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The Most Hated Woman in America (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Gary S Apr 19. 7 Replies

Before Aron Ra and Matt Dillahunty, before Dawkins or Dennett or Harris or even Hitchens, there was Madalyn Murray O'Hair.  In the midst of an America where Christianity was being flaunted as a defense against the godless communists of the Soviet…Continue

Tags: Frank Zindler, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews, Madalyn Murray O'Hair

Proud Dad is REALLY Proud Now!

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Todd Williams Apr 12. 16 Replies

As some of you may or may not know, my daughter is a television news producer, currently working in Nashville, Tennessee.  Her assignment is the morning news, which means she blasts herself up at umpti-ump in the morning to organize and prepare a…Continue

Tags: Emmy, news, television, daughter, dad

attacking ideas (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat Apr 4. 1 Reply

Attacking ideas is a considerable portion of what we as atheists do.  Why attack ideas?  Ideas earn attack when they don't serve people, not just us but those who adopt said ideas, mistakenly thinking that they have value when they don't.  Our…Continue

Tags: ideas, Islam, TheraminTrees

bending truth, or "We Can All Be Manipulated" (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat Apr 4. 40 Replies

The following is one of TheraminTrees' most thorough-going pieces, wherein he looks at the process and techniques whereby a "religious" organization (which will sound VERY familiar to most of us, once introductions are made!) takes a person who…Continue

Tags: indoctrination, truth, manipulation, TheraminTrees

The Playboy Interview: Richard Dawkins

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Mar 28. 16 Replies

I suppose it was the news that Playboy magazine was returning nudes to its pages after a year's hiatus that sufficiently perked my curiosity to check them out again.  I hadn't looked at Playboy since perhaps 2008, when I began to recognize that I…Continue

Tags: Richard Dawkins, Playboy

God's Annual Performance Review (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Mar 19. 6 Replies

I don't know about you guys, but there wasn't a performance review I had in 30 years of field service that I didn't LOATHE.  It seems as though Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, is up for turning the tables on the person you would expect would…Continue

Tags: review, performance, god, American's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

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Comment by Loren Miller on October 24, 2016 at 5:47am

Joan, my deepest condolences.  Seems to be a lousy time, as my best friend Rich just lost his brother to a combination of a stroke and Alzheimer's.  It never rains but what it pours...

Comment by Joan Denoo on October 24, 2016 at 1:46am

Ruth, thanks for the beautiful card! I like the expressions of your care.

Kathy, I agree with you about Ruth's card being beautiful. Ruth has a way with creating visuals that express deeper meanings than words alone.

Chris, your words always calm me and give me strength. I was not surprised that my family remained loving to Cary through the years and appreciative of him during these recent years. They expressed their love for him in very moving ways yesterday and Cary had no language to respond except his eyes and his hands. He spoke volumes and we knew, without a doubt, what he wanted. That gives me peace.  

Comment by Ian Mason on October 24, 2016 at 1:22am

Joan, that is such sad news. My condolences to you. Your family is a loving one and all of you will care for each other in this very hard situation. Being with a loved one at the end and being able to say goodbye helps, I know. And yes, the memories and love live on.

Comment by BenGee on October 24, 2016 at 1:14am

Joan, thank but... the point of my statment is no one should ever grow up feeling unwanted or alone, and um, I'm not sure how to put it. I think that giving someone a home, making them feel wanted and loved is the greatest gift anyone could have ever received. I would imagine that anyone being on the receiving end of your kindness would feel the same way. I know its a hard situation so this might not be the best time but, as far as I'm concerned that makes you and everyone in your family hero's

Comment by Plinius on October 23, 2016 at 11:15pm

Sad news, Joan, I'm so sorry for your loss. And I'm very happy how you all stayed with Cary and helped him through the weeks.

Take good care of yourself now! It's very hard to survive your child - I've seen that in my parents-in-law - but I know you can work it out with the help of your special family. Cary will be remembered here, from your stories and from your deep love for him shining through.

 

Comment by k.h. ky on October 23, 2016 at 11:14pm
Ruth, that is beautiful
Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on October 23, 2016 at 10:55pm

Joan, sorry I'm late. A bit out of touch.

My deepest concern. It seems the whole family came together well, supporting Cary's choice. Hugs.

Comment by Joan Denoo on October 23, 2016 at 9:03pm

BenGee, I recognized from your first comment that you have unhappy memories of your family. It is an honor to include you in our family. This is a safe place to discuss, disagree, and discover our world. The only requirement of Atheist Nexus is that you do not find evidence of god. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on October 23, 2016 at 8:56pm

Randy, one more thought. Yes! grandparents exist "to work on table manners, however. That's what grandparents do!"

Comment by BenGee on October 23, 2016 at 8:52pm

Joan, I've always thought that adoption was the best way to go. Passing on my mind, my memories, my life and sharing that is more important than passing on my genes, and it doesn't matter if you're sharing that with someone who has your gene's its precious.

Now I kinda wanna have a child, mostly though because my family taught me that I was inferior that my genes weren't worth passing on, which may be partially to blame for why I think adoption is so awesome (they tried to say I was mentally disabled my entire life). So my desire to have a kid if I can now is just a big fuck you to  everyone who tried to tell me I was genetic garbage. Though lol first i'll have to find a girl who likes me enough to make a kid with me and start a family. Even if I have a child with a girl I'd also adopt without hesitation. NO child EVER deserves to feel unwanted, you don't have to be an orphan to learn that, and EVERY child with a loving parent biological or otherwise I think is quite affected by that love.

 

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