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Men who challenge men to stop violence

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Idaho Spud Jan 9. 19 Replies

Many men join in the effort to reduce violence against women and children and other men. He speaks of the need to place responsibility on men instead of focusing on women to stop violence. He offers a breath of fresh air, as do so many of the men on…Continue

Ian, a beautiful New Years blessing.

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Chris Jan 5. 7 Replies

Ian, for some reason, my comment would not "send" on Hang with Friends; perhaps it will here!Ian, a beautiful New Years blessing. It goes in my file. I especially like the thought of surprising myself. Laura made a special trip to my Spokane home to…Continue

degrading love — part two (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller Jan 1. 0 Replies

TheraminTrees set up religion with his left in Part One of his treatise on how religion demeans and degrades the value of love.  Here in Part Two, he brings in a devastating, "Mike Tyson" right, which negates and invalidates any claim that either…Continue

Tags: Christianity, Islam, TheraminTrees, god, love

The Ark Encounter: A Less than Grand Opening (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Idaho Spud Dec 31, 2016. 27 Replies

The day finally arrived.  Ken Ham's Ark Encounter opened on 7 July, 2016 ... to something a bit less than Disney-sized crowds, and more than a couple dissenting voices!  Seth Andrews has gathered a quartet of significant participants in the protest…Continue

Tags: Tracey Moody, Dan Broadbent, Seth Andrews, David Silverman, AronRa

Learning a Language as a Mature Adult

Started by Daniel W. Last reply by Idaho Spud Dec 14, 2016. 27 Replies

Trying to keep my mind exercised, and not interested in most of the reading materials that I can find.I decided to attempt to learn a language.  Actually, two.  The dilemma is, how do I do that without going to school - not an option - and without…Continue

What Annoys God Most? (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat Dec 7, 2016. 10 Replies

Long story short, it's those near misses, the almost-but-not-quite, close but no cheroot moments, or, would you believe ... Near Death Experiences!  So what's the big deal?  Betty Bowers, America's BEST Christian and self-proclaimed expert on such…Continue

Tags: Near Death Experiences, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

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Comment by Joan Denoo on June 26, 2016 at 11:31am

Randy, I am very sorry to learn of the storm damage. Your family works so hard, and they obviously enjoy their lifestyle.  

Storms leave me feeling helpless; don't allow hopelessness to turn into depression. 

Two things often trigger depression, helplessness and not being in control. Farming imposes both factors on farmers. 

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on June 26, 2016 at 10:07am

Thanks for the encouragement. I've already had my uvula removed and turbinates cut back to improve breathing at night. Don't think there's third surgery that would help, Carl. I have about ten issues apart from the apnea. Steeply sloped bed for reflux, usually sleep in a fetal position  due to pinched nerve, chronic sinus condition, use an occlusal guard for teeth grinding, get up every 1 1/2 to 2 hours due to bladder problem, and on and on. My mask has to be held over the nose with one hand while the other hand pulls the straps around my head. Yours sounds much easier to get into, Donald.

I appreciate your support.

The CPAP nags me to not get up as often. Reminders every day that I have to acknowledge. <eye roll>

Comment by Donald L. Engel on June 26, 2016 at 1:46am

Ruth, it took me about a week to get used to my CPAP machine.  Now I feel lousy if I'm not wearing it in bed.  I learned to put my head on the pillow, and then use the pillow to hold the face mask while I moved my head within the mask to get the most direct air flow to my nose.  It just takes the slightest movement of my head to adjust it right.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on June 25, 2016 at 10:38pm

Ruth, my ex had to start using a CPAP and he struggled with how uncomfortable it was.  I'm not sure what your issue is, but my ex finally ended up having a small nasal surgery which corrected his problem.

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on June 25, 2016 at 10:28pm

Sorry to hear about the awful storm and its damage to your kids property, Randall.

Thanks for your physical therapy update, Flying Atheist. The parade was not in your cards.

I haven't been here as much as I'd like. Struggling for over a month to get used to sleeping with a CPAP. <sigh><bags under eyes> I read that most people only take a week or two.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on June 25, 2016 at 10:04pm

Hello to all.  I hope you're having a good weekend.  Not much new here.  Just doing my twice-weekly physical therapy and going to intermittent doctor appointments.  The physical therapy is definitely helping to give me strength and more confidence in walking and moving about.

Chicago's gay pride parade is tomorrow, Sunday, and I really felt a strong need to attend because of the horrific massacre in Orlando.  But I realize I can't physically stand for hours and hours, especially in the hot sun.  It would also be extremely difficult to navigate through such a large crowd because of the high risk of falling.  One million or more people are expected to be there.  It's a huge parade that is at least three hours long.  Perhaps I should just be sitting on top of a float in the parade!

Comment by The Flying Atheist on June 25, 2016 at 9:04pm

Randy, sorry to hear about all the weather problems you and your family are going through.  The flooding of farmland and the loss of buildings and so many trees is devastating. 

Comment by k.h. ky on June 24, 2016 at 12:23pm
Randall, sorry to hear that. Weather reports were running on the TV last night predicting your area would be hit hard. By the time it arrived here after midnight we only had a small amount of thunder and almost no rain.
Comment by Plinius on June 24, 2016 at 10:44am

That's bad Randall, a pity about the trees and I do hope the greenhouses were insured!

Comment by Randall Smith on June 24, 2016 at 6:38am

Things got even worse on the farm after a storm with 100+mph winds blew through. My kids "lost" two greenhouses with damage to others. And I (we) lost at least 30 nice trees, some 3 feet in diameter, in the 7 acre woods. I walked through it, scrambling over and around downed maples, buckeyes, oaks, etc. It was devastated, as was I. It'll take time to recover.

 

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