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The Playboy Interview: Richard Dawkins

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller yesterday. 16 Replies

I suppose it was the news that Playboy magazine was returning nudes to its pages after a year's hiatus that sufficiently perked my curiosity to check them out again.  I hadn't looked at Playboy since perhaps 2008, when I began to recognize that I…Continue

Tags: Richard Dawkins, Playboy

God's Annual Performance Review (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Mar 19. 6 Replies

I don't know about you guys, but there wasn't a performance review I had in 30 years of field service that I didn't LOATHE.  It seems as though Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, is up for turning the tables on the person you would expect would…Continue

Tags: review, performance, god, American's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Learning a Language as a Mature Adult

Started by Daniel W. Last reply by Joan Denoo Mar 2. 28 Replies

Trying to keep my mind exercised, and not interested in most of the reading materials that I can find.I decided to attempt to learn a language.  Actually, two.  The dilemma is, how do I do that without going to school - not an option - and without…Continue

Such Lyrics!

Started by Donatien Alphonse François. Last reply by Grinning Cat Feb 13. 9 Replies

Hello Friends,I was ruminating a bit today on my sixty-some years existence. My mind went back to teenage years when I first figured out religion is not only obnoxiously loud, but also nothing I wanted anything to do with. Truly. I knew by age 15…Continue

degrading love — part two (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Feb 11. 1 Reply

TheraminTrees set up religion with his left in Part One of his treatise on how religion demeans and degrades the value of love.  Here in Part Two, he brings in a devastating, "Mike Tyson" right, which negates and invalidates any claim that either…Continue

Tags: Christianity, Islam, TheraminTrees, god, love

Questions......

Started by Thomas Murray. Last reply by k.h. ky Feb 9. 6 Replies

   It has been 6 month now since I signed up for Atheist Nexus membership. The past year has been sort of a bi-polar wave of emotions for me. I hope I wasn't offensive to the folks on here and I think I have been but I don't know to who. My desire…Continue

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Comment by Joan Denoo on August 31, 2016 at 1:04pm
Comment by Idaho Spud on August 31, 2016 at 7:58am

"Good, or bad, the not knowing drives me nuts, ruins my sleep, & I can't think of anything else other than something is wrong."

I can relate Qiana.  I'm the same.  I would tell my doctor how it affects me, and ask him to PLEASE let me know without a waiting period.

Comment by Loren Miller on August 31, 2016 at 5:43am

Joan, I dropped a note to Pat some time back, and have not heard from him ... and yeah, I worry, 'cuz I really enjoy his presence here.

And as for solar roadways, I still would like to know: what happens when you drop a bowling ball or a safe on one?  What happens during a winter freeze/thaw cycle?  How do you repair them???

Comment by Joan Denoo on August 30, 2016 at 11:49pm

Am I crazy, or does this title make no sense?

"Marvellous Technology S Biggest Flops And Why Solar Roadways Are Se...

I understand "Marvellous Technology" and "Flops" but the rest of it has no meaning. The captions on the photos provide more confusion than illumination.

Here is another dandy:

"Excellent The Has Laid World S First Solar Road We Go Eyes Solar Pa...

 

Comment by Joan Denoo on August 30, 2016 at 11:29pm

Daniel, yes, arthroscopic surgery was the procedure. It only took 15 minutes and I felt almost immediate relief. I do hand exercises to restore flexibility and have returned to normal activity. I have hair cuts that hurt more than this. 

Loren, I just sent another message to Pat with a not so subtle, "Are you OK?" Daniel wrote to him earlier as well with no response. I wonder if he has family that collects his mail?

  

Comment by k.h. ky on August 30, 2016 at 10:59pm
Thank you Daniel. That's kind of you. I was just really curious about anyone being called in for test results. Just seems odd. I've been called by a doctor to go straight to the hospital because I was having an ectopic pregnancy and the surgeon would be waiting for me. Holiday weekends are a hard time to get information :\
Comment by Daniel W on August 30, 2016 at 10:16pm
I wish I could say something more helpful. I just hope there is something useful from your test, and not a big deal. Please do keep us posted, I will be concerned for you.
Comment by k.h. ky on August 30, 2016 at 10:10pm
This doctor and I are friendly. The nurse's always call with the results and any follow up with a prescription or referral. If everything checked out OK they just call and tell me that.
It may be a matter of new policy. A new place came here about eight years ago and seems to be ran in much the way Daniels prior job was. A lot of turnover in the physicians dept and no compete clauses for three years.
I was just curious because I've never had one asked me to schedule for follow up on test results and didn't know anyone who has.
Whatever it is I'll find out Tue.
Comment by Daniel W on August 30, 2016 at 8:59pm
Oh, I should have just said - calling you i to the office doesnt suggest bad news or good news, it may just reflect the doctor's style or even that of their staff,
Comment by Daniel W on August 30, 2016 at 8:46pm
My experience was that there is no standard in how test results are reported, and the way they teach in residency does not reflect either reality ir patient emotions. Personally, I hate the phone, and the vast majority of test results were emailed or mailed. If a simple change was needed - cholesterontoo high, needs higher dose of lipitor - that was conveyed via the nurse pool. If more complicated - there is a polyp that needs biopsy - I called and the first thing I said was "This is Dr xxx and Im calling to discuss your test result". Depending on the tesult, I might say "Are you driving? We cant discuss any results in traffic so when can I call you back?". If it was absolutely bad news - cancer, usually - I first got their referral for further staging or surgery, then when I called said, "The radiologist felt that your result showed a type of cancer... then when that seemed sort of digested, I continued "This is the plan...". One reality is that often a radiologist is not always tight when they see an abnormal finding, and other tests are needed.

Personally, I think it's pathetic to call people in to the office for a result, especially after the test is done. When possible, before the test, I tried to discuss with them " How should we discuss your result? Do you want it over the phone, or in person". Probably 99% of adults want it in person and are adult enough to handle what you tell them on the phone.

I usually request my own CT scan results by email. They are too busy to call, it's ridiculous to return to their office. I just take control and tell them, "It's much more nerve wracking to wait. It either shows metastatic cancer, or something vague, or something else, or it's negative. In any case just send it to me and we'll go from there. I'm mature enough to handle bad news and prefer reading it to hearing it. I realize that my situation is different, but that's what I do,
 

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