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Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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maggie and milly and molly and may (Edward Estlin Cummings & Eric Whitacre)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 20. 2 Replies

It's amazing what you discover when you go looking for something you had no idea you'd find.  On an impulse, I pulled up Eric Whitacre's website to see if he had created any new pieces.  It would seem that he has: a song cycle called The City and…Continue

Tags: e e cummings, Eric Whitacre

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISIS

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Randall Smith Nov 18. 1 Reply

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISISGrowth in population, policies and practices that create a gap between the typical person and the wealthy,…Continue

Passive and Active voices

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Nov 16. 1 Reply

Have you noticed that much of the discussion in families and with friends, in the print media, on TV, and now on the internet is in the Passive Voice? Many people whine, complain, gripe, accuse, blame, call names, ridicule, grumble, bitch, rebuke,…Continue

Tags: and, behaviors, communication., attitudes, learned

Detroit Businesswomen Team Up to Get Rape Kits Tested

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by The Flying Atheist Nov 14. 2 Replies

Detroit Businesswomen Team Up to Get Rape Kits Tested"In 2009, a Wayne County assistant prosecuting attorney noticed…Continue

Tags: women, Enough, SAID, black, victims

Something Beautiful – Nathan Phelps & Seth Andrews

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 10. 7 Replies

And it is beautiful, too, indeed, I think some of Seth Andrews' best work.  Interesting point: rather than Seth's dulcet baritone doing the narration, this piece presses Nathan Phelps' deep bass intonation into service, bringing a different flavor…Continue

Tags: Nathan Phelps, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews, beautiful, something

Your favorite photobombs?

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Joan Denoo Oct 27. 14 Replies

Running of the bulls photobomb.Continue

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Comment by Plinius on March 22, 2015 at 2:15am

Zooming back already, Carl, hurray! I hope you'll have a nice and easy recovering time.

I love those stories! One of my in-laws - father-i-l was in Rotterdam 1940 when the town was bombed. He was at work as an electrician in someone's apartment when the block caught fire, and he didn't know what to do. He decided to follow a black cat that was there, and they both survived the bombing in a kitchen cupboard - later he always spoke with the deepest respect about the wisdom of cats.

Comment by k.h. ky on March 21, 2015 at 10:58pm
Ian, family history is facinating. An acquaintance found out her gfather was left when his mother died and he used the last name of the family who raised him. So his 'relatives' weren't related to him at all.
Comment by Ian Mason on March 21, 2015 at 10:14pm

Hurrah! That's great, Carl. As you've realised, we've been thinking about you. Very glad to hear that you're on the mend. Things aren't the same without you.

Also glad to hear that your husband has got his new knee, Ruth. A friend of mine had that a couple of years ago and is very glad for it.

I don't know if I've posted about this before, Chris. A cousin of mine looked into the family history and found out that his Dad wasn't his Dad and that he had a half-sister he knew nothing about. This caused some strain in family relations. Going further back, a middle-aged widow in the family married again, to a man named Singular Onion Gallehawk. His parents must have been strange.

Joan, my grammar and pronounciation are quite eccentric. Estuary English plus university education all stirred up by living in another country and speaking another language in everyday life. My family comment on it sometimes when I muddle my syntax.

Have a great Sunday everyone. Hope the church bells don't disturb you.

Comment by Joan Denoo on March 21, 2015 at 10:12pm

Carl, welcome back! You can't even begin to imagine how happy I am to see your The Flying Atheist back online! You sound like you are in excellent shape, emotionally. Your poor body will take a while to catch up. I won't bug you, however, here is a very pleased hug for you, {Carl}. May your recovery be quick and soon pain free. 

Comment by k.h. ky on March 21, 2015 at 10:04pm
Carl, glad to hear it. It took my post twelve minutes to hit the board. Major drawback of living in the middle of nowhere. Lousy internet service!
Comment by k.h. ky on March 21, 2015 at 9:42pm
I hope Carl is comfortable and doing well.

@Chris, a quick family story. My favorite uncle, who lived in Chicago, wore a huge handlebar mustache. When I saw him without it l asked why he shaved it.. Seems he came home one freezing morning, pulled his sweater off over his head and broke half of his mustache off above the lip. He never wore a mustache again.
Comment by The Flying Atheist on March 21, 2015 at 9:30pm
Hey, gang. Just checking in. I had a successful surgery on Wednesday and I'm recovering nicely. I will have to do some in-patient physical therapy at another hospital as a result of my legs being so weak from my kidney disease. Of course I have some lifting restrictions. I've been using my arms to help myself in and out of chairs and bed. I'm no longer allowed to do that, as the pressure may damage my incision. Time to work up my lower body strength.

Thanks to all of you for the well wishes and kind words.
Comment by Joan Denoo on March 21, 2015 at 5:07pm

Spring in Spain Calpe Costa Blanca Spanien 

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Comment by Joan Denoo on March 21, 2015 at 5:02pm

@Carl, just to let you know we are thinking of you. A gentle group hug. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on March 21, 2015 at 2:05am

Ruth, I wish a speedy recovery for your husband and an easy time of caregiving for you during his recovery. 

Six inches of snow, today?! Oh! dreadful. By April 23, there should be no snow or ice to deal with as you go to the facility. Oh dear, who knows?


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