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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Men who challenge men to stop violence

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Idaho Spud Jan 9. 19 Replies

Many men join in the effort to reduce violence against women and children and other men. He speaks of the need to place responsibility on men instead of focusing on women to stop violence. He offers a breath of fresh air, as do so many of the men on…Continue

Ian, a beautiful New Years blessing.

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Chris Jan 5. 7 Replies

Ian, for some reason, my comment would not "send" on Hang with Friends; perhaps it will here!Ian, a beautiful New Years blessing. It goes in my file. I especially like the thought of surprising myself. Laura made a special trip to my Spokane home to…Continue

degrading love — part two (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller Jan 1. 0 Replies

TheraminTrees set up religion with his left in Part One of his treatise on how religion demeans and degrades the value of love.  Here in Part Two, he brings in a devastating, "Mike Tyson" right, which negates and invalidates any claim that either…Continue

Tags: Christianity, Islam, TheraminTrees, god, love

The Ark Encounter: A Less than Grand Opening (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Idaho Spud Dec 31, 2016. 27 Replies

The day finally arrived.  Ken Ham's Ark Encounter opened on 7 July, 2016 ... to something a bit less than Disney-sized crowds, and more than a couple dissenting voices!  Seth Andrews has gathered a quartet of significant participants in the protest…Continue

Tags: Tracey Moody, Dan Broadbent, Seth Andrews, David Silverman, AronRa

Learning a Language as a Mature Adult

Started by Daniel W. Last reply by Idaho Spud Dec 14, 2016. 27 Replies

Trying to keep my mind exercised, and not interested in most of the reading materials that I can find.I decided to attempt to learn a language.  Actually, two.  The dilemma is, how do I do that without going to school - not an option - and without…Continue

What Annoys God Most? (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat Dec 7, 2016. 10 Replies

Long story short, it's those near misses, the almost-but-not-quite, close but no cheroot moments, or, would you believe ... Near Death Experiences!  So what's the big deal?  Betty Bowers, America's BEST Christian and self-proclaimed expert on such…Continue

Tags: Near Death Experiences, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

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Comment by Joan Denoo on July 30, 2016 at 2:04pm

That is good, Spud! I surely don't want to hurt your feelings.  I wanted to do a reality check with you. Thank you for responding so quickly. 

It is wonderful to have you back online from your home. I enjoy and learn from you, dear friend. 

Comment by Idaho Spud on July 30, 2016 at 1:36pm

I didn't notice any insult Joan.  Things are fine.

Comment by Joan Denoo on July 30, 2016 at 1:30pm

Spud, I should have known you already did all the things you could do to solve the player problem. I didn't mean to insult you when I gave my suggestions. I am happy to learn that you did what you could. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on July 30, 2016 at 1:19pm

Ian, you are so right about Thatcher! We need any more of that ilk. But then, we don't need any more Reagans.

I was thinking of some of our traditional black women who not only had to fight slavery; many had dominating husbands. I suppose that is why the black women I knew and worked with were exceptionally bright and confrontational. They took an effective leadership role in their families and work; they were exceptionally well-trained teachers. 

Native American women often reveal excellent leadership qualities. One woman in Spokane said the Indian men didn't stand up to the challenges and lead their people. They took on leadership roles in the tribe, created an outstanding alcohol and drug treatment center that even white go and are helped. It isn't the "Let go, let god" crowd. The women required personal responsibility. They had a lower recidivism rate than other alcohol treatment programs. 

I just have a hunch there is a woman leader in the pipeline of women who are rising in politics, and she may be black or of either Indian heritage, or Asian culture. 

We need to start training our sons and daughters to assume leadership roles. My son Craig has two young sons. They are going to be effective leaders because of their home and school environment. 

The hosts of last night's dinner and today's cruise are both retired teachers. They trained their kids to be leaders. I met them last night and their families. What an incredible family! 

We have to stop doing what we are doing with our kids and start raising them to be adults. Too many kids learn how to be adult kids. We don't need any more kids. 

Comment by Idaho Spud on July 30, 2016 at 1:08pm

I'm using a tape player very little now because I have most of what I want on disk.

Comment by Idaho Spud on July 30, 2016 at 1:07pm

Every time my tape player quits, I find another one at a thrift shop.

Comment by Joan Denoo on July 30, 2016 at 1:03pm

Ian, do you have a thrift shop or some place people send their unwanted equipment? Jeeze, I would give it a try, especially with your treasures. I share your sadness. 

I have the same problem, except mine aren't treasures, they are simply the old stuff of no further interest to me, so I am not going to try to find a player. 

Comment by Ian Mason on July 30, 2016 at 12:56pm

I have done a terrible thing but I had to. After the last remaining video player in Denmark (mine) chewed its last tape, my VHS collection has been put for the rubbish collectors. Sob :( All the things I'd recorded from the telly, gone; from Stephen King to Shakespeare and lots of old classics. Who else remebers the original 'Ladykillers'? Alec Guiness; "It's only a penny on each insurance policy" Danny 'One-rund' Green; " No-one's gonner 'urt Mrs Lopsided", and the rest of the gang. I'm going to comfort myself with tea.

Comment by Ian Mason on July 30, 2016 at 12:56pm

A woman at the helm doesn't mean progress. Margaret Thatcher, anyone?

That said, yes, the principle is a step forward.

Comment by Joan Denoo on July 30, 2016 at 12:27pm

I meant to say When a smart, charismatic black or Asian woman rises

 

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