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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

Nobody here is into mind games. A discussion started with a loaded guilt-throwing question will be deleted.

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Betty Explains Religious Freedom (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner 2 hours ago. 10 Replies

Well, considering all the RFRA bills popping up all over the United States, plus all the fun and games ISIS is bringing to the good folks in Syria and Iraq, Betty Bowers, the epitome of well-dressed christianity, has decided to clarify the true…Continue

Tags: persecution, ISIS, Religious Freedom, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner May 6. 82 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

Tags: surreal

Let's not define ourselves or others by our worst behaviors

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Dominique Lutz Apr 16. 6 Replies

My take on the recent melt down at Hang With Friends, of which I missed part, is that some of us were tripped up by a habit of thought. It's something we learn growing up, and use without realizing how much pain it can generate -  failing to…Continue

Tags: dispute at Hang With Friends

The FLDS Cult Is Unraveling

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Idaho Spud Mar 29. 3 Replies

The FLDS Cult Is Unraveling"the internet is a lifeline for people trapped in the most restrictive and stifling forms of…Continue

Tags: Warren Jeff, internet, FLDS

Ode to Yahweh (Non Stamp Collector & 43alley)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Mar 24. 1 Reply

Ages ago (five or six years, I guess it is) when I first started recognizing my own atheism, one of the first atheist YouTubers I ran onto was Non Stamp Collector.  His handiwork wasn't up to Disney's standards, nor even Hanna-Barbera, but his wit…Continue

Tags: Yahweh, YouTube, 43alley, Non Stamp Collector

Oregon Field Guide - Lamprey Decline

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Mar 15. 3 Replies

Oregon Field Guide - Lamprey Decline"Populations of Eel-like lamprey have suddenly plummeted since the year 2000 in the Columbia Basin, surprising…Continue

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Comment by Joan Denoo on January 5, 2015 at 6:31pm

Patricia, you do look miserable. Must be some unhappy memories to go with the look. 

Let's build some good memories. What brings you pleasure? What do you do and discover that hours have gone by? Who are the people you enjoy being with? Do you like to write? You communicate so clearly and inspire me and led me nicely through cancer. 

I know, we are limited by our bodies getting older. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 5, 2015 at 6:21pm

I hope I don't come across too hard, Mindy. Life kind of toughens one up. Especially when faced with systemic problems. Being part of the 1960s movement for ethnic diversity and women's rights, I became a strategist. 

I know people fight powerfully against what I believe in. I realize there will be resistance and retaliation, I just compartmentalize it and go on with I think I can and need to do. 

Comment by sk8eycat on January 5, 2015 at 6:01pm

Our (Great) Aunt Grace had dark red hair (which had already turned white by the time we were born), and she really was a good example of the word....as in gracious, and graceful.  She and her husband put Dad through USC in the 1920s.  (He had a scholarship, but it didn't pay for everything.)

Comment by sk8eycat on January 5, 2015 at 5:31pm

*snerk!*

My semi-autistic and JW sister is named Grace....after our dad's favorite aunt, who was also a red-head.

Comment by Idaho Spud on January 5, 2015 at 3:54pm

The picture about "tasty and filling prayers" was excellent!  I also saved the pictures about "Fakebook", "Don't make me come in there!", "Happy New Year 2015", "So much to do, so little desire"  Thanks.

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Comment by sk8eycat on January 5, 2015 at 3:51pm

I thought about printing cards, too; to hand to people who say they're praying for something, or somebody, to my face, but most of the worst offenders are dead now. 

That's one way to get passive revenge; outlive the annoying S.O.Bs!

Comment by sk8eycat on January 5, 2015 at 3:23pm

Mindy, I've been looking at "Thank You for Your Prayers" ever since you posted it, and thinking about so many different things.  Like my own desire to kick the people who automatically end every conversation with, "I'm praying for you," and the absolute rejection of any type of contraception imposed by most religions.  (I've always wanted to give that old fraud, Agnes Bojaxhiu/"Mother" Teresa, a swift one, but she died before I could do it.)

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 5, 2015 at 2:24pm

Mindy, we have more important things to do and say than to make friends. These small children do not have a voice; they need to be seen and heard. If you and I don't show the reality, who will? When? When I saw your post on Facebook, I thought, "Mindy's free!" When we write in order to make friends, are we really reaching down deeply inside ourselves and writing what we feel? 

I kind of like it when I get refutations. It means someone doesn't want the truth known. I like it when I get rebuked for sloppy writing, as happened this past week. I was in error in my reporting and I needed to be admonished. 

So, welcome to the crowd of truth tellers! As a group, we grow and flourish, even as we need support from other truth tellers. Life can get lonely sometimes. The odd thing is my family who claimed they block my writing, read my stuff. I get feedback that they have read a piece I write. They don't tell me, but they do tell another family member who gives me the feedback. My audience also grows, especially when I write a particularly controversial piece. It seems there are people holding back from saying what they think until they read my stuff or other writers who challenge the status quo.  

Another unexpected thing happens when I post the excellent pieces of A/N members, I get strong, positive feedback. People want to read what we write. They feel starved for more holistic thinking. I don't get any hate mail anymore. That ended when I ignored them. I didn't respond to the negativity, I wrote tougher articles each time a piece of hate mail arrived. If I had quit writing, hate-mongers would have won. No Way!  

Comment by Plinius on January 5, 2015 at 8:34am

No, you don't, Randall! There are people who put a little strain on my patience, but you don't. A/N is also my only online social communion and I feel at home here. I was at FB and I'm still at BookCrossing, but those are no places where you can be yourself and still be respected.

Comment by Randall Smith on January 5, 2015 at 8:12am

Thanks Mindy and Chris! I know I'm not alone in the Facebook department (I cancelled yesterday!) and cell phone (no "smart" for me). A/N is my one and only social communication outlet. I worry that I comment too much, however. Well, perhaps not worry--it just crosses my mind.

Love those "cartoons"!

 

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