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Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 24. 9 Replies

I received a gift this morning from a virtual friend, Pamela Smith:A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :" One day an old wise teacher was walking through a village. A very angry and rude young man came up and began insulting him. "You have…Continue

10 Tricks from 46 (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Nov 6. 3 Replies

Apparently, Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, has been slumming.  That is to say, she's been talking to Mike Pence [gasp!].  It would seem as though Mike has offered some of his not-so-personal tricks of the trade on how to be a 21st century…Continue

Tags: tricks, Mike Pence, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Grinning Cat Oct 19. 99 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

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Speak English? YOU FIRST! (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Donald R Barbera Sep 27. 5 Replies

Honestly, the title to this piece is badly under-representative of the content.  To be far more accurate, what we have here is Mrs. Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, going on a rant.  Before you say it ... Say WHAAAA?  Betty Bowers ranting? …Continue

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10 Things About Patriotism (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Plinius Sep 26. 2 Replies

It seems as though lately, Mrs. Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, is evolving into America's Best Patriot.  She has recently been taking some fairly well-aimed shots at a certain Orange Nightmare and his sycophantic hangers-on, regarding the…Continue

Tags: patriotism, Donald Trump, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

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Comment by Maruli Marulaki on October 6, 2011 at 8:06pm
Ruth:  Is it true, that I get new comments by email, before you have approved them?   I got the last comment about five times, before it was visible here.
Comment by Lary9 on October 6, 2011 at 7:48pm
On the Uber-Homages to Steve Jobs:
I think that most people, who are ostensibly 'believers' in an afterlife, are conflicted. They're not exactly certain if there is an 'afterlife' and not sure if there isn't. Consequently, unlike ourselves, they haven't come to grips with any "certainty" at all about life continuing after death, no matter how much they claim the opposite and shout hysterical Hosannahs. In fact, the very act of communal worship with its repetitive praising and declarative dogmas actually reveals and reinforces the fragility of faith as a way of knowing. IMHO, church rituals serve to increase the deep seated ambivalence of parishioners about life after death. 
This why the living that are religious require such elaborated  memorialization of the dead... it shores up their "belief in things unseen and the hope of things to come" in times when human  mortality is unavoidably real. Myself... on the other hand, I've accepted certain eventual verities about biological death like all  natural undeniable things. That acceptance brings a special kind of peace with it.
Comment by Lary9 on October 6, 2011 at 7:15pm
Carl Pastor~ I often wondered why God never tried to "save" Lucifer. You know what I mean? Why didn't at one of the big three...[either God the Father, Son or Holy Spirit]... offer him some 'Truth and Reconciliation' along with some of that infamous Christian forgiveness? Is he the patron of The Unforgiveable? Doesn't denying Old Patch a shot at absolution augment his evil isolationism from Heaven... de facto?
Comment by Natalie A Sera on October 6, 2011 at 6:10pm
My reaction to Steve Jobs' death is that he was good at what he did. Of course, Wozniak was the computer developer, but Jobs was the one who sold the product that Wozniak developed. Neither one could have succeeded without the other. Jobs was most likely less than perfect (!) but so are the rest of us. What's the quote, something like bury the evil with the dead, and let the good live on?? From a Shakespeare play -- Julius Caesar?
Comment by Donna Darko on October 6, 2011 at 5:28pm
While I can see almost everyone's view here, and I do have not undue respect for Mr. Jobs, and a bit of sadness at his demise, this is the "HANG WITH FRIENDS" group. I think that some of these comments may have had a better reception at another place in the AN.
Comment by Susan Stanko on October 6, 2011 at 5:10pm
And that doesn't justify jumping doen peoples throats if they don't agree with you. (Not dircted at you, Steph.)
Comment by alexa penzner on October 6, 2011 at 5:09pm

Dearest Ian,


Firstly, it might help, I suppose (though given your obvious bitterness, I suppose little will) to acknowledge the facts. You imply that there was little if any coverage of the high suicide rate at FoxConn in the US. That is either an error on your part or a misrepresentation to put it kindly. There was extensive coverage. You may wish to make use of a wonderful new piece of programming called Google with the abilities of which you would appear to be unfamiliar.


If you know anything (which seems doubtful) of the complexities and subtleties of raising living and other standards in the less-developed world, even ones such as China with a deep and rich history, you might know that these matters are not simple – however much you’d like them to be. An acquaintance of mine who cut his teeth on these matters of international economic and cultural development at Hopkins and studied primarily with teachers from the third world, who came originally from very modest backgrounds and were extremely concerned with how best to develop less-developed economies, pointed out to me that there are a number of enormous problems. For one thing, for example, no matter how much you might want to raise the wages of the folks in your factories rapidly if you do it too far, too fast, it’s been known to sometimes cause the collapse of the rest of the local economy. Note that I’m not saying this as an excuse for the rapacious bastards who simply wish to exploit low-wage workers, but that it can be a real problem, and it’s a challenge, even if you’re determined to improve the local situation. You can only move so far, so fast. It’s your moral obligation to move as fast as you can, but you have to do it intelligently, and that isn’t easy. It’s a question, to use an old machinist’s expression, of ‘speeds and feeds’.


That said, what you neglect to note, is that as soon as Apple learned of the issue, it did in fact take responsible action.


Apple immediately – and I mean immediately – dispatched Tim Cook (who now heads Apple) as their director of operations and production to the Foxconn plant in Shenzhen accompanied by a full team of experts, including experts on suicide prevention, and an overall assessment was made of the plant’s operations with particular focus on this issue. It is not a simple issue. You’re dealing in most cases with workers who have relocated far from home, often from rural villages, and are living far from their loved ones in a challenging and alien environment. Stress will be high. The very fact that Cook, director of all such operations and the ultimate decision maker of who would and would not get contracts from Apple went swiftly, personally, with a full team, sent an extremely powerful message to Foxconn and was intended to do so in no uncertain terms. An independent team of suicide experts was then immediately dispatched and arrived, which surveyed over 1,000 employees in confidence and with guarantees, and also reviewed in depth each of the cases of suicides. Counselors were hired, a 24 hour centre was established. The team also called for additional steps with respect to staff training, and specified other steps, which were taken, and were subject to review and monitoring.


It seems, from your brief emotional outburst that you haven’t troubled yourself to become acquainted with the actual facts, which are complicated and subtle, and simply prefer to rage and vent. Fine, that’s your privilege, but it might be more impressive if you had some slight familiarity with the facts, and roused yourself to reason.


I don’t expect that to happen.


I don’t bet on losing horses.


Foxconn, if you know anything at all (also doubtful) of Chinese industry, is an enormous outfit and subcontracts for everyone in sight. All indications from this as well as comparable matters is that Apple sincerely, truly, and effectively 

Perhaps you might consider their example, rather than broadcasting your own bile, neglect of actual familiarity with the facts under consideration, and simple free-floating anger.


Or consider the services of a competent counselor.


I’m sure they’d appreciate the enormous challenges you’d present.


In your state of self-righteous, self-celebrating moral indignation, I’m sure you’ll vow to not use any electronic devices of whatever sort from whatever manufacturer whose operations you haven’t personally researched in depth – in other words, nothing from Foxconn et al. This presents the additional benefit that, rendered incapable of any form of electronic communication, we’ll be spared your pointless, self-important, self-indulgent bloviating in future.


Or, in the words of the immortal Opus, "pppphhhhhttttt!!"


Comment by Grace Fitzpatrick on October 6, 2011 at 4:48pm
I am sorry for those mourning his loss.  However, I never cared for the man.
Comment by Steph S. on October 6, 2011 at 4:34pm
I'm a fan of Wozniak. I know the story very well. We are Steve Jobs fans and we are mourning his death. We acknowledge his imperfections. A little compassion at this time would be appreciated.
Comment by Grace Fitzpatrick on October 6, 2011 at 4:16pm

I have always understood his partner Steve Wozniak was the real computer genius behind Apple computers and he is credited with a lot of the inventions people now appear to be attributing to Steve Jobs.  They don't call him the "wonderful wizard of Woz", "wheels of Zeus" or "iWoz" for no reason.  Good news!   The Woz is still alive and inventing stuff for Apple. 


I never cared for Steve Jobs because of his treatment of his illegitimate daughter.


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