos, which added to a wonderful library of earlier observations regarding his experience of religion. Good as all those pieces are, I personally think they pale against this…Continue

Tags: story, history, faith, TheraminTrees

Betty Explains Religious Freedom (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Jul 3. 10 Replies

Well, considering all the RFRA bills popping up all over the United States, plus all the fun and games ISIS is bringing to the good folks in Syria and Iraq, Betty Bowers, the epitome of well-dressed christianity, has decided to clarify the true…Continue

Tags: persecution, ISIS, Religious Freedom, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner May 6. 82 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

Tags: surreal

Let's not define ourselves or others by our worst behaviors

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Dominique Lutz Apr 16. 6 Replies

My take on the recent melt down at Hang With Friends, of which I missed part, is that some of us were tripped up by a habit of thought. It's something we learn growing up, and use without realizing how much pain it can generate -  failing to…Continue

Tags: dispute at Hang With Friends

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Comment by Randall Smith on Monday

It was great seeing my old friend. Surprised to discover we both have 4 children, the first three females, then a male! We had many other similarities--twiced divorced, retired at the same age, etc. No wonder we were best friends way back then.

Why do we let those things happen? Nowadays, keeping "in touch" with old friends is so easy. Actually, without the internet, our get-together probably wouldn't have happened.

Comment by Randall Smith on July 25, 2015 at 7:54am

Having lunch today with one of my best friends from high school days. Haven't seen him in 54 years! We have lots of catching up to do!

Comment by Plinius on July 25, 2015 at 2:17am

Thanks Carl, good music! 

Comment by The Flying Atheist on July 24, 2015 at 9:18am

Some summer songs to get your weekend started right......

And one bonus song that is not summer related....but just too good to pass up......

Comment by Joan Denoo on July 23, 2015 at 3:30pm

Chris, your time of great stress took a lot more out of you than your iPod, forgetfulness is bad enough, and your family needs that stretched you so thin can knock even the most organized person. Good news that you can slow down and enjoy life, sort out old stuff and find such golden treasures. I think you had a good stress management process you used. 

Ian, I am such a book fanatic, all my walls have bookcases from floor to ceiling, wall to wall. Cary met the realtor who will manage the sale and reported back to me that the realtor remarked I have more books than some libraries. In 1975, when I started back to college and worked on family violence, not one library, public or private had any resources on that topic. I had to send to others libraries for inter-library loans. My reference material is now out of date and I doubt they will have any resale value. We plan to box up the lot that have barcodes and send them to a place that contacts book-sellers.  

Randy, I am a hoarder, but I am an orderly hoarder. My family will be meeting at the house August 1 to pack up the things I want to keep, plan a garage sale for things I don't want, box up the older books to give to American Association of University Women, and give my old business suits and dresses to The Hearth that gives them to women in transition and looking for work. All my garden equipment will come with me. 

I haven't heard from Felaine, for the last couple of weeks. Here is the most recent message she sent: 

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My Mom's family were "Okies" who moved west to escape the Dust Bowl..  She could never bear to talk about it.  Nor could her sister and 4 brothers.  The brothers could talk about WW2 (they were all i...

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My Mom's family were "Okies" who moved west to escape the Dust Bowl..  She could never bear to talk about it.  Nor could her sister and 4 brothers.  The brothers could talk about WW2 (they were all i...

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Comment by The Flying Atheist on July 23, 2015 at 11:28am

I haven't seen or heard from Sk8eycat lately.  Has anyone else?  I hope she's OK.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on July 23, 2015 at 11:25am

Wow, Joan, what an exciting and stressful time for you.  You're going through a lot right now.  Supposedly, moving tops the list of the most stressful situations to be in.  I know you'll have lots of support from your family.  All my best to you.

Chris, I laughed at your comment about reading in the shower.  I've gotten so used to wearing my glasses that I have actually stepped into the shower several times wearing them.  I've also gotten into bed with them also.  

What a great find, Chris, to rediscover your Ipod.  A little pot of gold.  Enjoy!

Comment by Randall Smith on July 23, 2015 at 7:18am

Yes, Ian, like newspapers, I'm afeared libraries and bookstores are doomed. Call me a "technophobe", too.

Joan, I hope you don't have to "clean house" like the one I saw on American Pickers last night. The late owner was a hoarder--the worst I've ever seen. Eager to see the greenhouse when completed.

Comment by Plinius on July 23, 2015 at 3:32am

Haha, I like that one, Ian! I just read everything, even shampoo bottles, but I'm not yet so far that I use my reading glasses in the shower...

Comment by Ian Mason on July 23, 2015 at 3:26am

A new start, Joan. Have a lot of fun with it. Also you with your re-start, Chris.

Here's one for all us bibliophiles:

 

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