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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Afrodisiacs – African Aphrodisiacs

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Idaho Spud 1 hour ago. 1 Reply

Am I so old and not know the definition of aphrodisiac, and its historical definition being based on Aphrodite, that her name came from the African drugs that Egyptians, Greeks, and Romans used for sexual enhancement? Dhu!  Aphrodite, ancient Greek…Continue

Tags: Africa, Lady, Victorian

Degrees of Doubt: The Claims and Credentials of Ravi Zacharias (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Chris May 17. 1 Reply

Anyone here ever run onto an apologist by the name of Ravi Zacharias?  I've seen his name dropped multiple times on YouTube as supposedly being THE ONE APOLOGIST that no atheist wants to cross swords with, because of his facility with christian…Continue

Tags: Ravi Zacharias, Steve Baughman, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

The Most Hated Woman in America (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Gary S Apr 19. 7 Replies

Before Aron Ra and Matt Dillahunty, before Dawkins or Dennett or Harris or even Hitchens, there was Madalyn Murray O'Hair.  In the midst of an America where Christianity was being flaunted as a defense against the godless communists of the Soviet…Continue

Tags: Frank Zindler, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews, Madalyn Murray O'Hair

Proud Dad is REALLY Proud Now!

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Todd Williams Apr 12. 16 Replies

As some of you may or may not know, my daughter is a television news producer, currently working in Nashville, Tennessee.  Her assignment is the morning news, which means she blasts herself up at umpti-ump in the morning to organize and prepare a…Continue

Tags: Emmy, news, television, daughter, dad

attacking ideas (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat Apr 4. 1 Reply

Attacking ideas is a considerable portion of what we as atheists do.  Why attack ideas?  Ideas earn attack when they don't serve people, not just us but those who adopt said ideas, mistakenly thinking that they have value when they don't.  Our…Continue

Tags: ideas, Islam, TheraminTrees

bending truth, or "We Can All Be Manipulated" (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat Apr 4. 40 Replies

The following is one of TheraminTrees' most thorough-going pieces, wherein he looks at the process and techniques whereby a "religious" organization (which will sound VERY familiar to most of us, once introductions are made!) takes a person who…Continue

Tags: indoctrination, truth, manipulation, TheraminTrees

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Comment by Joan Denoo on August 27, 2016 at 8:46pm

Kathy, ouch! That must be painful, automatically being a problem child in a fundie family! How do you handle that stress? 

Comment by k.h. ky on August 27, 2016 at 7:38pm
Another notice for jury duty.
Comment by k.h. ky on August 27, 2016 at 7:37pm
Joan being atheist in a family full of fundies automatically makes me the problem child :)
Comment by Joan Denoo on August 27, 2016 at 7:16pm

Kathy, that is funny, asking to be the problem child! Do you realize I will be out there, giving you lectures and trying to reason with you? My kids hate it! They tell me if it is lecture # 101.12 or lecture #299.99.

Comment by k.h. ky on August 27, 2016 at 7:03pm
Carl, they (med staff ) always pull a sheet between me and whatever they're working on. I must look like a fainter : )
Joan, happy the surgery worked for you. That's wonderful.
Randall, congrats on the run.

Carl, if Joan and Ruth are the matriarchs can I be the problem child?? The sister that is troubled because she believes in the flying spaghetti monster.
Comment by The Flying Atheist on August 27, 2016 at 6:43pm

Randy, that's a great accomplishment.  Congrats!

Joan, when I had a muscle biopsy earlier this year I decided I wanted to put on my big boy pants and watch the procedure.  However, the staff made me turn my head and not look.  They even put up a barrier sheet.  The possibly of me fainting or freaking out was something they didn't wish to contend with if they could avoid it. I guess I can't blame them.  At least there was dialog between us for the duration of the procedure with explanations and updates. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on August 27, 2016 at 5:58pm

Spud, thank you for the lead to the story of Katharine Blodgett Gebbie; she was quite a remarkable woman. I am particularly interested in learning that four of the scientists under her leadership earned Nobel Prizes. 

Thanks for the lead. 

Comment by Idaho Spud on August 27, 2016 at 5:07pm

I appreciate the good news about your surgery Joan.

Comment by Joan Denoo on August 27, 2016 at 5:04pm

Congratulations, Randy. That is a marvelous feat, and I bet you will be running for another 20 years. Those who keep running seem to run until they "square the morbidity curve"! 

What part of you takes the most wear and tear as you run all that distance? Did you celebrate afterwards, and what does celebration look like for you? 

Comment by Joan Denoo on August 27, 2016 at 4:58pm

Oh! My Gosh! The surgery went so well I failed to write about it. Not one instance of pain, no aches, just a big bandage that I can take off but I am doing some chores and don't want to break the wound open. 

Covered, except for a tiny hole through which the surgeon did his magic, he did his "slit, slash, blood, and gore"  task.  Before he closed me up, he had the nurse take my "tent" off so I could see the incision. No blood, just a tiny little hole where he showed me the muscles, tendons, and whatever else was under the incision. Then, the nurse covered me again, he sewed me up and bandaged me with what looks like a very impressive wound, and I came home. No pain even now! The surgery itself only took 15 minutes. It was all the prep work that took up most of the day. 
I am getting some circulation into my fingers; my fingernails turned pink. I have trouble typing because of the bulk on my hand but no discomfort. 

I'll have my right hand done Sept 12.

Laura told me carpel tunnel syndrome surgery is the latest fad; it may be a fad, but it feels so good to begin to have the feeling return in my fingers again. 

Thanks for asking, Qiana and Carl.

Carl, I love the concept of being a matriarch. The best part of it is I have a longer memory than most people, and I can remember wash tubs, boiling water on the stove, wringing out hot sudsy laundry and hanging wet fabric on a clothesline. I also remember the task of going to the forest to cut wood, bringing it home and while the men cut it into pieces to fit the stove the women prepared a huge meal. That was very festive to me, but I would not go back to that unless I just had to. 

I am most grateful for having lived this long so that I can have access to all kinds of information; I can do the kind of research that is fun, not the old routine of sitting in a library with stacks of books around me trying to follow a thread.  

I also love economics, and it is easy to follow lines of thought and learn new ways to collect and analyze data. 

Gardening is still the love of my life even as there are things I no longer can do. 

Carl, feeling happy and content is just about the best thing I can feel; your happiness and contentment pleases me greatly. 

 

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