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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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White House Petition: Change National Motto Back to "E Pluribus, Unum"

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by k.h. ky Jan 22. 8 Replies

There is a petition being sponsored by whitehouse.gov to remove "in god we trust" as the national motto and replace it with the original: "E Pluribus, Unum" or "Out of Many, One."  As of this writing, there are around 11,000 signatures on it, with…Continue

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There Is Only One Way to Destroy ISIS

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Loren Miller Dec 24, 2015. 3 Replies

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coming out (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Atheist in FundyLand Dec 23, 2015. 6 Replies

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Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Dec 23, 2015. 4 Replies

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Mental health in the age of violence: Dr. Elliott Ingersol

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Randall Smith Dec 1, 2015. 1 Reply

I literally just discovered Dr. Elliott Ingersol yesterday, as a part of a discussion I had with other members of the Northern Ohio Freethought Society.  Dr. Ingersol is a licensed psychologist and clinical counselor in Ohio, as well as a professor…Continue

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Comment by Plinius on February 17, 2015 at 7:53am

A cartfull of bad trouble in your family, Ian! It doesn't feel good when your help is unwanted, but it doesn't mean you are unwanted.

Comment by Randall Smith on February 17, 2015 at 7:39am

Yikes, Ian. Perhaps a phone call, email, or letter might be appropriate and appreciated. Shows you're thinking of them.

Yes, I had a feeling we'd lose Mindy. I'm still in a state of shock over all the fuss. On my old blog site, I made a mortal enemy when I mentioned the words "will power" when trying to lose weight, like "you gotta have...". Now, I can make new enemies over here!

Comment by Joan Denoo on February 16, 2015 at 10:37pm

Ian, sorry to learn of your family members with a lung infection, another with heart irregularities at 22 y.o., a collapsed lung in their 17 y.o. nephew., an elderly father in a care home, and their dog, old, ailing and incontinent. It sounds as though they need quiet and rest. Perhaps there is another way you can give them support and encouragement. The information that now is not a good time for you to visit them reflects respect for you, even as you could help in some way. 

With all that you list indicates these are long term problems and they may need your help at some future time. In the meantime, keep yourself healthy, your spirits up, and focus on letting them know you are available when/if they need you. 

I'm glad you shared your feelings with us; this is a good place to express your disappointment. 

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on February 16, 2015 at 10:02pm

I'd give your family their space, Ian. I know when I'm sick I don't really want company. It can be stressful to have visitors, even people you love, when your stress level is already over the top. Thanks for sharing.

Comment by Ian Mason on February 16, 2015 at 3:24pm

Something personal. Feeling a bit rejected. I mailed my brother and his wife about going over and they've asked me not to. Everything bad seems to be happening to them. My sister in law has had 2 weeks in bed with a lung infection. Their eldest son is being checked and scanned for heart irregularities (he's 22) Their 17 y.o. nephew is in hospital with a collapsed lung. My s-i-l's dad is now in a care home. The dog is old, ailing and almost incontinent. I understand that they don't want to entertain guests but also felt that as family I could support or help in some way. I must allow them that they know best what they can and can't cope with amid an avalanche of woes. They're really feeling the pressure. Makes all my problems seem petty in comparison.

That's better: got that off my chest.

Comment by Ian Mason on February 16, 2015 at 3:14pm

No, not going to Copenhagen. It's a long and expensive trip.

I too would like to hear from Carl again. He's going through a hard time and I'm concerned.

Comment by Joan Denoo on February 16, 2015 at 1:57pm

I haven't heard from Carl since he sent me a message that he wanted to discuss the video with everyone but didn't have the energy at that time. I haven't heard from him since. 

I am no longer able to contact Mindy. She had given me her Facebook information and we had some very special conversations until my responses to her were blocked. 

I am sorry that I raised the question and that I tried to find what really happened. My concern backfired on me big time. 

Carl, I am concerned about you, I hope you feel better. I especially look forward to seeing you able to get on with whatever the doctors advice. You are the same age as my three children and I kind of think of you as family. I apologize to you if I contributed to your distress. 

Comment by Plinius on February 16, 2015 at 1:30pm

Waving to Carl.

Are you going to the Kopenhagen meeting, Ian?

Comment by Idaho Spud on February 15, 2015 at 9:45am

Thanks for all the good comments about my chicken x road posts. It's nice when my specific sense of humor matches others.

Comment by Idaho Spud on February 15, 2015 at 9:43am

Carl, I hope all this kerfuffle about your spinning dog post hasn't added to your pain.

 

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