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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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What Annoys God Most? (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Chris Nov 30. 9 Replies

Long story short, it's those near misses, the almost-but-not-quite, close but no cheroot moments, or, would you believe ... Near Death Experiences!  So what's the big deal?  Betty Bowers, America's BEST Christian and self-proclaimed expert on such…Continue

Tags: Near Death Experiences, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

degrading love — part one (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat Nov 22. 11 Replies

Love is by many considered among the highest of positive emotions.  Yet when love of the type offered by deities is examined, something seems to go seriously wrong.  The love of Yahweh seems less a gift than a demand, not so much beneficence as a…Continue

Tags: TheraminTrees, god, love

Ning, Error 500s, and Whether to Migrate

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Nov 13. 47 Replies

I just got the following notice from Ning yesterday, (31 October, 2016), in the wake of this latest website outage:As some of you may be aware, we experienced a system outage earlier this morning. The cause was due to a specific network…Continue

Tags: downtime, Atheist Nexus, Ning

Introducing Douglas Murray

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 7. 4 Replies

Most of us who have been around atheism for a while know the heavyweights of our ilk.  Names like Hitchens, Dawkins, Dennett, Harris, Dillahunty and AronRa get nearly daily mention in posts and discussions on Atheist Nexus.  One name I was…Continue

Tags: Agatan Foundation, Douglas Murray

If There's a God - She's a Woman - The Author T

Started by Joe. Last reply by Chris Nov 3. 4 Replies

I came across this story and thought some here might find it interesting and humorous.It’s titled:If There’s a GodShe’s a WomanFrom the Series:Things You Can Learn from a VaginaIts on the website TheAuthorT.com under the tab, “Free to Read…Continue

His Dark Materials and the Catholic Church

Started by Tonya R. Wheeler. Last reply by k.h. ky Oct 30. 35 Replies

I recently watched the movie, "The Golden Compass" and since I could not find the sequels, I read the books. I enjoyed them, and I will be reading the first one, Northern Lights, starting tomorrow, since it just arrived via inter-library…Continue

Tags: Fantasy, Catholic, Religion, Atheist, Pullman

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Comment by Joan Denoo on November 11, 2016 at 1:29pm

Ian, A great song and performer!"

Island, in the sun, willed to me by my father's hand."

Atheist Nexus feels like an island to me, willed to me by those who have a vision of life without superstition or myths.

 

Comment by Ian Mason on November 11, 2016 at 1:21pm
Comment by Joan Denoo on November 11, 2016 at 11:36am

Many times in my life I experienced the pain and humiliation of people displaced by war, poverty or drought.

The U.S. government took the Native Americans away from their ancient homelands where they evolved and developed farming techniques based on centuries of experience. The Army placed Natives on reservations where they had to learn different survival skills. They were forced to abandon their languages, many of them lost their children sent to schools to "civilize" them to customs of the European heritages. Many Natives lacked the training to accommodate to reservation life, becoming dependent on the government for food and shelter.
Or, think of the refugees who fled tyranny, poverty, or drought in their ancient homelands and came to the U.S. looking for opportunity. Many worked for wages far below the poverty line while employers exploited and manipulated them.
I could offer other examples, but I think you get my meaning.
I taught classes on the reservations of Eastern Washington State through my job at the Community College. I began each new series with a review of what skills they brought from their native lifestyle that helped them cope with change. The Natives of Eastern Washington were from migratory people who followed the food supply from the bitterly cold northern climates to warmer lush mountains and valleys further south. They learned to trade with other tribes, develop intertribal protocols, and battled with those they considered enemies. The U.S. government rounded up those migratory people, like cattle, and placed them on reservations where they did not know how to grow sustainable crops or how to preserve food for sustenance through the raw cold of northern climates. Their mobile homes, teepees, offered little protection from harsh conditions. Their poorly insulated homes proved to be inadequate.
I asked these reservation Natives about the sudden changes in their lifestyles and the attitudes and skills they had to learn to survive. What attitudes and behaviors moved them forward and what held them back? What served them well; what hindered them?
These were independent, self-reliant, skilled nomads who lost their lifestyle; they lost control of their conditions ?
What knowledge do they have that they could teach us? At the time, I didn't know about the coming climate change, or the imminent collapse of capitalism and financial domains. Do we submit to authoritarianism? Do we lose our sense of self?
How does one retain a feeling of self-respect and dignity in the face of totalitarianism? Where does one find fulfillment in a culture that believes things superstitious? What inner strength does one have that can empower and enrich one's life?
Well, now, here is the good news, we have what it takes to not only survive, but thrive in a hostile environment, just as those Spokane and Colville tribes have. We still have our minds, bodies, and inner-beings that can not only face, but prevail in these hard times.
From where does joy come? Each finds joy in his and her way. Feelings of self-respect, dignity, pride, and self-worth come from internal power, not external. The refusal to give up these attributes is what I learned from the Natives in my classes. These are what we need to meet current challenges.

Comment by Idaho Spud on November 11, 2016 at 10:25am

I've daydreamed of buying an Island where, like Atheist Nexus, no theists need apply for citizenship.

Comment by Plinius on November 11, 2016 at 9:48am

I'd love that island!

Comment by Daniel Wachenheim on November 11, 2016 at 9:01am

Kathy you have us on Nexus.  Too bad we cant all get together and buy a nice island somewhere or an atheist neighborhood.  But its nice to talk here.

Randy sounds like a great time with family.  Really nice.

Comment by Randall Smith on November 11, 2016 at 7:12am

Last night, I treated my 3 adult daughters (and one SIL) to dinner on the town. The name of the restaurant was "Restauration", in Lafayette, IN. Most of the food is supplied by local farmers, including my one daughter and husband. I had a chorizo burger which was outstanding! 

It's great having all three of my daughters together. Two return to homes in Sacramento and Tegucigalpa (Hond) tomorro and Tues. Boo hoo.

Comment by k.h. ky on November 10, 2016 at 4:53pm
I can't take politics for awhile. We've had elevation I've disagreed with but it will take me some time to get past this shit show. Living in a solid red state will make it more difficult :(
Comment by Qiana-Maieev on November 9, 2016 at 4:16pm

You may still be the S.A., but it is not any longer the U.S.A.

Between that piece of dung, the two in Russia, and N. Korea, the future is anything but optimistic. 

This is going to affect everyone in other countries too, & we don't damn well like it.

Comment by Daniel Wachenheim on November 9, 2016 at 3:38pm

GC, Paul Ryan, speaker of the house, is next in line.

Carl, I share your concerns.

Joan, thank you for the moment of much needed calm reflection.

Chris, Ian, you make good points about Nativism and the current era's rejection of Internationalism / Multiculturalism / economic Globalism.  There's a strong possibility that the world's nations have reached their limit as far as their ability to absorb diversity and accept losses of jobs and economic security to the lowest bidders in developing nations.  The post WWII era appears to be closing fast.  Maybe nations will reassert their sovereignty, and we need ways to create peace and security while maintaining national identities as they are.  I don't know.

 

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