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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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God's Annual Performance Review (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on Monday. 6 Replies

I don't know about you guys, but there wasn't a performance review I had in 30 years of field service that I didn't LOATHE.  It seems as though Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, is up for turning the tables on the person you would expect would…Continue

Tags: review, performance, god, American's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Learning a Language as a Mature Adult

Started by Daniel W. Last reply by Joan Denoo Mar 2. 28 Replies

Trying to keep my mind exercised, and not interested in most of the reading materials that I can find.I decided to attempt to learn a language.  Actually, two.  The dilemma is, how do I do that without going to school - not an option - and without…Continue

The Playboy Interview: Richard Dawkins

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Chris Feb 19. 14 Replies

I suppose it was the news that Playboy magazine was returning nudes to its pages after a year's hiatus that sufficiently perked my curiosity to check them out again.  I hadn't looked at Playboy since perhaps 2008, when I began to recognize that I…Continue

Tags: Richard Dawkins, Playboy

Such Lyrics!

Started by Donatien Alphonse François. Last reply by Grinning Cat Feb 13. 9 Replies

Hello Friends,I was ruminating a bit today on my sixty-some years existence. My mind went back to teenage years when I first figured out religion is not only obnoxiously loud, but also nothing I wanted anything to do with. Truly. I knew by age 15…Continue

degrading love — part two (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Feb 11. 1 Reply

TheraminTrees set up religion with his left in Part One of his treatise on how religion demeans and degrades the value of love.  Here in Part Two, he brings in a devastating, "Mike Tyson" right, which negates and invalidates any claim that either…Continue

Tags: Christianity, Islam, TheraminTrees, god, love

Questions......

Started by Thomas Murray. Last reply by k.h. ky Feb 9. 6 Replies

   It has been 6 month now since I signed up for Atheist Nexus membership. The past year has been sort of a bi-polar wave of emotions for me. I hope I wasn't offensive to the folks on here and I think I have been but I don't know to who. My desire…Continue

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Comment by Plinius on April 26, 2016 at 8:37am

The links don't work, but I wish them lots of success!

Comment by Randall Smith on April 26, 2016 at 6:50am

Oops, make that silverthornfarm.inc

Comment by Randall Smith on April 26, 2016 at 6:49am

My "kids" had their grand opening of the Silverthorn Farm Garden Shop (or whatever they call it) yesterday. I stopped by, but couldn't find a place to park, it was so busy!! Let's hope that's a good sign.    (silverthornfarm.org)

Comment by Joan Denoo on April 23, 2016 at 6:17pm
Comment by Joan Denoo on April 23, 2016 at 6:15pm

Bertold, I apologize for my knee-jerk response to the Barbie pictures. 

Comment by Ian Mason on April 23, 2016 at 9:04am

Comment by Joan Denoo on April 23, 2016 at 1:23am

Ian, with you and Daniel, how can I go wrong? I like your statement, "Nihil sine laboure: nothing comes without work."

I will get me a wood burning tool out of the tool shop and make me a sign over the chicken coop with these words. 

I really like those pretty little hens. They provide all the eggs five of my great-grandchildren need or want. I will have a talk with their parents, Michelle and Jared, and express my concern for both the chickens and children. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on April 23, 2016 at 1:15am

Daniel, as always, your calm, reasonable, intelligent words help to calm my frustration. I focus on #3, as I know I should do that in the first place. My poop really hit the fan when three times this last week I found the chickens without food and water and their nests filled with droppings and eggs laying out in the sun.  I started reading up on proper care of chickens. I bought a bale of straw to line their nests, got backup water and food dishes so I could keep them filled and clean, and bought a pooper scooper to help me clean the nests and ground. A plain old garden trowel just doesn't do the job. I laid claim to the dirty straw to go into my compost heap. 

I started reading up on proper care of chickens. I bought a bale of straw to line their nests, got backup water and food dishes so I could keep them filled and clean, and bought a pooper scooper to help me clean the nests and ground. A plain old garden trowel just doesn't do the job. I laid claim to the dirty straw to go into my compost heap. 

The birds have distinct personalities. One old hen doesn't allow me to enter the coop until she has taken a few pecks at my hand. Another puts up such a noise I don't know if she is mad, glad, sad, or afraid. A pretty little white hen acts like a queen, sitting on her nest in a quiet corner of the hen house. There are no roosters, so she has nothing to come from all her conscientious time and devoted effort. 

I was very hard on my three children. They had to complete their chores before they could be excused to play. I am sure Laura tried to teach her girls these values, she works incredibly hard and makes a good living doing it. 

I feel the girls need this discipline and so do their children. I am an old wicked witch of the West. Well, that is OK. The kids spend a lot of time talking with me and joining me as I tend to the chores. We get along fine, except for chores first then play. 

It will take some time, and I do feel royally pissed off. Thanks, Daniel, for offering a calming influence for me.  

Comment by Ian Mason on April 23, 2016 at 1:05am

Nihil sine laboure: nothing comes without work. Teach your young'uns that, Joan. Whatever there is, someone had to work for it. The myth of an Eden where Adam and Eve could just wander about naked plucking food from trees is just that, a myth. But I'm sure that time will prove a good teacher, even if your words go in one ear and out the other now.

Comment by Daniel W on April 22, 2016 at 9:45pm

Joan, Saw your post and wanted to encourage you!

While I should be the last to give advice, here are some thoughts.

1.  The important thing is that YOU be happy.  Some will learn from your example, some will learn with time, and some will never learn.  But I know that you would not derive happiness from anyone else's expense, so again, the important thing is that you be happy.

2.  I thought the grandmother's job was to piss off her children by spoiling her grandchildren?  (snark)

3.  If they don't do their chores, then can there be a price?  "If you do (this), then your reward is (that).  If you don't, then the reward does not happen.  If someone else does it, then they get the reward.

Again, I should be the last person giving advice, so I will stop there.

 

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