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10 Tricks from 46 (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Nov 6. 3 Replies

Apparently, Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, has been slumming.  That is to say, she's been talking to Mike Pence [gasp!].  It would seem as though Mike has offered some of his not-so-personal tricks of the trade on how to be a 21st century…Continue

Tags: tricks, Mike Pence, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Grinning Cat Oct 19. 99 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

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A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Plinius Sep 28. 8 Replies

I received a gift this morning from a virtual friend, Pamela Smith:A Powerful Message from an old wise teacher :" One day an old wise teacher was walking through a village. A very angry and rude young man came up and began insulting him. "You have…Continue

Speak English? YOU FIRST! (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Donald R Barbera Sep 27. 5 Replies

Honestly, the title to this piece is badly under-representative of the content.  To be far more accurate, what we have here is Mrs. Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, going on a rant.  Before you say it ... Say WHAAAA?  Betty Bowers ranting? …Continue

Tags: America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

10 Things About Patriotism (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Plinius Sep 26. 2 Replies

It seems as though lately, Mrs. Betty Bowers, America's Best Christian, is evolving into America's Best Patriot.  She has recently been taking some fairly well-aimed shots at a certain Orange Nightmare and his sycophantic hangers-on, regarding the…Continue

Tags: patriotism, Donald Trump, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

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Comment by tom sarbeck on February 15, 2017 at 6:12am

Playful, Joan, not felonious.

I loved maps when I was a kid, especially those in  National Geographic. I saw South America and Africa and knew they had to have once been joined.

The word cleverly combines Greek pan for "all" and gaia for "earth".

But it's always written in something like "all of the continents were one super-continent called Pangaea."

You know that in scientific matters I am a compulsive truth teller; I would write " super-continent now called Pangaea."

BTW, despite what the Bangers among us say, I have no mental condition that requires meds.

BTW2. Would you recognize hemlock if the people you query were to offer you some?

Comment by Plinius on February 15, 2017 at 4:51am

Late, of course! I´m glad your surgery went well, Joan!

Comment by Chris on February 15, 2017 at 4:33am

For the most part Tom Metzger and other White Supremist groups in the NW were shut down and lost their property from a law suit.  The Southern Poverty Law Center does as good a job as possible keeping racial violence in check.

I don't know where it stand now in Idaho.

A Year of Living Dangerously  is a 73 page report from the Southern Poverty Law Center about continuing problems with extreem elements in the U.S.

Comment by Chris on February 15, 2017 at 4:10am

The Missoula Floods which formed the Columbia River Gorge is interesting geology. Bretz did a good job of figuring that out. It took years before the general population believed his analysis of the area.

Comment by Chris on February 15, 2017 at 3:59am

Oregon and Washington used to be connected to Asia.

A small town had a "One Room" School house near

John Day Fossle Beds

where after an elementary school student went on to college and realized that one of the fossles found when he was in elementary school was a fossleized banana.

Other fossiles from the area were found in Asia and no place else leading to the theory that the NW used to be connected with Asia.

Oddly a "Born Again" Christian with a geology background told me about Pangea.  I don't know how a fundamentalist xtian can reconcile his religious beliefs with science.

Comment by Joan Denoo on February 15, 2017 at 1:46am

Tom, you are silly! You know who called (named) it Pangaea! How do we know? Look at the shapes of the continents and how they pulled apart. At the edges were flora and fauna that matched, even though they were hundreds or thousands of miles apart with a sea between them. Even the rock structure itself often matched across the ocean. Any first-year geology student learns these things. It is the uneducated who don't understand how the continents drifted and continue to drift. 

You know all this, Tom! Have you been taking your medications properly? You aren't thinking! Are you OK? 

Comment by tom sarbeck on February 15, 2017 at 1:34am
May I stir some mischief?

So many people tell us that super-continent was called Pangaea.

Who 500 million years ago called it that, or anything?
Comment by Joan Denoo on February 15, 2017 at 1:09am

Spud, I just read your question about my new living conditions. Northeastern Washington state and northern Idaho have been hotbeds for radical religious and political bodies for years.

White Nationalists, Christian Identity Movement, General Hate Groups, and those who feel they have been left out or overrun by "foreigners" gather in the mountains and valleys of this beautiful country. They come, build their homes, grow their food, gather for meetings of solidarity, and commit mischief if not crimes to get back at society. 

Along comes me, asking questions, writing articles, testing the waters. 

The partners that come into my family all have some religious and political differences with me. One granddaughter's partner is from a christian family of some strict denomination, the other granddaughter's partner comes from a Jehovah's Witness group, many of the neighbors and friends of the family are Mennonite. 

I am getting a lot of practice talking with people who think differently than I and who want to convince me with their rules and bible as their authority. I just keep asking questions: 

"Do you really believe ...?" or "Why are there so many wars between religious people?" or "How can you claim to love when there is so much hate-talk?" or "Do you think it is possible to be good without g-d?" or "Where do you get your authority?" or "How do you account for the ancient fossils in Gardner Cave? if the Earth is only 6,000 years old?"

The geology of the region has many features that stand out. On a mountain north of here is a cave, Gardner Cave, that was formed about "500 million years ago when all of the continents were one super-continent called Pangaea. During this period much of North America was covered by an ocean. When the sea creatures died, their shells, bones, and coral settled to the bottom, forming limestone ooze. This mud eventually turned into a rock called the Metaline Limestone. About 70 million years ago, as mountains were forming, this rock was folded and uplifted, and during this process, it developed cracks and voids. To form a limestone cave water must be present above the limestone as in a stream, rains or in this case mostly glaciers.

"Limestone will dissolve in acid, such as the acid formed when rainwater absorbs carbon dioxide, mostly from seeping through the soil. Even though carbonic or sulfuric acid is a weak solution, when it seeps into the ground and limestone over millions of years it will cause small cracks to enlarge as the limestone is carried away in solution. This process will enlarge the cracks and then produce larger and larger voids. If the source of water is a stream, it may disappear above ground and find an exit through the limestone downhill. The erosion of both the acids and water will carve out significant passages, vast caverns form."

I enjoy the banter. The people believe sincerely in their religious and political traditions. They are polite and civil and mystified by my thinking. They are great cooks; love potluck get-togethers, and are excellent storytellers. Their exaggerations are an art form! 

Comment by BenGee on February 15, 2017 at 12:38am


I quite agree with you on every point of your comment without exception.

Comment by Bertold Brautigan on February 15, 2017 at 12:35am

Joan - you made this comment in another thread that's thankfully closed.

  • Do we want more math, physics, astronomy and electrical engineering and conflict or more care, compassion, commitment, humanities, and peace? 
  • Oh! by the way, some girls excel at math, physics, astronomy, and electrical engineering and some boys excel at care, compassion, commitment, and humanities. 

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