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maggie and milly and molly and may (Edward Estlin Cummings & Eric Whitacre)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 20. 2 Replies

It's amazing what you discover when you go looking for something you had no idea you'd find.  On an impulse, I pulled up Eric Whitacre's website to see if he had created any new pieces.  It would seem that he has: a song cycle called The City and…Continue

Tags: e e cummings, Eric Whitacre

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISIS

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Randall Smith Nov 18. 1 Reply

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISISGrowth in population, policies and practices that create a gap between the typical person and the wealthy,…Continue

Passive and Active voices

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Nov 16. 1 Reply

Have you noticed that much of the discussion in families and with friends, in the print media, on TV, and now on the internet is in the Passive Voice? Many people whine, complain, gripe, accuse, blame, call names, ridicule, grumble, bitch, rebuke,…Continue

Tags: and, behaviors, communication., attitudes, learned

Detroit Businesswomen Team Up to Get Rape Kits Tested

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by The Flying Atheist Nov 14. 2 Replies

Detroit Businesswomen Team Up to Get Rape Kits Tested"In 2009, a Wayne County assistant prosecuting attorney noticed…Continue

Tags: women, Enough, SAID, black, victims

Something Beautiful – Nathan Phelps & Seth Andrews

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 10. 7 Replies

And it is beautiful, too, indeed, I think some of Seth Andrews' best work.  Interesting point: rather than Seth's dulcet baritone doing the narration, this piece presses Nathan Phelps' deep bass intonation into service, bringing a different flavor…Continue

Tags: Nathan Phelps, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews, beautiful, something

Your favorite photobombs?

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Joan Denoo Oct 27. 14 Replies

Running of the bulls photobomb.Continue

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Comment by Plinius on April 12, 2015 at 1:25am

Carl posted last on March 24, so it's been three weeks. I do hope he's allright.

Comment by k.h. ky on April 8, 2015 at 12:46pm
Does anyone know if Carl has posted lately? My signal is unreliable and I've only been able to get on sporadically. I am wondering how he is.
Comment by Idaho Spud on April 8, 2015 at 6:25am

I knew there would be problems I didn't see, but I would still like to see us try to be more logical in the US, even if it caused problems for 2 or 3 generations.

There is another thing that bothers me more, and that's not going to the metric system.  It's very much easier to work with and reduces mistakes greatly.  For years now, I've tried to purchase tape measures that have metric marks on them, and often use metric when doing woodworking.

Comment by Plinius on April 8, 2015 at 6:15am

Spud, we have had a series of spelling updates in the Netherlands, all with the idea that spelling should be easier and the written word should represent the spoken word in a logical manner. It doesn't work at all. Even in this small country there are so many dialects that the written word NEVER represents the spoken word. I notice that people are confused about spelling, try to find out the correct spelling from the old and new dictionaries that hang about, and in the end they fall back on the spelling they learnt when young. It's a mess. Every spelling update costs money, new dictionaries, etc. Official texts should be spelled correctly but they aren't. And every spelling update means a breach with history: it becomes more and more difficult to read the texts from our own past - to me that's really a bad thing. I like the conservative spelling in Great Britain: it enables people to keep in touch with their past, and you know what they say: Forget your past and you'll have to repeat it...

Comment by Bertold Brautigan on April 7, 2015 at 2:25pm

@ Spud - It's interesting that Spanish and German are completely orthographically consistent -- the same letters and combos always make the exact same sounds. Definitely can't say that for English, I guess partly because we're such a mongrel hybrid, but that's also what makes it such a rich and pliant language, so no complaints.

Comment by Idaho Spud on April 7, 2015 at 1:53pm

I would love to see pronunciation and spelling change to be logical and easier to remember.  I think most people would like to see that, so why don't we do it?

Comment by Joan Denoo on April 7, 2015 at 1:06pm

Randy, safe and pleasant journey. What a beautiful way to see that part of Europe. Can't wait to read your description. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on April 7, 2015 at 1:03pm

Ian, I am glad you were able to see the first posting of "Ode to Yahway". When I tried, I got an error message. So, I reposted it with that silly poem 43alley posted. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on April 7, 2015 at 12:58pm

He sacrificed … himself 

Unto himself

To pay himself

The price that he demanded

For any violation by a human

Of strict adherence 

To his perfect standard 

~ 43alley 

Comment by Joan Denoo on April 7, 2015 at 12:48pm


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