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Hang With Friends

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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

Nobody here is into mind games. A discussion started with a loaded guilt-throwing question will be deleted.

This group is not intended to compete with other groups on topics they cover but to "fill in the cracks." Whenever a discussion dwells at length on a topic for which there's an existing group, we urge you to provide members a link to that group to continue along their tangent.

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Goodwill to Few Men (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Donald R Barbera Jul 23. 3 Replies

Think Goodwill Industries does well by the poor?  Fact is, they do WAY BETTER for themselves, to the point where America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers, thinks they're ripping off the christian playbook a bit too well!  Have a look for yourself:…Continue

Tags: ripoff, Goodwill Industries, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Your favorite photobombs?

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Plinius Jul 10. 12 Replies

Running of the bulls photobomb.Continue

losing faith (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller Jul 5. 0 Replies

TheraminTrees has recently begun producing a new series of YouTube videos, which added to a wonderful library of earlier observations regarding his experience of religion. Good as all those pieces are, I personally think they pale against this…Continue

Tags: story, history, faith, TheraminTrees

Betty Explains Religious Freedom (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Jul 3. 10 Replies

Well, considering all the RFRA bills popping up all over the United States, plus all the fun and games ISIS is bringing to the good folks in Syria and Iraq, Betty Bowers, the epitome of well-dressed christianity, has decided to clarify the true…Continue

Tags: persecution, ISIS, Religious Freedom, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner May 6. 82 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

Tags: surreal

Let's not define ourselves or others by our worst behaviors

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Dominique Lutz Apr 16. 6 Replies

My take on the recent melt down at Hang With Friends, of which I missed part, is that some of us were tripped up by a habit of thought. It's something we learn growing up, and use without realizing how much pain it can generate -  failing to…Continue

Tags: dispute at Hang With Friends

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Comment by Bertold Brautigan on January 14, 2015 at 7:50am

Good video, Joan. I've seen the video of Neil's conversation in the church as well, and I was really impressed with how soft-spoken yet unyielding he was.

Comment by Randall Smith on January 14, 2015 at 7:35am

Wow--thanks for the outpouring of sympathy. I'm not depressed or in mourning, but it's hard to quit thinking about it. It was from his wife that I received the news of my friend's suicide. She used many "god knows best" type cliches. But, if it helps her deal with his death, then I'm okay with that.

Comment by Plinius on January 14, 2015 at 4:59am

Sorry to hear you lost two friends Randall!

Comment by Ian Mason on January 13, 2015 at 9:25pm

I'm very sorry to hear of your loss, Randall.

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 13, 2015 at 8:45pm

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 13, 2015 at 7:45pm

Randy, I am so very sorry to learn of the loss of your two close friends. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 13, 2015 at 6:00pm

I hope you get this news report; The usual process didn't do as it usually does. I shall keep you informed.  

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 13, 2015 at 5:59pm

Felaine, this one is for you! 

Spokane teens headed to U.S. Figure Skating Championships

http://www.krem.com/story/news/local/spokane-county/2015/01/13/loca...

Comment by sk8eycat on January 13, 2015 at 4:37pm

Randy, a frieind of mine committed suicide a couple of years ago, and I'm still not "over it." 

It's an awful feeling, not to be able to pick up the phone or e-mail her when I think of something that would  interest her.  I still don't know WHY she did it, and I never will since her entire (fundamentalist) family has refused to communicate in any way with her atheist friends.  (She had a very popular atheist web site for more than 10 years....)

So, I do know how devastating the situation can be (hell, I still miss talking to my father, and he died in 1985!)  All I can do is send you an e-hug.  that feels so inadequate....  8 >(

Comment by Grinning Cat on January 13, 2015 at 4:13pm

Randy, I'm sorry to hear you've lost two good friends! (And I hope you didn't get too many well-meaning theists saying impossible things.)

 

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