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Hang With Friends

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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

Nobody here is into mind games. A discussion started with a loaded guilt-throwing question will be deleted.

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Your favorite photobombs?

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner 17 hours ago. 11 Replies

Running of the bulls photobomb.Continue

losing faith (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller yesterday. 0 Replies

TheraminTrees has recently begun producing a new series of YouTube videos, which added to a wonderful library of earlier observations regarding his experience of religion. Good as all those pieces are, I personally think they pale against this…Continue

Tags: story, history, faith, TheraminTrees

Betty Explains Religious Freedom (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on Saturday. 10 Replies

Well, considering all the RFRA bills popping up all over the United States, plus all the fun and games ISIS is bringing to the good folks in Syria and Iraq, Betty Bowers, the epitome of well-dressed christianity, has decided to clarify the true…Continue

Tags: persecution, ISIS, Religious Freedom, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner May 6. 82 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

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Let's not define ourselves or others by our worst behaviors

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Dominique Lutz Apr 16. 6 Replies

My take on the recent melt down at Hang With Friends, of which I missed part, is that some of us were tripped up by a habit of thought. It's something we learn growing up, and use without realizing how much pain it can generate -  failing to…Continue

Tags: dispute at Hang With Friends

The FLDS Cult Is Unraveling

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Idaho Spud Mar 29. 3 Replies

The FLDS Cult Is Unraveling"the internet is a lifeline for people trapped in the most restrictive and stifling forms of…Continue

Tags: Warren Jeff, internet, FLDS

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Comment by The Flying Atheist on August 9, 2012 at 9:49am

Thanks, Ian.  When I'm playing my jazz music I like to think of myself as a cool cat. 

Comment by The Flying Atheist on August 9, 2012 at 9:47am

Speaking of parasites, please turn to page 132 in your Hymnals for our next song: "What A Friend We Have In Jesus"

Comment by Steph S. on August 9, 2012 at 9:16am
Chris and Patricia you sound like me. I like my own company and prefer to be alone and keep to myself. I just got rid of a human parasite myself. I am feeling much better now that those negative people are out of my life.
Tony thanks for the pic and I'm glad to see you here.
I enjoy all of you!
Comment by Ian Mason on August 9, 2012 at 3:36am

You are a lovely group of people (and cats). Thanks for being who you are.

Comment by Plinius on August 9, 2012 at 2:52am

Thanks Patricia, you make me feel less of an oddity.

Comment by Plinius on August 9, 2012 at 1:50am

I see I'm not the only one who has got very few friends left and is happy with that. We rid ourselves from a clutter of human parasites some years ago (always there at mealtimes, leaving us with the dirty dishes and talking nonstop about viewpoints which they knew we hate). I hesitated a long time, also because of tests that warn you that your health and well-being are in danger when you have got a very small social network, but I feel so much better without those people!  

Comment by Tony Carroll on August 9, 2012 at 12:40am

This one made me laugh. Just had to share with you guys.

Comment by Paula T. on August 8, 2012 at 10:47pm
I lost my best friend a few years ago. She is VERY Roman Catholic, but I don't believe she reads the buybull or attend mass each week. She told me that I should read more (religious type BS) and not believe the stuff atheists say. She is totally messed up because of the religious upbringing and she was molested by her father and brothers as a child. She's married for the 2nd time to a snake and I do not like him. She sent me another FB friend request and I blocked her. She also wrote a message to my boyfriend asking if I was ok. He didn't respond. I feel sad that she is so unhappy, so deeply, and feels that religion is the key to happiness. Gawd will make everything better...
Comment by Tony Carroll on August 8, 2012 at 9:28pm

Yay, I'm getting a day off! Sorry I haven't been around as much as usual, just been very busy, but I've been thinking of you guys, and reading the posts.

Patricia, I'm so sorry to hear of the problems you're having. I will be thinking of you, and if you ever need to vent or just talk, go to my page. Will be happy to listen/commiserate/laugh/cry with you. You do indeed have friends here.

Melinda & Steph, what can I say other than thank you both for your concern. Big warm fuzzy bear hugs to you both. Your friendship, heck everyones friendship here means so very much to me.Even when I'm too busy to respond back or be as active as I want, you're all in my thoughts.

Be well everyone. Take care.

Comment by Steph S. on August 8, 2012 at 6:18pm

I love the lolcat picture booklover!

Yes, be glad the friendship is over. Now you can move on with your life in a positive way. That person was not a true friend.

 

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