Hang With Friends

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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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maggie and milly and molly and may (Edward Estlin Cummings & Eric Whitacre)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 20. 2 Replies

It's amazing what you discover when you go looking for something you had no idea you'd find.  On an impulse, I pulled up Eric Whitacre's website to see if he had created any new pieces.  It would seem that he has: a song cycle called The City and…Continue

Tags: e e cummings, Eric Whitacre

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISIS

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Randall Smith Nov 18. 1 Reply

There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISISGrowth in population, policies and practices that create a gap between the typical person and the wealthy,…Continue

Passive and Active voices

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Nov 16. 1 Reply

Have you noticed that much of the discussion in families and with friends, in the print media, on TV, and now on the internet is in the Passive Voice? Many people whine, complain, gripe, accuse, blame, call names, ridicule, grumble, bitch, rebuke,…Continue

Tags: and, behaviors, communication., attitudes, learned

Detroit Businesswomen Team Up to Get Rape Kits Tested

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by The Flying Atheist Nov 14. 2 Replies

Detroit Businesswomen Team Up to Get Rape Kits Tested"In 2009, a Wayne County assistant prosecuting attorney noticed…Continue

Tags: women, Enough, SAID, black, victims

Something Beautiful – Nathan Phelps & Seth Andrews

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Nov 10. 7 Replies

And it is beautiful, too, indeed, I think some of Seth Andrews' best work.  Interesting point: rather than Seth's dulcet baritone doing the narration, this piece presses Nathan Phelps' deep bass intonation into service, bringing a different flavor…Continue

Tags: Nathan Phelps, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews, beautiful, something

Your favorite photobombs?

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Joan Denoo Oct 27. 14 Replies

Running of the bulls photobomb.Continue

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Comment by The Flying Atheist on January 12, 2015 at 1:56pm

Patricia, I am always shocked at the mindset of the gun-culture crowd.  Their fascination and giddiness about lethal weapons is downright disturbing. 

Comment by sk8eycat on January 12, 2015 at 1:54pm

Joan, I had severe sciatic pain for more than 20 years after a fall when I was trying to get back into skating just for fun.  At that time, surgery prognosis was 50-50, so I delayed and denied, and kept working at the Cat Hotel till one night my legs just gave out while I was climbing the stairs, and I had to yell for help.

I had MRIs and CT scans, and finally, in 2009, I had a spinal laminectomy & fusion....instant relief!  Forever.

BUT I still have problems with my's crooked, and the spinal canal is slowly closing in on the nerve (stenosis)...I have 50% normal feeling in my hands, and I am just waiting for the "final pinch" when I can stop breathing.  That's why I have "DNR" on my MedicAlert bracelet.

Plus....diabetic neuropathy in my feet and lower legs.  I am just effing tired of it all.  Today.  Tomorrow might be different.

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 12, 2015 at 1:38pm

Spud, Spokane supplies tubs for recyclables. That worked for a couple of years and now they have recycle bins where all recyclables go with no sorting. They look the same as regular trash bins except they have a different color. 

When we lived at Ft. Hood, my Cub Scout group got 5-gallon barrels at the Motor Pool, painted and labelled them "Paper", Glass", "Cans" and used them for each Cub members' family. That idea caught on and we started making them for other families for a small fee to pay for the paint and any costs we had. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 12, 2015 at 1:29pm

Randy, hope your back gets back o normal soon. You probably have seen this or something similar: 

Low Back Pain

Comment by Idaho Spud on January 12, 2015 at 1:19pm

Comment by sk8eycat on January 12, 2015 at 10:53am

City of Los Angeles has that same rule about not bagging recyclables...IMO its only purpose is to eliminate a simple step in the sorting process.

I am often thankful for gazillion reasons that my parents chose Burbank to settle in.  Better public services all around.

Comment by Idaho Spud on January 12, 2015 at 9:44am

I think I'll send the new mayor an email with my thoughts.

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 12, 2015 at 9:39am

Spud, sounds like a good problem to take to the city council or whatever form of government you have. Putting paper in paper bags and plastic in plastic bags seems a reasonable thing to do. I certainly would not want paper and plastic flying all over. 

I spent a month at Mata Ortiz, Mexico, and they had a forest of plastic bags, blown by the wind and caught by cactus and mesquite. At first, it looked like a new species of desert plant. Oh! plastic trees! 

Comment by Idaho Spud on January 12, 2015 at 9:18am

My city doesn't allow us to put recyclables in any bag, so paper flies all over town.  Isn't that wonderful!

Comment by sk8eycat on January 11, 2015 at 4:45pm

Oh, and we put our recyclables in the paper bags for trash pickup.

Store2Door still uses's part grocery and part deli.  And they DELIVER! 


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