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Hang With Friends

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Come on in, pull up a chair!

Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

Nobody here is into mind games. A discussion started with a loaded guilt-throwing question will be deleted.

This group is not intended to compete with other groups on topics they cover but to "fill in the cracks." Whenever a discussion dwells at length on a topic for which there's an existing group, we urge you to provide members a link to that group to continue along their tangent.

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Discussion Forum

Your favorite photobombs?

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner 7 hours ago. 11 Replies

Running of the bulls photobomb.Continue

losing faith (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller 22 hours ago. 0 Replies

TheraminTrees has recently begun producing a new series of YouTube videos, which added to a wonderful library of earlier observations regarding his experience of religion. Good as all those pieces are, I personally think they pale against this…Continue

Tags: story, history, faith, TheraminTrees

Betty Explains Religious Freedom (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on Saturday. 10 Replies

Well, considering all the RFRA bills popping up all over the United States, plus all the fun and games ISIS is bringing to the good folks in Syria and Iraq, Betty Bowers, the epitome of well-dressed christianity, has decided to clarify the true…Continue

Tags: persecution, ISIS, Religious Freedom, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner May 6. 82 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

Tags: surreal

Let's not define ourselves or others by our worst behaviors

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Dominique Lutz Apr 16. 6 Replies

My take on the recent melt down at Hang With Friends, of which I missed part, is that some of us were tripped up by a habit of thought. It's something we learn growing up, and use without realizing how much pain it can generate -  failing to…Continue

Tags: dispute at Hang With Friends

The FLDS Cult Is Unraveling

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Idaho Spud Mar 29. 3 Replies

The FLDS Cult Is Unraveling"the internet is a lifeline for people trapped in the most restrictive and stifling forms of…Continue

Tags: Warren Jeff, internet, FLDS

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Comment by annet on January 31, 2012 at 9:01am

lol, I can picture myself chanting that one Ruth!  

Comment by Steph S. on January 29, 2012 at 8:52pm

Nice meme.

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on January 29, 2012 at 3:42pm

Comment by sk8eycat on January 28, 2012 at 7:25pm

Start over, maybe?  I don't think the other industrialized nations are as effed-up as the US.  How did they do it?

My hobbyhorse for decades has been, "Why don't we tax churches?"  Despite what they claim about "charity," very few of them actually do anything about the homeless and hungry people in their communities.  A church itself should not be classified as a charity unless it actually does more than just preach; IMO it's entertainment.  We tax movie and live show tickets, so whyyyy NOT?

Comment by dr kellie on January 28, 2012 at 5:48pm

Yeah.  Someone should do something about everything. 

Comment by sk8eycat on January 28, 2012 at 4:48pm

Justalysn, ironic, isn't it? Convicted felons get better care overall than people who worked and paid taxes all their lives. This especially applies to women because when we were in the workforce we were paid less than men doing the same jobs, or were forced to take lower paying jobs just to stay alive.

I still remember a not-so-funny comic strip from 10+ years ago: An attractive woman is standing on a stage in front of a microphone, holding a script.  She's obviously auditioning for something. One of the five men sitting in the front row asks, "How fast do you type?"

Made me growl, but it's so true!  Even women with post-graduate degrees got asked that question...and often had to settle for clerical work.  At close to minimum wage.

Women who do what conservatives say they should do, stay at home and raise the kids, with all the hard labor and intelligence that that entails, count for next to nothing, as far as Social InSecurity is concerned, when they become widowed.  And they lose even more "benefits" should they remarry.

Something is terribly wrong here.

Comment by sk8eycat on January 28, 2012 at 2:07pm

This isn't really about religion or non-religion...except it seems to be the sheeple who call themselves xians just don't "get" why some people need help:

New Medicare Program

You're a sick senior citizen and the government says there is no nursing home available for you. So what do you do?

Our plan gives anyone 65 years or older a gun and 4 bullets. You are allowed to shoot four Politicians.

Of course, this means you will be sent to prison where you will get three meals a day, a roof over your head, central heating, air conditioning and all the health care you need!
Need new teeth? No problem. Need glasses? That’s great. Need a new hip, knees, kidney, lungs or heart? They’re all covered.
As an added bonus, your kids can come and visit you as often as they do now.

And who will be paying for all of this? It’s the same government that just told you that you they cannot afford for you to go into a home.

Plus,  because you are a prisoner, you don't have to pay any income taxes anymore.

Is this a great country or what?
Comment by Jason Fleming on January 28, 2012 at 11:37am

I think its natural that we have a "Yankocentric" voice here. Besides having greater numbers (and a tenancy to state our opinions regardless of solicitation), we also have in my opinion a more religious atmosphere here, and therefore warrants greater push-back.

But you are right. We tend to cite our own constitution (as well as the Declaration of Independence) a lot when there are folks here from all over the rest of the English speaking world who's laws are not governed by it.

However, the reason is because we are currently facing attempts by the fundies to co opt our democracy and transform it into a theocracy. So naturally, our freedoms and rights granted to us by these documents are on the forefront of our minds.

You make a good point about the "Appointed by God" argument. For centuries, the Crown of England (as well as many others) has used this claim to validate its control over the people. It has been a means to cement subjugation. "You are surfs and Peasants because God wanted you to be." 

That's part of why I found it so funny that several of our recent GOP candidates (sorry, bringing it back to us again) claim that God told them to run, only to drop out early in the primary. Apparently, the god in question must be Loki, and a bit of an asshole.

Comment by sk8eycat on January 27, 2012 at 9:52pm

@Jonel Burge:

Governments derive their just powers from the consent of the governed.
This is spelled out in the Declaration of Independence, and was a viewpoint that directly contradicted the notion that the powers of governments were granted to kings by God. This was essential in justifying the separation of the colonies from British Rule. The theory that governments derived their powers from the consent of the governed lies in some of the contemporary philosophy of Social Contract Theory as discussed by John Locke, Jean-Jacques Rousseau, and Thomas Hobbes.



Read more: http://wiki.answers.com/Q/What_source_do_governments_derive_their_%...

 

Since it comes right after the Deist mention of "their Creator," it really fries their little crosses when you bring it up in conversation.

Comment by sk8eycat on January 27, 2012 at 9:18pm

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