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Comment by Grinning Cat on May 24, 2015 at 10:42pm

Carl -- glad to hear your news, and that the dialysis is working out ok!

Ruth -- lots of hugs... hang in there!

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on May 24, 2015 at 9:45pm

Thanks for your good wishes, all.

Carl, Flying Atheist, good luck with dialysis.

I had just enough time and energy to start returning to the gym, well baby steps, not my old routine. Hopefully my blood pressure is now well enough controlled so working out isn't dangerous.

The #1 Ladies Detective Agency was made into a tv series. We enjoyed several episodes, via a free HBO trial several years ago.

Comment by Bertold Brautigan on May 24, 2015 at 10:56am

Carl - great news that your recovery is coming along so well! It's wonderful to "hear" your voice again!

Comment by sk8eycat on May 24, 2015 at 9:47am

re: Alexander McCall Smith's books; the #1 Ladies Detective Agency series is good.  I started reading them because they arre set in Botswana, and one of my classmates was there when they became independent from the UK....he fell in love with the place, and returned several times. 

Comment by Loren Miller on May 24, 2015 at 7:31am

CARL!!!  Great to hear from you, bro!  Hope all's well!

I may know the thickener stuff you're talking about.  My stepdaughter's little guy uses it because he as swallowing issues.  It's called Simply Thick, and there's the website for it.  Hope it helps.

Comment by Randall Smith on May 24, 2015 at 7:22am

Carl, reading your comment has made my day! I'm relieved and happy to hear you're doing so well. Sounds like you're on the road to recovery. What do you do while on dialysis? Read? You might enjoy Alexander McCall Smith's books. They're light and fun reading. (Strangely, they're catalogued under McCall.)

Ruth, ditto on the other comments. Take your time to return.

Comment by Idaho Spud on May 24, 2015 at 6:28am

Ruth, take care of yourself and husband.

Carl, I'm glad to hear your good news.

Comment by Plinius on May 24, 2015 at 2:08am

Good news, I'm happy to hear it!

It's a long road, Carl, but it's wonderful that you do so well and that you're happy about it!

What a heavy job you have, Ruth! Don't apologise, just take care of yourself. We'll see you whenever you've got the time.

I'm not looking forward to a new knee, and my doctor doesn't want to make haste. First I get injections, and I can walk a bit easier now. It doesn't feel quite right - I mean that I still feel so young while my body is creaky. But I'll get used to it.

I'm very happy that our two patients are using less of our time - we need a bit of leisure. Aunt is happily retreating into Alzheimer's and when I phone brother-in-law that we can't visit him, he says:"Oh good, then I have a day off!"  I like honesty, but the Asperger sort of honesty is often a bit too much for me.

Comment by Joan Denoo on May 24, 2015 at 12:41am

My gracious, my computer did it again, repeat what I had written. It seems I have a gremlin making duplicates of my posts. 

Carl! Wonderful to read your post! I am so very relieved and happy to learn of your excellent progress. You are a marvel! It is just a matter of time and you will be able to have a life again. 

I share your concern about Ruth and her husband. Surely, their life will get back to normal after his surgery and Ruth's challenges end. She is one strong lady and up to the many tasks facing them. 

Some in the group have faced life-threatening situations recently. The good news, we seem to be a hearty lot. Overcoming problems appear to happen for us as we ride the roller-coaster of life. 

Warm hugs to you, Carl and Ruth. 

Comment by sk8eycat on May 24, 2015 at 12:08am

I don't know if this will help, but there is a product that will thicken water    or any other liquid...it might soothe your throat a little.  Ask your doctor; I've forgotten what it's called.

I used to take care of an older woman who had myasthenia gravis, and had trouble swallowing water and juice, and this stuff helped keep her hydrated.

Mabel...in her heyday before she retired from show biz and became a coach:

Knowing her was an honor.

 

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