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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

Nobody here is into mind games. A discussion started with a loaded guilt-throwing question will be deleted.

This group is not intended to compete with other groups on topics they cover but to "fill in the cracks." Whenever a discussion dwells at length on a topic for which there's an existing group, we urge you to provide members a link to that group to continue along their tangent.

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Discussion Forum

bending truth, or "We Can All Be Manipulated" (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Compelledunbeliever 6 hours ago. 37 Replies

The following is one of TheraminTrees' most thorough-going pieces, wherein he looks at the process and techniques whereby a "religious" organization (which will sound VERY familiar to most of us, once introductions are made!) takes a person who…Continue

Tags: indoctrination, truth, manipulation, TheraminTrees

punishing doubt (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller Sep 6. 0 Replies

If you are associated with religion and especially a fundamentalist religion, doubt is intolerable.  Certainty, however it may be achieved or imposed, becomes a necessary element, especially considering the utter dearth of any form of evidence or…Continue

Tags: religion, TheraminTrees, punish, doubt

We Don't Want Your (Atheist) Money! (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Idaho Spud Sep 2. 17 Replies

I suppose I've heard stories like this before:Conscientious atheist donates money to worthy cause.Worthy cause initially accepts money.Worthy cause discovers source of donation.Worthy cause rejects donation.Swell, eh?  Well Matt Willbourne of…Continue

Tags: American Baptist Churches Association, Murrow Indian Children's Home, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

The Whole Bible in 30 Seconds (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Randy Hatly Sep 2. 3 Replies

Ever decide that you wanted to read the whole bible, cover to cover, only to realize half-way through Deuteronomy that the darn thing is industrial-strength BORING?!?  Well, never fear!  America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers, has done the Cliff's…Continue

Tags: bible, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Are You a Patriot? (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Chris G Aug 29. 22 Replies

You might think that Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, would be stepping outside of her comfort zone in tackling the concept of patriotism.  As it turns out, not only does she have a proper handle on the term and its implications, she also…Continue

Tags: patriot, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

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Comment by Randall Smith on January 27, 2016 at 7:40am

Love it, Chris! 

Ruth, I've tried creams, pain relievers, fish oil, glucosamine, etc., for my arthritis, but nothing seems to work. I read where eliminating eating wheat products helps, but it doesn't. It's aggravating--fortunately, not life threatening.

On another note, I just finished reading When Parents Part, and I need some advice. My four adult children (ages 33-42) are products of divorced parents when they were approximately 6 to 15 years old. I was the custodial parent (rare for the father). I have visited all of them in the past several months, and they appear to be quite happy, with no apparent scars from having to go through a less than normal childhood. My question is, should I ask them about how they felt during that time in their lives, or just let it go? Perhaps, dredging up memories might not be a good idea, but then again, maybe they would like to talk about those times. For the most part, the subject has never been mentioned. I don't want them to think I don't care about their feelings, both then and now. 

Comment by Plinius on January 27, 2016 at 6:14am

Thanks for the wishes! There's no news about Dido yet, but he seems to feel good. When I came home an hour ago, he was so happy that he started to bounce against the walls of the corridor, happy mad jumps that leave footprints almost a metre high on the walls. And I'm the sloppy kind of housekeeper who smiles at those prints.

How's this for a picture of ourselves?

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 27, 2016 at 12:14am

Chris, sad news about your feet, knees and hips hurting. I know you use the public transit, but did you have to walk far to carry Dido to the vet? The alarming weight loss points to something; I hope you discover what caused the change.  

We do have to make changes as we get older to protect ourselves. After all, our muscles change as do our balance and stamina. I just kind of "putz" through my days, doing most everything in slow motion. 

My darling great-granddaughter, Katelynn, comes to help me walk to the greenhouse through snow and ice. I instruct her that if I fall, she is not to try to get me up but to go for help. Her mom and dad are trained as volunteer firefighters, as is Laura. They have incredible skills caring for people. 

Comment by Loren Miller on January 26, 2016 at 4:54pm

Chris, best wishes to your kitty, Dido!  I know it'd tear out my heart to lose any of our five.

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on January 26, 2016 at 4:39pm

Sorry to hear about Dido, Plinius. I try to avoid carrying Trissa, who weighs 22 lbs. So often we don’t know we’re overdoing it till later. I had to start using a cane after carrying around rocks a few days for garden improvement. Didn’t feel it till later.

I hope your good health continues forever, Randall. For osteoarthritis, I’ve found that not only pharmaceutical grade fish oil helps but Dr.Theo’s Avosoy Complete. It’s not only salt free glucosamine and chondroitin but has avocado-sybean unsaponifiables. I’d read about the latter ingredient in research literature many years ago. I don’t’ think they know how it helps, just that it does. About two years ago their supplier failed Dr. Theo’s independent analysis (he has high standards and tests every batch), so it was unavailable for about a month. After two weeks without (just using another glucosamine/chondroitin product) my arthritis got much worse. I was so glad when it was available again.

Loren, Ian, Plinius, Bertold and Flying Atheist, you seem to be the kids of our core group. Younger people join Hang With Friends but don’t post as often.  It is essential to be conscious of one’s changing body and take precautions. Keep it up.

“Wonderfully tasteless décor” made me laugh. I can appreciate that aesthetic.

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on January 26, 2016 at 4:17pm

What an inviting room for virtual relaxation. I love tea and snuggly throws, and it's peaceful, calming. Thanks, flying Atheist.

You make good points, Joan. We all learn so much from you.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on January 26, 2016 at 2:49pm

Randy, I'm not crazy about that 70s decor, but I admire people who decide to do something and go all out.  I have to appreciate their commitment.  I like people like that. 

Comment by The Flying Atheist on January 26, 2016 at 2:45pm

I'm 51 but often feel like I'm 91.  

Comment by Ian Mason on January 26, 2016 at 12:33pm

At 59 I must be a mere stripling! I've also begun to feel the first signs of wear and tear in joints, tendons etc and healing/recovery gets slower and slower. I refuse to give in though. I have plans for at least one more year of jogging half-marathons.

Carl, what a wonderfully tasteless decor. The fire-and-tea scene is much more restful.

Comment by Plinius on January 26, 2016 at 11:55am

You're not the youngest, Loren, I'm not yet 62. 

 

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