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maggie and milly and molly and may (Edward Estlin Cummings & Eric Whitacre)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 20. 2 Replies

It's amazing what you discover when you go looking for something you had no idea you'd find.  On an impulse, I pulled up Eric Whitacre's website to see if he had created any new pieces.  It would seem that he has: a song cycle called The City and…Continue

Tags: e e cummings, Eric Whitacre

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISIS

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Randall Smith Nov 18. 1 Reply

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISISGrowth in population, policies and practices that create a gap between the typical person and the wealthy,…Continue

Passive and Active voices

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Nov 16. 1 Reply

Have you noticed that much of the discussion in families and with friends, in the print media, on TV, and now on the internet is in the Passive Voice? Many people whine, complain, gripe, accuse, blame, call names, ridicule, grumble, bitch, rebuke,…Continue

Tags: and, behaviors, communication., attitudes, learned

Detroit Businesswomen Team Up to Get Rape Kits Tested

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by The Flying Atheist Nov 14. 2 Replies

Detroit Businesswomen Team Up to Get Rape Kits Tested"In 2009, a Wayne County assistant prosecuting attorney noticed…Continue

Tags: women, Enough, SAID, black, victims

Something Beautiful – Nathan Phelps & Seth Andrews

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 10. 7 Replies

And it is beautiful, too, indeed, I think some of Seth Andrews' best work.  Interesting point: rather than Seth's dulcet baritone doing the narration, this piece presses Nathan Phelps' deep bass intonation into service, bringing a different flavor…Continue

Tags: Nathan Phelps, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews, beautiful, something

Your favorite photobombs?

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Joan Denoo Oct 27. 14 Replies

Running of the bulls photobomb.Continue

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Comment by sk8eycat on January 12, 2015 at 4:40pm

I guess I'm really out of it...tried both FlakeBook and, much later, Twitter, and got the hell out of both of them after a week of each.  I found them a waste of my not very valuable time.

I lost all hope when the Toilet Paper People gained majorities in both the House and the Senate in November.  It was a "Charlie Brown moment:"  We're doomed

Comment by sk8eycat on January 12, 2015 at 2:25pm

Joan, the progress (if you can call it that) of the stenosis has been going so slowly that I really don't notice it often.  I do know I can't get up off the floor as easily as I used to.  I have to grab a chair to lever myself up; I used to be able to just pop up...but age may have something to do with that, too.  And loss of muscles that I didn't use during the 20 years that I gritted my teeth and put up with the 24/7 sciatic pain.

I used to go to a gym, ages ago, but I hated every second of it. If I could still feel my toes, I would go back to ballet exercises.  I loved THAT.

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 12, 2015 at 2:18pm

Spud, I love you cartoon "Science/ Religion". It goes into my album and sharing. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 12, 2015 at 2:16pm

Patricia, It is hard to believe a mother or an adult would smile on such an occasion. What is the old saying, "You can't legislate morality!"  or common sense. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 12, 2015 at 2:14pm

Felaine, fusion implies loss of motion. Do you have loss of motion after the spinal laminectomy & fusion and does it bother you? Thankfully, you have pain relief. The Google images for stenosis look like bad news! These must surely reduce your quality of life. 

Does exercise hurt or help these conditions? 

Comment by sk8eycat on January 12, 2015 at 2:03pm

Patricia, where did that photo come from?  I mean, is that someone in your family, or an anonymous photo posted on the net?

If that baby is chewing on a real firearm, maybe the gun-worshippers can become self-limiting with enough time and ammo.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on January 12, 2015 at 1:56pm

Patricia, I am always shocked at the mindset of the gun-culture crowd.  Their fascination and giddiness about lethal weapons is downright disturbing. 

Comment by sk8eycat on January 12, 2015 at 1:54pm

Joan, I had severe sciatic pain for more than 20 years after a fall when I was trying to get back into skating just for fun.  At that time, surgery prognosis was 50-50, so I delayed and denied, and kept working at the Cat Hotel till one night my legs just gave out while I was climbing the stairs, and I had to yell for help.

I had MRIs and CT scans, and finally, in 2009, I had a spinal laminectomy & fusion....instant relief!  Forever.

BUT I still have problems with my's crooked, and the spinal canal is slowly closing in on the nerve (stenosis)...I have 50% normal feeling in my hands, and I am just waiting for the "final pinch" when I can stop breathing.  That's why I have "DNR" on my MedicAlert bracelet.

Plus....diabetic neuropathy in my feet and lower legs.  I am just effing tired of it all.  Today.  Tomorrow might be different.

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 12, 2015 at 1:38pm

Spud, Spokane supplies tubs for recyclables. That worked for a couple of years and now they have recycle bins where all recyclables go with no sorting. They look the same as regular trash bins except they have a different color. 

When we lived at Ft. Hood, my Cub Scout group got 5-gallon barrels at the Motor Pool, painted and labelled them "Paper", Glass", "Cans" and used them for each Cub members' family. That idea caught on and we started making them for other families for a small fee to pay for the paint and any costs we had. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 12, 2015 at 1:29pm

Randy, hope your back gets back o normal soon. You probably have seen this or something similar: 

Low Back Pain


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