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God's Annual Performance Review (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Mar 19. 6 Replies

I don't know about you guys, but there wasn't a performance review I had in 30 years of field service that I didn't LOATHE.  It seems as though Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, is up for turning the tables on the person you would expect would…Continue

Tags: review, performance, god, American's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Learning a Language as a Mature Adult

Started by Daniel W. Last reply by Joan Denoo Mar 2. 28 Replies

Trying to keep my mind exercised, and not interested in most of the reading materials that I can find.I decided to attempt to learn a language.  Actually, two.  The dilemma is, how do I do that without going to school - not an option - and without…Continue

The Playboy Interview: Richard Dawkins

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Chris Feb 19. 14 Replies

I suppose it was the news that Playboy magazine was returning nudes to its pages after a year's hiatus that sufficiently perked my curiosity to check them out again.  I hadn't looked at Playboy since perhaps 2008, when I began to recognize that I…Continue

Tags: Richard Dawkins, Playboy

Such Lyrics!

Started by Donatien Alphonse François. Last reply by Grinning Cat Feb 13. 9 Replies

Hello Friends,I was ruminating a bit today on my sixty-some years existence. My mind went back to teenage years when I first figured out religion is not only obnoxiously loud, but also nothing I wanted anything to do with. Truly. I knew by age 15…Continue

degrading love — part two (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Feb 11. 1 Reply

TheraminTrees set up religion with his left in Part One of his treatise on how religion demeans and degrades the value of love.  Here in Part Two, he brings in a devastating, "Mike Tyson" right, which negates and invalidates any claim that either…Continue

Tags: Christianity, Islam, TheraminTrees, god, love

Questions......

Started by Thomas Murray. Last reply by k.h. ky Feb 9. 6 Replies

   It has been 6 month now since I signed up for Atheist Nexus membership. The past year has been sort of a bi-polar wave of emotions for me. I hope I wasn't offensive to the folks on here and I think I have been but I don't know to who. My desire…Continue

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Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on July 3, 2016 at 5:17pm

Randall, too bad about the calf being too shy or afraid to take milk from you. The vet shows make it look easy too. Here's some advice from cattlemen and here. That doesn't sound easy either. There's one video, but the calf is probably younger than yours.

I'm already a chocoholic ( Lindt 85%). I can only eat 3 or 4 squares at a time, because of the sugar.

I'm feeling a bit more chipper today, thanks Joan and k.h.ky. <sigh> I've also shared my problem with my husband, and Grinning Cat, and got support from them too. Bergen suggested a hobby. I don't have much energy or time for one. Unless you count enjoying LOLcats.

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I appreciated your news about the Jet Stream. It is too soon to worry about that Equator crossing, unless a pattern develops over time. Don't forget the good Arctic Sea Ice news.

BTW, cat beard's whole genre.

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Comment by k.h. ky on July 3, 2016 at 11:49am
Thanks Ruth. I think the problem may be the sporadic, unreliable internet signal. I can rarely get through anything without some type of disruption.
Comment by Randall Smith on July 3, 2016 at 9:49am
Ever bottle feed a baby calf? Well, I haven't either, but not for a lack of effort. Being a holiday weekend (Sunday morning now), my farm kids went to "the lake". So I was asked to feed the calf, whose mother is milkless. No problem, I was told. "She'll come right up to you", blah, blah, blah. After 2 hours of cajoling, chasing, stepping in cow poop, getting rained on, bitten by flies and mosquitoes, I finally gave up. Lyla will just have to go hungry 'til momma (my daughter) returns. I never thought I was that intimidating to a cow.
Comment by Joan Denoo on July 2, 2016 at 3:08pm

Ruth, how are you feeling today? I know the news about climate change is bad; about the only good thing I can find about that is it is now on the news. 

I like Randy's idea, a nice piece of chocolate. 

Comment by Randall Smith on July 2, 2016 at 7:21am

I know where you're coming from, Ruth. I try not to be cynical and misanthropic, but it isn't easy. Why don't you take a break from the news. Just ignore it all for a week or so. Have some chocolate.

Comment by k.h. ky on July 1, 2016 at 6:44pm
Ruth, I'm surprised it's taken you this long :/ I believe I was born a cynic. A skeptic for certain.

@Grinning Cat, thanks. I'll check that out.
Comment by Ian Mason on July 1, 2016 at 2:50pm

Golden Years: a 2-part TV special by Stephen King about a man who began to rejuvinate. Also a song by David Bowie.

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on July 1, 2016 at 12:23pm

Loren, today I don't have it in me to watch a 47 long video about God causing cancer. Sorry.

The cumulative emotional impact of climate change-related disasters like the California and Florida toxic algae outbreaks, Wildfires in the West and in boreal forests all around the globe, Brexit, the dumpster-fire US political process,

attempts to reign in palm oil exploitation falling apart, etc.etc. Too many bad things are going on at once to fit in my head. The last few days hope has eroded enough on climate change that I'm starting, for the first time in my life, to be cynical, even sarcastic. My personality is eroding. You might have noticed a change in tone in recent posts.

Comment by Bertold Brautigan on June 28, 2016 at 12:01am

Kathy - congrats and best wishes to the wedding couple.

Comment by Grinning Cat on June 27, 2016 at 11:44pm

Kathy, congratulations to your grandson and his fiancé!!

(My parents also got married on July 4th; a wonderful day to declare their interdependence, and enjoy fireworks afterwards! :)

On posting pictures: you can type a smaller width for display; people can click on the picture to see it full size. There's an explanation of the whole process at "How To - Insert a Picture or Other Graphic".

 

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