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Hang With Friends

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Come on in, pull up a chair!

Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

Nobody here is into mind games. A discussion started with a loaded guilt-throwing question will be deleted.

This group is not intended to compete with other groups on topics they cover but to "fill in the cracks." Whenever a discussion dwells at length on a topic for which there's an existing group, we urge you to provide members a link to that group to continue along their tangent.

A comment is a shout-out, which will get lost in a few days, because the comment wall is just a random stack.

Please start a discussion to share stories, photos, and videos. Replies will pop up in your "latest activity" and a conversation can develop from the feelings and thoughts you contributed. Groups are built on discussions.

Discussion Forum

Fan.tasia – A Disney Mashup by Lindsey McCutcheon

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Idaho Spud 1 hour ago. 8 Replies

Any of you remember that Hollywood musical dance number mashup that Nerd Fest UK created put together some months back?  Well, someone by the name of Lindsey McCutcheon has…Continue

Tags: Lindsey McCutcheon, animation, Disney

The Gun Industry's Killing in Killing (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Chris G on Wednesday. 15 Replies

America's Best Christian has finally acknowledged that there may be one outfit which has her belief system beat for it's leverage on the government.  No great surprise, it's the NRA and the gun industries.  Betty's a good loser, though.  She's made…Continue

Tags: NRA, guns, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

The Ark Encounter: A Less than Grand Opening (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller on Tuesday. 4 Replies

The day finally arrived.  Ken Ham's Ark Encounter opened on 7 July, 2016 ... to something a bit less than Disney-sized crowds, and more than a couple dissenting voices!  Seth Andrews has gathered a quartet of significant participants in the protest…Continue

Tags: Tracey Moody, Dan Broadbent, Seth Andrews, David Silverman, AronRa

The God of Cancer (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Jul 18. 10 Replies

Seth Andrews has been through the mill as it comes to dealing with those who insist that their faith in a deity is not just valid but necessary to their lives and to all lives.  Having dealt with that gauntlet and come out the other side an atheist,…Continue

Tags: cancer, god, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

We Are America / Love Has No Labels (John Cena - Ad Council)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Jul 10. 3 Replies

It seems to be a repeating pattern: I wander around the internet and inevitably, I stumble onto all manner of stuff.  It happens all the time on YouTube, and as you doubtless have deduced, yours truly tripped over something a couple minutes ago,…Continue

Tags: patriotism, labels, love, Ad Council, John Cena

In God We Trust? (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Qiana-Maieev Jul 4. 4 Replies

HEY, gang!  Your favorite America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers is BACK and just in time for the Fourth of July!!!  This time, she's hit it big, coming to us live and in color from the Capitol!  Seems as though she's as upset about this whole "In…Continue

Tags: congress, god, Jesus, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

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Comment by Joan Denoo on June 30, 2015 at 11:43pm

Felaine, I can't pay, either, so we will both be without a badge. We will have our own little club of too old to work, too poor to pay club. There is no shame in our situation. We continue to have something to offer, even if it comes in the form of ideas. If you feel humiliated, then I will have to feel humiliated. So, do us both a favor and read the incoming Atheist Nexus with pride and contribute attitudes with pride. 

Comment by sk8eycat on June 30, 2015 at 11:40pm

GGC: Same back atcha!

Comment by Grinning Cat on June 30, 2015 at 11:17pm

Hang in there! (Hugs, scritches, and a sincere head butt and slow blink.)

Comment by sk8eycat on June 30, 2015 at 10:21pm

I've been thinking that being the only member in here without a badge is less humiliating than quitting altogether. Slightly.
In the meantime, I MUST get medical help that doesn't cost an arm and a leg in co-pays, or have for-profit insurance companies deciding which meds they will subsidize no matter what my doctor says I need.

The first step is going to the local (Catholic) ER, and staring at the gruesome scarecrows on the walls while waiting to talk to a social worker.

I have always been proud of the fact that I was able to support myself while doing exactly what I wanted to do, even if I had to work two jobs, but those days are over.  Forever.  And I have a difficult time accepting "charity," especially from friends.

In the meantime, all I can do is what Jackson Galaxy calls "the slow blink."  A cat's way of saying "I appreciate you."

Comment by Richard Haynes on June 30, 2015 at 8:57pm

sk8eycat: Then please do not feel pressured to do anything. What you experience here will not change at all, it will only get better. Or, if it really matters, I'm sure we can find someone willing to make a donation in your name. Either way, you are supported.

Comment by sk8eycat on June 30, 2015 at 8:35pm

Two years ago I had to drop my membership with FFRF because it was either that or give up my MedicAlert membership...same price.  I NEED this damn bracelet to tell EMTs NOT to try to restart my heart and/or lungs, and not to give me morphine under any circumstances. 

So.... they had a 50% off sale last month, and I jumped at it, and was thinking of renewing my FFRF membership (which includes an actual printed monthly newspaper) when this subject came up.

THAT is how tight my "budget" is. 

And sometimes I like to have frozen strawberries to snack on in hot weather.  I guess I could switch to frozen grapes....anything for an occasional brain freeze.

Comment by Pat on June 30, 2015 at 5:38pm

Richard, I realize you're dealing with a touchy issue here. How to keep the site up and running, and at the same time, not piss anyone off. And, in the "for what it's worth" category. I think you're doing a great job walking the tight rope.

Felaine, I sincerely hope you stay. You may not realize this, but I've learned a helluva lot from you. And, as an attorney, you have NO idea how much I hate to humble myself like that (OK, hope you got a laugh - rimshot - bad joke). The learning part, however, is absolutely true. 

Change in any society is a bitch. Or bastard (Don't want to be misogynistic or misandristic). And, this is a modern on line society, of which we are all members. We're all going to have our opinions and outlooks. Whatever the outcome, and whatever the change, I do hope it is for the better. 

And remember everyone. Jesus loves you. And I've got some ocean front property in Topeka, KS, you might be interested in.

Comment by Richard Haynes on June 30, 2015 at 4:19pm

Also, I should take a moment and explain "access." Right now it remains somewhat cryptic, and that is because I don't want to commit to something before it is even possible.

That being said, the idea was to offer other things to subscribers that actually cost money to produce. So, the free membership as it is now, will not change at all. In fact, the entire site will improve for all members. All will have access to podcasts, YouTube videos, and overall site improvements. But we are still a long way from that.

I will remain open to constructive ideas. Reach out to me personally, and I will gladly listen. 

Comment by Loren Miller on June 30, 2015 at 4:09pm

I have to agree with Joan on this one, Felaine.  I can't stop you from going, any more than I can stop myself from missing you if you do.  If you DO decide to leave, please leave me an email addy so we can stay in touch, okay?

Comment by Joan Denoo on June 30, 2015 at 3:56pm

Felaine, I understand your predicament and support whatever decision you make. However! Tell us when and if you go to another site. I do not want to lose touch with you. You are an important part of my life. I especially like your whacko spelling! and whackier attitude that is right on target!

 

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