Hang With Friends

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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

Nobody here is into mind games. A discussion started with a loaded guilt-throwing question will be deleted.

This group is not intended to compete with other groups on topics they cover but to "fill in the cracks." Whenever a discussion dwells at length on a topic for which there's an existing group, we urge you to provide members a link to that group to continue along their tangent.

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Please start a discussion to share stories, photos, and videos. Replies will pop up in your "latest activity" and a conversation can develop from the feelings and thoughts you contributed. Groups are built on discussions.

Discussion Forum

maggie and milly and molly and may (Edward Estlin Cummings & Eric Whitacre)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 20. 2 Replies

It's amazing what you discover when you go looking for something you had no idea you'd find.  On an impulse, I pulled up Eric Whitacre's website to see if he had created any new pieces.  It would seem that he has: a song cycle called The City and…Continue

Tags: e e cummings, Eric Whitacre

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISIS

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Randall Smith Nov 18. 1 Reply

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISISGrowth in population, policies and practices that create a gap between the typical person and the wealthy,…Continue

Passive and Active voices

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Nov 16. 1 Reply

Have you noticed that much of the discussion in families and with friends, in the print media, on TV, and now on the internet is in the Passive Voice? Many people whine, complain, gripe, accuse, blame, call names, ridicule, grumble, bitch, rebuke,…Continue

Tags: and, behaviors, communication., attitudes, learned

Detroit Businesswomen Team Up to Get Rape Kits Tested

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by The Flying Atheist Nov 14. 2 Replies

Detroit Businesswomen Team Up to Get Rape Kits Tested"In 2009, a Wayne County assistant prosecuting attorney noticed…Continue

Tags: women, Enough, SAID, black, victims

Something Beautiful – Nathan Phelps & Seth Andrews

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 10. 7 Replies

And it is beautiful, too, indeed, I think some of Seth Andrews' best work.  Interesting point: rather than Seth's dulcet baritone doing the narration, this piece presses Nathan Phelps' deep bass intonation into service, bringing a different flavor…Continue

Tags: Nathan Phelps, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews, beautiful, something

Your favorite photobombs?

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Joan Denoo Oct 27. 14 Replies

Running of the bulls photobomb.Continue

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Comment by The Flying Atheist on January 23, 2015 at 9:58pm

Well, I've had a bit of a health set-back.  I recently had a echo cardiogram and a nuclear cardiac stress test.  Results show that I have moderate to severe aortic stenosis and that I need a aortic valve replacement. 

As I mentioned previously, I had a mild stroke in December.  These recent tests show scarring on my heart which indicate that I've also had a prior heart attack.  Thinking back, I can pinpoint the evening back in July when that must have occurred.  It's what prompted me to make an appointment with my doctor the following day which put me in the hospital where they discovered my kidneys failing.     

So now the big decision I'm waiting on from doctors is whether to have heart surgery first and then the kidney transplant, or vise versa.  Either way, I have some challenging months ahead of me.  Personally, I'd rather go ahead with the kidney transplant first, but I'm not a doctor.  The best I can do is heed the advice of the professionals.

The past six months have been overwhelming.  I've also noticed my health declining.  I'm now getting winded and out of breath just walking around my small apartment,  I lack the energy to perform simple tasks and chores.  Luckily, I have access to a computer and all you wonderful people here at Atheist Nexus to keep me occupied and sane when I'm not sleeping or napping. 

Comment by k.h. ky on January 23, 2015 at 9:45pm
It's snowing :( Two inches already. And I was so ready for spring.
Comment by sk8eycat on January 22, 2015 at 1:05pm

I should have posted the link:

Good comments, too.

Comment by sk8eycat on January 22, 2015 at 1:02pm

From Daily Kos:

Comment by Idaho Spud on January 22, 2015 at 11:36am

Joan, I like the "Hope for the future" video.

Comment by Idaho Spud on January 22, 2015 at 11:35am

Patricia, I'm saving that arrangement of roses.  I love the multi-colors.

Felaine, I'm saving that cute birthday cat in the vase.

Comment by Idaho Spud on January 22, 2015 at 11:27am

Thanks peeps, for liking the cake.

Comment by Plinius on January 22, 2015 at 7:01am

Far too late of course, because you're awake at the wrong time! Happy birthday, Joan, I hope there's a wonderful year in store for you!

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 22, 2015 at 1:41am

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 22, 2015 at 1:26am

Well, folks, I am a sprightly 79 years old today! Life just keeps getting better! 

Steph, you know how much I love chocolates! A delightful cake. 

Kathy, thank you for your greeting, I like your presence on A/N, you add greatly to our discussions. 

Spud, that chocolate cake with a garden motif hits me right where the love is! How thoughtful. Your pretty green card with a Lady Bug fits right in. 

Bertold, I am very pleased you join us on A/N and you offer so many enlightened ideas. thanks for your greeting.

Felaine, your greeting with that cat and vase tickles me, as usual. You bring me lots of laughs and I am grateful for your friendship. I keep adding your name to my dictionary and they just will not accept "Felaine". I shall keep adding it until they get the message!

Mindy and Carl, I agree, Spuds' cake perfectly fits for me. I own that one. 

Ian, your bright red tulips and greeting foretell the coming of spring. It won't be long. 


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