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Did the American Revolution produce significant benefits for women, native Americans, blacks, propertyless white males, and indentured servants?

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Did the American Revolution produce significant benefits for native Americans, blacks, propertyless white males, and indentured servants?On blacks:"We think they are not, and that they are not included, and were not intended to be included…. They…Continue

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Your favorite photobombs?

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Men who challenge men to stop violence

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Many men join in the effort to reduce violence against women and children and other men. He speaks of the need to place responsibility on men instead of focusing on women to stop violence. He offers a breath of fresh air, as do so many of the men on…Continue

Surreal, I haz it

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Such Lyrics!

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Hello Friends,I was ruminating a bit today on my sixty-some years existence. My mind went back to teenage years when I first figured out religion is not only obnoxiously loud, but also nothing I wanted anything to do with. Truly. I knew by age 15…Continue

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Comment by The Flying Atheist on May 31, 2015 at 2:29pm
Sk8eycat!! I'm glad nothing is broken...or worse. Sorry you took a dive. I assume your sister wasn't home to assist you at the time of your fall. Remember.... the emergency room is always available if you need it. If you can't pay the bill, don't worry about it. You wouldn't be the first to pass along the charges. If you need health care...get it!
Comment by Joan Denoo on May 31, 2015 at 12:57pm

Ice Witch, I hear you and sadly too many people live with their heads in the sand and don't know what is happening to society and why. This period of history is very much like the Roaring 20s when everyone thought they had a good life, when, in fact, the economy and society was headed for very tough times. I know this statement doesn't help you or meet your needs. But, the facts are, we, as a nation, are not preparing for what is coming. 

That said, Felaine, it means you and I and all the others who can see the future will not be surprised when the collapse occurs. 

As to your health problems, I am really sorry you hurt, don't have resources to help solve some of the problems, and society does not respond to human needs. "Greed is good" never works out for the long-term benefit of society. 

We have a few choices. We can
"leave the building", 
Take a strong look at reality and create a life full of positive thinking, 

Complain, cry, bitch, blame, accuse, regret, lament, whine, criticize, etc. 

Learn, explore options, examine feelings, look around you, investigate, consider alternatives, observe, celebrate, etc. 

Will life get better as we age? I don't think so. Too many organs to malfunction, to many aches and pains that cannot be treated, not enough resources to do what needs to be done. 

Your wonderful sense of humor, your interesting way of seeing the world, your insights into the foibles of life, your compassion, your attention and concern for others all blend together into a person we know as sk8eycat, Felaine, La Bruja del Hielo and Ice Wich. There is an old Chinese proverb, "She with many names has much love!"

sk8eycat 

Comment by sk8eycat on May 31, 2015 at 12:27pm

Pliny and Joan, thanks for asking.  I effing HURT!  And I'm angry; my doctor doesn't give a damn, congress wants to cut MedicareLess....and the whole country is too busy breeding to think about where and how all these people are going to live and feed themselves.

I lost some skin from my knees in last night's fiasco (I was wearing bicycle shorts 'cause the weather was hot yesterday)...and I think I need to have a spinal MRI, but it ain't gonna happen.  I can't afford the co-pay.  I would "leave the building" right now, but I can't even consider the thought of abandoning my cats and my autistic JW sister...  (I hope you've noticed the order of my priorities...Heh!)..

La Bruja del Hielo

Comment by Joan Denoo on May 31, 2015 at 12:00pm

Felaine, I am sorry to learn of your dizziness and fall. Those bumps and bangs to the body hurt, a lot! I hope you have no damage that slows you down! The decade of the 70s is very different than the decade of the 60s. I will soon reach 80 years old and expect to pay attention to the challenges that decade holds. 

Do be careful, take good care of yourself and enjoy each and every minute you can. 

Comment by Plinius on May 31, 2015 at 11:53am

How are you now, Sk8eycat? I hope better than Aunt. She is black and blue all over, loose teeth, and VERY scared. I hope you do better!

Aah! The gardens and ice mines of Luna City!

Comment by sk8eycat on May 31, 2015 at 11:39am

Dear Pliny, what a coincidence!  I had a major dizzy spell last night, and landed on my knees and hip on the hardwood floor.  Took me 10 minutes to crawl to a chair and haul myself upright again....still dizzy.  I was too angry to be scared. 

I'm 75, and sick and tired of fighting gravity....in 1969 I had hopes of retiring to 1/6 G, but Tricky Dick Nixon wiped out that dream. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on May 31, 2015 at 11:18am

Ian, your description and history of "hotbed" makes gardening and sharing such a healthy hobby even as it produces something useful. 

Now, if we can all eat strawberries at Xmas time, I will be happy. Too bad the peasants couldn't enjoy the benefits of fresh fruit during the cold weather of Elizabethan England.

Comment by Ian Mason on May 31, 2015 at 9:40am

Lovely team-work, Joan. A family to be proud of.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oXo6G5mfmro

The garden bed resembles something I know as a 'hotbed': dig a hole, fill with horse manure, top off with soil. Brought from the Nederlands by Protestants fleeing Catholic persecution, it revolutionised vegetable and fruit farming in England. I've read somewhere that Elizabeth I ate strawberries at Xmas that way.

Comment by Randall Smith on May 31, 2015 at 7:39am

Ditto, Joan (to what Chris said). And don't worry about your repeat sentences. We know about the glich. Just keep writing!

Ian, I've never been to Ireland. Eager to hear about your trip.

Comment by Plinius on May 31, 2015 at 3:34am

That's quite something, a whole family working together in joy and harmony! Thanks for the story! 

 

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