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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

Nobody here is into mind games. A discussion started with a loaded guilt-throwing question will be deleted.

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God's Annual Performance Review (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Mar 19. 6 Replies

I don't know about you guys, but there wasn't a performance review I had in 30 years of field service that I didn't LOATHE.  It seems as though Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, is up for turning the tables on the person you would expect would…Continue

Tags: review, performance, god, American's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Learning a Language as a Mature Adult

Started by Daniel W. Last reply by Joan Denoo Mar 2. 28 Replies

Trying to keep my mind exercised, and not interested in most of the reading materials that I can find.I decided to attempt to learn a language.  Actually, two.  The dilemma is, how do I do that without going to school - not an option - and without…Continue

The Playboy Interview: Richard Dawkins

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Chris Feb 19. 14 Replies

I suppose it was the news that Playboy magazine was returning nudes to its pages after a year's hiatus that sufficiently perked my curiosity to check them out again.  I hadn't looked at Playboy since perhaps 2008, when I began to recognize that I…Continue

Tags: Richard Dawkins, Playboy

Such Lyrics!

Started by Donatien Alphonse François. Last reply by Grinning Cat Feb 13. 9 Replies

Hello Friends,I was ruminating a bit today on my sixty-some years existence. My mind went back to teenage years when I first figured out religion is not only obnoxiously loud, but also nothing I wanted anything to do with. Truly. I knew by age 15…Continue

degrading love — part two (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Feb 11. 1 Reply

TheraminTrees set up religion with his left in Part One of his treatise on how religion demeans and degrades the value of love.  Here in Part Two, he brings in a devastating, "Mike Tyson" right, which negates and invalidates any claim that either…Continue

Tags: Christianity, Islam, TheraminTrees, god, love

Questions......

Started by Thomas Murray. Last reply by k.h. ky Feb 9. 6 Replies

   It has been 6 month now since I signed up for Atheist Nexus membership. The past year has been sort of a bi-polar wave of emotions for me. I hope I wasn't offensive to the folks on here and I think I have been but I don't know to who. My desire…Continue

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Comment by Steph S. on March 26, 2013 at 9:53pm

Sentient Biped I hope you get good doctors and they remove all the cancer. You are in my thoughts.

Comment by Steph S. on March 26, 2013 at 9:50pm

Comment by Steph S. on March 26, 2013 at 9:43pm

Wow - that is an interesting pic Napoleon.

So .. looks like I am behind again - reading back through.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on March 26, 2013 at 9:15pm
Per my handy online Bing Translator:
A mutant fish, with ears and pig face, was found in the Black River between the cities of Santa Catarina Rio Negrinho and Mafra. the fact left baffled fishermen and has arousing the curiosity of many people.According to the fisherman and teacher Josef w., this mutation is due to pesticides used in the region.The case will be investigated, so that the fish was sent to exam ictiopatológico in Sao Paulo.
Scary to think what harm and other horrors we are causing. 
Comment by Joan Denoo on March 26, 2013 at 1:41pm
I like knowing that I am responsible for my meaning and purpose. I don't need to seek for direction from some external energy, the energy resides within.

Lawrence Krauss - We Provide Our Own Meaning
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BaWyNZxJqwg
Comment by Joan Denoo on March 26, 2013 at 1:09pm

Have you ever heard of the "butterfly effect" in quantum physics? It states the flapping of its winging in the jungle of the Amazon, has small effects that can accumulate into much larger effect. By using fractal geometry, the principles can be demonstrated. I know, it sounds outrageous, but quantum physics is outrageous; just listen to physicists talk about it. It does not fall under Newton's laws of motion; it has its own laws. 

If anyone is interested in learning more:

An Introduction to Chaos Theory with the Lorenz Attractor

Don't let the geometry get in your way, just follow the visuals and feel the meaning. 

Our current climate change can be defined as having a human-made change in our atmosphere that may be small, but has an effect that is unpredictable and unstable. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on March 26, 2013 at 1:07pm

Good morning friends. I suspect we had our last frost last night! That is more of a hope than reality, however we have a week of above freezing temperatures according to long-rang forecasting.

I know it will not come as a surprise to those of you who have known me for a while, I did a thorough review of literature on breast cancer after my positive diagnoses two weeks ago and ran across this film that has a promising story to tell. Women and men, please watch.

TED: Deborah Rhodes: A tool that finds 3x more breast tumors, and w...

She tells of how painful mammography is; I say, was! It was as though being squeezed by clouds, no discomfort, absolutely no pain. Even the biopsy was without pain for me.

I have no concerns about long term outcomes of this next procedure tomorrow. There is 99% expectation of full recovery. 

Now, on to more serious concerns, Sentient Biped should be in surgery this morning for removal of abdominal cancer. Our positive thoughts go with him. 

Comment by The Flying Atheist on March 26, 2013 at 11:14am

Chris, we're all waiting very impatiently for Spring!!  It's been so cold here as well.

The Kaffir Lily is beautiful.  Do you grow it indoors or outside? 

I have a Christmas Cactus (Schlumbergera) as a houseplant.  My original plant was beautiful and had about a 16" radius.  During the summer I would keep it outside in a partially shaded area.  During the fall, the cooler nights outside would help it bloom for December after bringing it indoors before the freezing temperatures.  The flowers were just magnificent.  A couple of years ago, some kind of critter kept gnawing at it and destroying the leaves.  I don't know if it was a squirrel or a cat doing the damage.  It was never the same since and ended up dying.  I'm now nursing a new cutting from my mother's plant that she gave to me.  It's very small, about 3" in radius.  I'm looking forward to the time when it's big enough to bloom.    

Comment by Plinius on March 26, 2013 at 8:23am

I love the cat cafe, Flying Atheist, but I wouldn't trust all the visitors, not after an acquaintance tried to pull MauMau's whiskers behind my back. Never seen that man again and well rid!

You're going to enjoy Oliver Sacks, Flying!

And it's still too cold here, I wish the wind would turn from NE to SW! The vegetables I sowed are waiting on the window sill:"Can't we go to the garden yet?" but they would freeze. 

And it occurred to me that there is an atheist flower: clivia or kaffir lily - kaffir means unbeliever. Mine flowers like mad.

Comment by Ian Mason on March 26, 2013 at 12:43am

Enjoy your reading, TFA. I've "stolen" your list with cut and paste and will keep an eye out for them next time I'm in England. Alrady hear a lot of good things about the Oliver Sachs.

 

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