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maggie and milly and molly and may (Edward Estlin Cummings & Eric Whitacre)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller on Friday. 2 Replies

It's amazing what you discover when you go looking for something you had no idea you'd find.  On an impulse, I pulled up Eric Whitacre's website to see if he had created any new pieces.  It would seem that he has: a song cycle called The City and…Continue

Tags: e e cummings, Eric Whitacre

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISIS

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Randall Smith Nov 18. 1 Reply

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISISGrowth in population, policies and practices that create a gap between the typical person and the wealthy,…Continue

Passive and Active voices

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Nov 16. 1 Reply

Have you noticed that much of the discussion in families and with friends, in the print media, on TV, and now on the internet is in the Passive Voice? Many people whine, complain, gripe, accuse, blame, call names, ridicule, grumble, bitch, rebuke,…Continue

Tags: and, behaviors, communication., attitudes, learned

Detroit Businesswomen Team Up to Get Rape Kits Tested

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by The Flying Atheist Nov 14. 2 Replies

Detroit Businesswomen Team Up to Get Rape Kits Tested"In 2009, a Wayne County assistant prosecuting attorney noticed…Continue

Tags: women, Enough, SAID, black, victims

Something Beautiful – Nathan Phelps & Seth Andrews

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 10. 7 Replies

And it is beautiful, too, indeed, I think some of Seth Andrews' best work.  Interesting point: rather than Seth's dulcet baritone doing the narration, this piece presses Nathan Phelps' deep bass intonation into service, bringing a different flavor…Continue

Tags: Nathan Phelps, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews, beautiful, something

Your favorite photobombs?

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Joan Denoo Oct 27. 14 Replies

Running of the bulls photobomb.Continue

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Comment by Joan Denoo on February 3, 2015 at 11:26am

Pat, I am very glad you are able to haunt the halls of the courtroom and contribute to the pages of A/N. 

Ian, those probings in "a place that doesn't usually get probed, manually and with an ultrasound device", miserable as they are, do give a sense of comfort, knowing all is normal. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on February 3, 2015 at 11:20am

Kathy, I very much appreciate indications of teasing and joking when writing. I am the last of the crowd to get sarcasm and teasing and jokes. People very kindly and gently let me know, "It's a joke, Joan!". I have been known to go off on a giant rant when I take something seriously, only to have egg on my red face.  

Comment by Joan Denoo on February 3, 2015 at 11:16am

Carl, Your snow fall and travel conditions present such formidable barriers to getting your tasks done, it would be easy to become discouraged. Do keep your spirits up, especially with such uncontrollable factors. 

I have never driven in the Chicago area except on the freeways. Where I-90 and I-80 come together, from north of Chicago going east, driving presents nightmares, even now just remembering it. I wonder if the nerves ever get used to such chaos? 

I wonder if there is a way to reframe the delays into something that gives you calm? What is that big word that I can never remember? ... oh yes, equanimity. I'm not sure I could do the reframe for myself, but that would be my goal if I were in your shoes. 

I know it gives you no comfort to know that we have had only 66% of our needed snow pack in the mountains and virtually none at lower levels. If this isn't climate change, I don't know what evidence one needs. 

I used Chris' video with audio to get to sleep last night. A very pleasant experience. Thanks, Chris. 

Here is another, "I wonder" if sleeping will help pass the time. I used sleep throughout the worst of my cancer treatments and it helped me. Perhaps it will help you pass the time. Certainly, going for long walks is not an option. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on February 3, 2015 at 10:18am

Patricia, you wrote that you are not "well educated". From my perspective, there are different kinds of education.

Some have a formal education, and not all formal education is healthy or supportable or intelligent. The madrasas, for example, or the church schools that teach dogma instead of the inquiry. These people live in the answers. 

Some people have an informal education based on an inquiring mind and a skeptical nature. They doubt and want evidence for a concept. These people live in the questions. 

Some people have a deliberate ignorance and have no interest in evidence. They consciously reject data if it conflicts with their dogma. They live in the answers. 

Patricia, in my humble opinion, you have a natural inquiring mind and will not settle for dogma. That is one of the reasons why I admire so much. 

Comment by Ian Mason on February 3, 2015 at 10:15am

I feel like I've been abducted by aliens :-) I've been to the hospital and been probed in a place that doesn't usually get probed, manually and with an ultrasound device. The good news is that there doesn't seem to be anything abnormal, taking age into account, so no tissue sample taken for biopsy. A new blood test in 6 months is advised. I am relieved.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on February 2, 2015 at 10:46pm

Wow, Chris.  Eleven hours!  It's very relaxing.  I've been listening off and on all day.  Thanks!

Comment by Ian Mason on February 2, 2015 at 10:40pm

I hope your waiting is soon over, Carl.

Like the soothing garden, Chris.

Comment by Pat on February 2, 2015 at 7:29pm

Carl, take care and take it easy. I had a stent put in my heart about 8 months ago. Pain in the a$$, well, in the chest, BUTTTTTTT...... I'm still alive and stalking the courtrooms of Southern Illinois, as you will be stalking the airlines at O'Hare. Keep 'em honest.

Comment by k.h. ky on February 2, 2015 at 7:19pm
At least I'm not covered in snow and ice. So far so good!
Comment by k.h. ky on February 2, 2015 at 7:18pm
I don't care for text speak or spelling either. I'm afraid I'll forget correct english and spelling if I stopped using it. I use Lol because I have such an odd sense of humor l don't know if others know that I'm teasing or joking.
Carl, just keep on keeping on. I had a heart cath a year or so ago and it wasn't bad. I know that's not like surgery. Remember that we are all pulling for you.

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