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The Whole Bible in 30 Seconds (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Qiana-Maieev 22 hours ago. 2 Replies

Ever decide that you wanted to read the whole bible, cover to cover, only to realize half-way through Deuteronomy that the darn thing is industrial-strength BORING?!?  Well, never fear!  America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers, has done the Cliff's…Continue

Tags: bible, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Are You a Patriot? (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Chris G on Tuesday. 22 Replies

You might think that Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, would be stepping outside of her comfort zone in tackling the concept of patriotism.  As it turns out, not only does she have a proper handle on the term and its implications, she also…Continue

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We Don't Want Your (Atheist) Money! (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat Aug 25. 11 Replies

I suppose I've heard stories like this before:Conscientious atheist donates money to worthy cause.Worthy cause initially accepts money.Worthy cause discovers source of donation.Worthy cause rejects donation.Swell, eh?  Well Matt Willbourne of…Continue

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The Ark Encounter: A Less than Grand Opening (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat Aug 21. 24 Replies

The day finally arrived.  Ken Ham's Ark Encounter opened on 7 July, 2016 ... to something a bit less than Disney-sized crowds, and more than a couple dissenting voices!  Seth Andrews has gathered a quartet of significant participants in the protest…Continue

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Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Idaho Spud Aug 14. 91 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

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Wedding Haka - Subtitled & translated

Started by Joan Denoo Aug 13. 0 Replies

I ran across a video of a wedding in which a group of wedding guests celebrated with a performance of a traditional Māori ancestral war dance, called a Haka. It was intended for sons, however, the women have joined in a participation of…Continue

Tags: new, traditions., women, men, Haka

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Comment by sk8eycat on July 2, 2012 at 10:34pm

Judith started writing her Happy Heretic columns on the net around 1994.  She wanted to help "fence-sitters," people who didn't know anybody else who had lost their faith, and felt that maybe they were wrong...or the only person in the world who was having doubts. She used humor and sarcasm to point out how ridiculous (and nasty) the buybull really is, and she had a section with links to other web sites for non-belevers. (There weren't all that many back then.)  I didn't find her web site until I first went on the net at a friend's house in 2000, I loved her writing, wrote my first "fan email," (that doesn't sound right...) and I guess I made her laugh, because she wrote back.  When I finally got my own (used) Gateway in 2001, we just kept writing to each other....and then there were occasional phone calls when we'd just forget about religious/atheist issues andjust do "girl-talk"...cooking, men, pets.

I need to get in touch with some of her other long-time friends...her webmaster did have access to her computer & address book, but I don't know if he still does.  The Sheriff's dept. may have grabbed it.

There are a lot of other Heretic fans all over the world who are feeling lost and bewildered right now.  There are still things I want to talk to her about...and I can't  8>/

Everyone here is helping, though, and I thank you all very much.

Comment by Joe Meyer on July 2, 2012 at 9:15pm

Sorry to hear about your friend, Judith,  sk8eycat.

Comment by sk8eycat on July 2, 2012 at 7:11pm

James, I don't want to scratch a believer.  I like to keep my nails clean.

Comment by James M. Martin on July 2, 2012 at 5:54pm

sk8eycat, I just learned from Hitchens's first chapter that his mother was a suicide and that one of my favorite atheist issues, death and dying, and in particular the concept of consciousness, actually was a concern of Lucretius.  Atheists say death is not to be feared because one was not conscious before birth, nor will they be conscious afterward.  I forget how Lucretius put it, but here is that delightful old Epicurean's devotion to a friend, words I want to be of use to you now: "But still your merit, and as I hope, the joy/ Of our sweet friendship, urge me to any toil."  When a friend of mine passes, I also think of Donne, who was both poetically and scientifically right (I am thinking of the implicate order of Bohm) when he likened a clod falling into the ocean as an injury to all one's country.  (As you know, it is silly to belabor Donne's Christianity.)

Comment by James M. Martin on July 2, 2012 at 5:41pm

I did not know Ms. Hayes but just went to her website and will be reading her books as soon as I finish Hitch 22.

Comment by James M. Martin on July 2, 2012 at 5:37pm

sk8eycat Scratch a believer and you get an agnostic.

Comment by James M. Martin on July 2, 2012 at 5:35pm

Bassetts stink -- literally -- and tend to have skin tumors in older age.  But they are the clowns of the dog species, that is for sure.  (Dalmatians are goofy too, but not quite so much.)

Comment by sk8eycat on July 2, 2012 at 12:46pm

Thanks for Bob Dog, Steph.  I needed that!  I love Basset hounds...they're so silly.

Does anyone remember this "Bob Dog"?

Photo of Bob Dog

Comment by Ian Mason on July 2, 2012 at 12:13pm

Fun dog, Steph :)

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on July 2, 2012 at 12:00pm

Thanks for sharing the sad news about Judith Hayes.

 

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