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Hang With Friends

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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Goodwill to Few Men (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Donald R Barbera Jul 23. 3 Replies

Think Goodwill Industries does well by the poor?  Fact is, they do WAY BETTER for themselves, to the point where America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers, thinks they're ripping off the christian playbook a bit too well!  Have a look for yourself:…Continue

Tags: ripoff, Goodwill Industries, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Your favorite photobombs?

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Plinius Jul 10. 12 Replies

Running of the bulls photobomb.Continue

losing faith (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller Jul 5. 0 Replies

TheraminTrees has recently begun producing a new series of YouTube videos, which added to a wonderful library of earlier observations regarding his experience of religion. Good as all those pieces are, I personally think they pale against this…Continue

Tags: story, history, faith, TheraminTrees

Betty Explains Religious Freedom (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Jul 3. 10 Replies

Well, considering all the RFRA bills popping up all over the United States, plus all the fun and games ISIS is bringing to the good folks in Syria and Iraq, Betty Bowers, the epitome of well-dressed christianity, has decided to clarify the true…Continue

Tags: persecution, ISIS, Religious Freedom, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner May 6. 82 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

Tags: surreal

Let's not define ourselves or others by our worst behaviors

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Dominique Lutz Apr 16. 6 Replies

My take on the recent melt down at Hang With Friends, of which I missed part, is that some of us were tripped up by a habit of thought. It's something we learn growing up, and use without realizing how much pain it can generate -  failing to…Continue

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Comment by sk8eycat on December 30, 2014 at 2:06am

One of the advantages of being a "loner."  I haven't had a flu shot in 10+ years, and haven't  had even a sniffle in all that time,either.

Well, my nose tends to drip when the weather gets below 50deg, but there's no infection.  (Just gross.)

I think that the older you get, and if you manage to stay relatively healthy, you immune system becomes more efficient.  Mom used to drag me to the doctor when I was in elementary school for a gamma globulin shot whenever there was a run of measles in the school (no vaccines then), so I was 20 years old and in Miami Beach when I broke out with roseola.  Cost me 6 days pay.  I've never had rubella measles.  Had chicken pox and mumps when I was 6 or 7....NOT fun.  And the chicken pox returned as shingles when I was 21 or 22.  Gaaaahhhhh!

But I have not had influenza or anything like that since I retired.

*knocks wood*

Comment by The Flying Atheist on December 30, 2014 at 12:45am

What I got for Xmas:  the flu.  I had my flu shot back in the Fall, so hopefully this won't last too long or be too severe.  Several members of my family are also afflicted.  The price you pay for family unity during the holiday season.  Ugh!

Comment by sk8eycat on December 29, 2014 at 1:09am

Comment by Idaho Spud on December 28, 2014 at 11:57am

Mindy, thanks for the quote from Pat Condell.  Excellent!

Comment by The Flying Atheist on December 28, 2014 at 8:24am

Sounds like you're having a wonderful time, Joan.  I really enjoy reading your posts. 

Comment by Randall Smith on December 28, 2014 at 7:41am

WOW! Wonderful, Joan. Good food, good times (had by all, as they say).

Comment by Joan Denoo on December 27, 2014 at 11:49pm

We had our big Yule log fire tonight, even though it wasn't in the middle of the cleared ground. The ground was too wet and muddy, no snow and no promise of snow. So, Larry built it in a fire pit on the back concrete patio. As luck would have it, snow began to fall this morning, by dark, about 4:00 PM the snow was getting deeper and by 8:00 there was enough snow for snowmobiles. There was a stream of red-cheeked faces coming in for hot apple cider while the second group went out. They kept coming and going, withstanding the cold and going out again before their gloves were dry. Very cold fingers, very red cheeks, and large smiles on all the faces of young and old. I did not go out. I stayed in the warmth of the house and kitchen. 

We had about 25 for dinner; I lost count. Larry made Buffalo Hot Wings, and everything else was potluck. This group of people have highly skilled cooks ... perfect potato salad, remarkable rice casserole,  fabulous finger foods, Yummy Yule Log cake. And of course, the wieners and marshmallows over the outside fire. 

My six great-grandchildren from 16 years to 5 months all have healthy appetites and the older ones love winter sports. Family and friends filled out the attendees. Our family consists of two blended families and we all like each other. For those who are no longer part of the family, good riddance. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on December 27, 2014 at 11:31pm

Carl, I am grateful for the final frame, showing the cat's hind legs. I couldn't imagine how tortured it would be to have to walk two legged. After realizing that it was walking on all fours, I enjoyed the video.  I agree, Felaine, the cat looked as though it had enough of such monkey business. 

Grinning Cat, I just realized how much I enjoy a man made up to look like a cat. 

Loren, an air-conditioned hell sounds about right. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on December 27, 2014 at 11:24pm

Chris, I am happy to learn of your nice xmasparty. "instant family without the bickering" makes for a happy time for all. 

Comment by sk8eycat on December 27, 2014 at 9:56pm

If there are some refrigeration engineers, they probably have good skating rinks, too.

 

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