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God's Annual Performance Review (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Mar 19. 6 Replies

I don't know about you guys, but there wasn't a performance review I had in 30 years of field service that I didn't LOATHE.  It seems as though Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, is up for turning the tables on the person you would expect would…Continue

Tags: review, performance, god, American's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Learning a Language as a Mature Adult

Started by Daniel W. Last reply by Joan Denoo Mar 2. 28 Replies

Trying to keep my mind exercised, and not interested in most of the reading materials that I can find.I decided to attempt to learn a language.  Actually, two.  The dilemma is, how do I do that without going to school - not an option - and without…Continue

The Playboy Interview: Richard Dawkins

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Chris Feb 19. 14 Replies

I suppose it was the news that Playboy magazine was returning nudes to its pages after a year's hiatus that sufficiently perked my curiosity to check them out again.  I hadn't looked at Playboy since perhaps 2008, when I began to recognize that I…Continue

Tags: Richard Dawkins, Playboy

Such Lyrics!

Started by Donatien Alphonse François. Last reply by Grinning Cat Feb 13. 9 Replies

Hello Friends,I was ruminating a bit today on my sixty-some years existence. My mind went back to teenage years when I first figured out religion is not only obnoxiously loud, but also nothing I wanted anything to do with. Truly. I knew by age 15…Continue

degrading love — part two (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Feb 11. 1 Reply

TheraminTrees set up religion with his left in Part One of his treatise on how religion demeans and degrades the value of love.  Here in Part Two, he brings in a devastating, "Mike Tyson" right, which negates and invalidates any claim that either…Continue

Tags: Christianity, Islam, TheraminTrees, god, love


Started by Thomas Murray. Last reply by k.h. ky Feb 9. 6 Replies

   It has been 6 month now since I signed up for Atheist Nexus membership. The past year has been sort of a bi-polar wave of emotions for me. I hope I wasn't offensive to the folks on here and I think I have been but I don't know to who. My desire…Continue

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Comment by tom sarbeck on February 15, 2017 at 1:34am
May I stir some mischief?

So many people tell us that super-continent was called Pangaea.

Who 500 million years ago called it that, or anything?
Comment by Joan Denoo on February 15, 2017 at 1:09am

Spud, I just read your question about my new living conditions. Northeastern Washington state and northern Idaho have been hotbeds for radical religious and political bodies for years.

White Nationalists, Christian Identity Movement, General Hate Groups, and those who feel they have been left out or overrun by "foreigners" gather in the mountains and valleys of this beautiful country. They come, build their homes, grow their food, gather for meetings of solidarity, and commit mischief if not crimes to get back at society. 

Along comes me, asking questions, writing articles, testing the waters. 

The partners that come into my family all have some religious and political differences with me. One granddaughter's partner is from a christian family of some strict denomination, the other granddaughter's partner comes from a Jehovah's Witness group, many of the neighbors and friends of the family are Mennonite. 

I am getting a lot of practice talking with people who think differently than I and who want to convince me with their rules and bible as their authority. I just keep asking questions: 

"Do you really believe ...?" or "Why are there so many wars between religious people?" or "How can you claim to love when there is so much hate-talk?" or "Do you think it is possible to be good without g-d?" or "Where do you get your authority?" or "How do you account for the ancient fossils in Gardner Cave? if the Earth is only 6,000 years old?"

The geology of the region has many features that stand out. On a mountain north of here is a cave, Gardner Cave, that was formed about "500 million years ago when all of the continents were one super-continent called Pangaea. During this period much of North America was covered by an ocean. When the sea creatures died, their shells, bones, and coral settled to the bottom, forming limestone ooze. This mud eventually turned into a rock called the Metaline Limestone. About 70 million years ago, as mountains were forming, this rock was folded and uplifted, and during this process, it developed cracks and voids. To form a limestone cave water must be present above the limestone as in a stream, rains or in this case mostly glaciers.

"Limestone will dissolve in acid, such as the acid formed when rainwater absorbs carbon dioxide, mostly from seeping through the soil. Even though carbonic or sulfuric acid is a weak solution, when it seeps into the ground and limestone over millions of years it will cause small cracks to enlarge as the limestone is carried away in solution. This process will enlarge the cracks and then produce larger and larger voids. If the source of water is a stream, it may disappear above ground and find an exit through the limestone downhill. The erosion of both the acids and water will carve out significant passages, vast caverns form."

I enjoy the banter. The people believe sincerely in their religious and political traditions. They are polite and civil and mystified by my thinking. They are great cooks; love potluck get-togethers, and are excellent storytellers. Their exaggerations are an art form! 

Comment by BenGee on February 15, 2017 at 12:38am


I quite agree with you on every point of your comment without exception.

Comment by Bertold Brautigan on February 15, 2017 at 12:35am

Joan - you made this comment in another thread that's thankfully closed.

  • Do we want more math, physics, astronomy and electrical engineering and conflict or more care, compassion, commitment, humanities, and peace? 
  • Oh! by the way, some girls excel at math, physics, astronomy, and electrical engineering and some boys excel at care, compassion, commitment, and humanities. 

You're a national treasure.

Comment by Ian Mason on February 15, 2017 at 12:22am

Glad to hear that you're still ticking along, Joan. The dinner sounds tasty. As you like fish, try trout poached in cider.

I've faked Zip codes before to sign petitions but I doubt I'd get away with ringing a congress man/woman.

Comment by Grinning Cat on February 14, 2017 at 10:41pm

Joan, I'm glad you're OK!

Ruth, I appreciate your letters in Writing to Congress; they help me make timely, coherent phone calls to our senators and my congressman.

Carl, Democrats who have good positions still appreciate knowing that a certain number of constituents approve of them, and are likely to want to see them reelected. You can also push them for leadership on crucial issues.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on February 14, 2017 at 10:17pm

I'm very lucky that my two Senators and my House Representative are Democrats.  I usually don't need to contact them about issues because they're already on board with my thinking.  Of course, Barack Obama was my Senator for four years before he became President.  I will, however, write or call my Representatives if their positions are unknown to me.

Daniel, it is my plan to incorporate my laptop into my new desk.  However, I have a desk now that I really like, but with my new desk I could hide away the "clutter."

Joan, I'm so glad to hear your replacement pacemaker procedure went well.  You have a new heart for Valentine's Day! 

Comment by Daniel W on February 14, 2017 at 8:04pm

Joan, the stuff we go through to keep on keeping on!  Glad your upgrade worked out and you got to celebrate!

Carl, nice desk!  Looks perfect for a computer :-)

I have a writing desk from my great aunt.  It is probably not as vintage as yours, maybe 1930s.  My laptop is very comfortable there.

Comment by k.h. ky on February 14, 2017 at 7:40pm
Chris, I like the tips you posted and I'm going to start using them. For the fourth week there is no answer at the senators offices :)

I'll ky trying until I can at least get the machine.
McConnell sucks.
Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on February 14, 2017 at 7:04pm

Thanks for sharing, Joan. It sounds like a trial, and I'm glad you're OK.


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