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The End of the World ... Again?!?

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Pat Oct 1. 5 Replies

Uh, guys and gals?  Hate to tell you, but the world ended the other day.  And the hell of it is, I MISSED IT!  Yeah, too busy with other stuff, mowing the lawn, enjoying the company of my wife, and taking care of puddy-cats, and I just MISSED it!One…Continue

Tags: AronRa, prophecy, end of the world

Sam Harris The Case Against Christianity

Started by dudaboli yev. Last reply by Donald R Barbera Sep 30. 1 Reply

Sam Harris The Case Against Christianity Sam Harris offers his case against the Christian god conceptSamuel Benjamin "Sam" Harris is an American author, neuroscientist, philosopher, the co-founder and chief executive of Project Reason, a non-profit…Continue

Your favorite photobombs?

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by amer chohan Sep 2. 13 Replies

Running of the bulls photobomb.Continue

An AN member passed away

Started by Deidre. Last reply by Deidre Aug 18. 4 Replies

Went into the chat room last Friday night, for the first time in a while, and learned that Mequa passed away. I had been good friends with him for a time, but we had differences and stopped talking back in the spring of this year. I knew however,…Continue

A Parable by Mrs. Betty Bowers

Started by Loren Miller Aug 17. 0 Replies

Betty Bowers is becoming SO GOOD at delivering as America's Best Christian, she now does 30-second parables!  (Okay, 32 seconds!  Picky, picky!) Have You Had YOUR Betty Today?Continue

Tags: bible, parable, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Goodwill to Few Men (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Michael Penn Aug 16. 8 Replies

Think Goodwill Industries does well by the poor?  Fact is, they do WAY BETTER for themselves, to the point where America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers, thinks they're ripping off the christian playbook a bit too well!  Have a look for yourself:…Continue

Tags: ripoff, Goodwill Industries, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

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Comment by The Flying Atheist on January 24, 2015 at 1:42pm

Thank you everyone for the big hugs and support. 

Patricia, deep down I'm not really surprised I have heart problems.  My father had a heart attack when he was 54 (he'll be 80 this year!) and his father died of a massive heart attack when he was in his 50's.  My grandmother had a heart condition and TIA strokes.  Heart disease runs rampant in my family.  With proper care, I know that I have a lot of life left in me.  I've seen it with my father. 

Joan, thank for sharing the Branford Marsalis video.  That is some awesome swinging jazz!  Loved it. 

Chris, I am feeling calm.  I'm normally a calm and easy-going person.  It's my personality.  I'm not going to say that I haven't been stressed out by what's happening, but I'm not getting all worked up about something I can't avoid.  To be honest, I'm looking forward to getting these surgeries completed so I can start to heal, feel better, and get my life back. 


Comment by Idaho Spud on January 24, 2015 at 1:27pm

Carl, hope you will recover well from those operations.  

Comment by Randall Smith on January 24, 2015 at 8:19am

Thanks for sharing your health situation, Carl. Here I am complaining about the pre-colonoscopy prep I had to endure, and then read your story. Have courage and fight the bad draw as hard as you can. Keep us informed.

Another piece of sad news from Chicago: Ernie Banks, the greatest Cub of all, died. 

Comment by Plinius on January 24, 2015 at 3:07am

You've got such a calm way of telling bad news, Carl! I do hope you feel as calm! Heartfelt wishes to you!

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 24, 2015 at 1:24am

Carl,  such bad news! This is not good. Of course, I care so deeply about you and we will pull with you as you face the decisions and procedures ahead. I have no words that can comfort you or skill that can take away your health problems. All I can say is I care.

Comment by Ian Mason on January 23, 2015 at 11:15pm

Carl, You must have great courage and resolve to keep your chin up under these "slings and arrows of outrageous fortune". My hat off to you and a hug.

Comment by sk8eycat on January 23, 2015 at 10:59pm

Oh, Carl....I wanna hug you SO much!  Just think of me as RBG .... the  emotion is the same:

President Barack Obama hugs Supreme Court Justice Ruth Bader Ginsburg, on Capitol Hill in Washington, Tuesday, Jan. 20, 2015, before giving his State of the Union address before a joint session of Congress. (AP Photo/Mandel Ngan, Pool)

Comment by The Flying Atheist on January 23, 2015 at 9:58pm

Well, I've had a bit of a health set-back.  I recently had a echo cardiogram and a nuclear cardiac stress test.  Results show that I have moderate to severe aortic stenosis and that I need a aortic valve replacement. 

As I mentioned previously, I had a mild stroke in December.  These recent tests show scarring on my heart which indicate that I've also had a prior heart attack.  Thinking back, I can pinpoint the evening back in July when that must have occurred.  It's what prompted me to make an appointment with my doctor the following day which put me in the hospital where they discovered my kidneys failing.     

So now the big decision I'm waiting on from doctors is whether to have heart surgery first and then the kidney transplant, or vise versa.  Either way, I have some challenging months ahead of me.  Personally, I'd rather go ahead with the kidney transplant first, but I'm not a doctor.  The best I can do is heed the advice of the professionals.

The past six months have been overwhelming.  I've also noticed my health declining.  I'm now getting winded and out of breath just walking around my small apartment,  I lack the energy to perform simple tasks and chores.  Luckily, I have access to a computer and all you wonderful people here at Atheist Nexus to keep me occupied and sane when I'm not sleeping or napping. 

Comment by k.h. ky on January 23, 2015 at 9:45pm
It's snowing :( Two inches already. And I was so ready for spring.
Comment by sk8eycat on January 22, 2015 at 1:05pm

I should have posted the link:

Good comments, too.


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