Hang With Friends

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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

Nobody here is into mind games. A discussion started with a loaded guilt-throwing question will be deleted.

This group is not intended to compete with other groups on topics they cover but to "fill in the cracks." Whenever a discussion dwells at length on a topic for which there's an existing group, we urge you to provide members a link to that group to continue along their tangent.

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Discussion Forum

The Whole Bible in 30 Seconds (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Randy Hatly on Thursday. 15 Replies

Ever decide that you wanted to read the whole bible, cover to cover, only to realize half-way through Deuteronomy that the darn thing is industrial-strength BORING?!?  Well, never fear!  America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers, has done the Cliff's…Continue

Tags: bible, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

punishing doubt (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo on Tuesday. 2 Replies

If you are associated with religion and especially a fundamentalist religion, doubt is intolerable.  Certainty, however it may be achieved or imposed, becomes a necessary element, especially considering the utter dearth of any form of evidence or…Continue

Tags: religion, TheraminTrees, punish, doubt

A moment to relax and see the Earth from space; some how this comforts me.

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Qiana-Maieev on Sunday. 3 Replies

All the squabbles and struggles that I have do not compare with those of some others on this great planet. There are no boundary lines, no political arguments, no up or no down. What is, is. For right now, the scenes offer tranquility. Just the…Continue

Tags: and, wonder, awe, of, space

His Dark Materials and the Catholic Church

Started by Tonya R. Wheeler. Last reply by Plinius on Sunday. 27 Replies

I recently watched the movie, "The Golden Compass" and since I could not find the sequels, I read the books. I enjoyed them, and I will be reading the first one, Northern Lights, starting tomorrow, since it just arrived via inter-library…Continue

Tags: Fantasy, Catholic, Religion, Atheist, Pullman

Issues Atheist, Feminist, GLBTQ, Climate Change

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Joan Denoo Oct 6. 2 Replies

This is a test Continue

bending truth, or "We Can All Be Manipulated" (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Sep 29. 39 Replies

The following is one of TheraminTrees' most thorough-going pieces, wherein he looks at the process and techniques whereby a "religious" organization (which will sound VERY familiar to most of us, once introductions are made!) takes a person who…Continue

Tags: indoctrination, truth, manipulation, TheraminTrees

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Comment by Pat on September 14, 2015 at 8:45am

Randall, I'm sorry to hear about your loss. However, I am envious. I never had a good relationship with my father. And, when he died, it was no great loss to me. I've always envied the relationships of people like you and your dad. You are fortunate in that you have something I will never enjoy. Wonderful memories of him. 

Comment by Plinius on September 14, 2015 at 8:05am

Randall, I'm so sorry for your loss! I'm glad you were with him, but it's really a bad experience for you. 

Comment by Loren Miller on September 14, 2015 at 8:04am

Condolences, Randall.  It's bad enough to know it's coming, but to have it come on that fast has to be hard as hell.  Take care, bro.

Comment by Bertold Brautigan on September 14, 2015 at 7:56am

Randall, I'm so sorry to hear of your loss.

Comment by Randall Smith on September 14, 2015 at 7:47am

Speaking of falling: I'm sad to report that my very own father took a spill on steps, broke his hip, hit his head, and died 10 hours later. This was just 2 days ago. He was 97. It was all so sudden and shocking. I was at his bedside when his blood pressure dropped off the chart. There was no hope trying to revive him.

So I lost my one and only father, a great man, someone I admired and loved very much. I knew his passing would come sooner or later, but it's still not easy, especially coming so unexpectedly. 

Comment by Plinius on September 13, 2015 at 5:41am

Are you all right, Ian? Have you got help? I hope you don't feel very bad.

Falling ----- yesterday I took Auntie for a short walk, I knew she fell over twice last month, but she was much more unbalanced and fragile than before. When I helped her step from the last kerb in front of the care home she fell again and I could do nothing to stop her. Luckily help was at hand and the damage wasn't serious, but she was sore and black and blue. I daren't risk another walk outside with her...  

Comment by Ian Mason on September 13, 2015 at 5:00am
Comment by Ian Mason on September 13, 2015 at 4:53am

Carl, I broke a leg falling in the bathroom. No audience but I did feel silly. It's great to hear that your transplant is a 'go'. Please keep us informed as far as possible. 

Comment by Randall Smith on September 12, 2015 at 7:36am

Hey Carl, don't feel bad. I saw where the Cubs Kyle Schwarber hit a home run and did a belly flop rounding first base! He had millions watching that fall. Keep us up to date on your kidney transplant process. Glad you enjoyed reading about my "farm kids".

Comment by Joan Denoo on September 11, 2015 at 10:20pm

Carl, it is very good news, indeed, that your kidney transplant can take place now and your heart is strong enough. 

Falls seem to happen to people when we are the most vulnerable.

I am certain your audience identified with you and your fall. Were you able to get up and go about your business? Hopefully, you had compassionate and effective help.  


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