Hang With Friends

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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

Nobody here is into mind games. A discussion started with a loaded guilt-throwing question will be deleted.

This group is not intended to compete with other groups on topics they cover but to "fill in the cracks." Whenever a discussion dwells at length on a topic for which there's an existing group, we urge you to provide members a link to that group to continue along their tangent.

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Discussion Forum

Mental health in the age of violence: Dr. Elliott Ingersol

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Randall Smith 8 hours ago. 1 Reply

I literally just discovered Dr. Elliott Ingersol yesterday, as a part of a discussion I had with other members of the Northern Ohio Freethought Society.  Dr. Ingersol is a licensed psychologist and clinical counselor in Ohio, as well as a professor…Continue

Tags: talk, psychotropic, therapy, psychology, Elliott Ingersol

maggie and milly and molly and may (Edward Estlin Cummings & Eric Whitacre)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 20. 2 Replies

It's amazing what you discover when you go looking for something you had no idea you'd find.  On an impulse, I pulled up Eric Whitacre's website to see if he had created any new pieces.  It would seem that he has: a song cycle called The City and…Continue

Tags: e e cummings, Eric Whitacre

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISIS

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Randall Smith Nov 18. 1 Reply

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISISGrowth in population, policies and practices that create a gap between the typical person and the wealthy,…Continue

Passive and Active voices

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Nov 16. 1 Reply

Have you noticed that much of the discussion in families and with friends, in the print media, on TV, and now on the internet is in the Passive Voice? Many people whine, complain, gripe, accuse, blame, call names, ridicule, grumble, bitch, rebuke,…Continue

Tags: and, behaviors, communication., attitudes, learned

Detroit Businesswomen Team Up to Get Rape Kits Tested

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by The Flying Atheist Nov 14. 2 Replies

Detroit Businesswomen Team Up to Get Rape Kits Tested"In 2009, a Wayne County assistant prosecuting attorney noticed…Continue

Tags: women, Enough, SAID, black, victims

Something Beautiful – Nathan Phelps & Seth Andrews

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 10. 7 Replies

And it is beautiful, too, indeed, I think some of Seth Andrews' best work.  Interesting point: rather than Seth's dulcet baritone doing the narration, this piece presses Nathan Phelps' deep bass intonation into service, bringing a different flavor…Continue

Tags: Nathan Phelps, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews, beautiful, something

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Comment by Joan Denoo on March 21, 2015 at 5:02pm

@Carl, just to let you know we are thinking of you. A gentle group hug. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on March 21, 2015 at 2:05am

Ruth, I wish a speedy recovery for your husband and an easy time of caregiving for you during his recovery. 

Six inches of snow, today?! Oh! dreadful. By April 23, there should be no snow or ice to deal with as you go to the facility. Oh dear, who knows?

Comment by Joan Denoo on March 21, 2015 at 2:00am

Manito Park is a lovely park with a perennial garden, an annual one, a sunken garden, an area dedicated only to roses, another to dahlias and, of course, our beautiful Japanese Garden. Then there is the duck pond and a beautiful playground for children. One of the hills offers sledding in the winter. There is a grassy knoll where spring bulbs come up before the grass needs mowing. Many volcanic outcroppings occur all through the park.  

Comment by Plinius on March 21, 2015 at 1:48am

You're too kind, Joan! In one of the pics from Spokane I saw such a beautiful park with many flowers.

Comment by Plinius on March 21, 2015 at 1:45am

Best wishes for you and husband with the new knee, Ruth!

Katy, I missed most of my family's stories because of broken contacts. But I heard all the stories from my in-laws and after that I began to ask others for their stories - in the end we're all family and all part of the same history, so every story is important. Tell us your stories!

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on March 20, 2015 at 11:16pm

Thanks for the Happy Spring wish, Joan. My snowdrops got buried under 6 inches of snow today. <sigh> Birds which sang for a week fell silent. I worried about them going hungry.

Interesting story about your family's division as a result of a one letter change, k.h. ky.

My husband will go in for a knee replacement April 23rd. I'll likely be too busy to visit here often during his 6 week recovery. We learned details at a 2 hour class yesterday. We're lucky to be 30 minutes drive from world class joint specialists.

Happy Spring to all you Northern Hemisphere folk, and Happy Autumn to you in the Southern Hemisphere.

Comment by Joan Denoo on March 20, 2015 at 10:36pm

I'm sorry if I misled anyone. The tulip bed is from Keukenhof, Lisse, Netherlands and I chose it to honor Chris. 

Comment by k.h. ky on March 20, 2015 at 12:41pm
It's a dreary, cloudy, first day of spring. Dog has to go to vet to see if we can determine exactly what's going on with her ears. It's been a year of this. Now she hides under the sofa if she sees a bottle of ear wash or drops.
Comment by k.h. ky on March 20, 2015 at 12:36pm
@Chris, I wish I had listened more to family lineage. And the history my gparents lived through. I only learned last year that the spelling of my family name was changed by one letter to please my,then future, gmother. So people l thought we're of no relation are often cousins, uncles, etc.
Comment by k.h. ky on March 20, 2015 at 12:30pm
My auto correct can makessome grammatical errors that are often funny. Sometimes senseless.

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