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Issues Atheist, Feminist, GLBTQ, Climate Change

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by BenGee 20 hours ago. 3 Replies

This is a test Continue

The Whole Bible in 30 Seconds (Betty Bowers)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Randy Hatly on Thursday. 15 Replies

Ever decide that you wanted to read the whole bible, cover to cover, only to realize half-way through Deuteronomy that the darn thing is industrial-strength BORING?!?  Well, never fear!  America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers, has done the Cliff's…Continue

Tags: bible, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

punishing doubt (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo on Tuesday. 2 Replies

If you are associated with religion and especially a fundamentalist religion, doubt is intolerable.  Certainty, however it may be achieved or imposed, becomes a necessary element, especially considering the utter dearth of any form of evidence or…Continue

Tags: religion, TheraminTrees, punish, doubt

A moment to relax and see the Earth from space; some how this comforts me.

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Qiana-Maieev Oct 16. 3 Replies

All the squabbles and struggles that I have do not compare with those of some others on this great planet. There are no boundary lines, no political arguments, no up or no down. What is, is. For right now, the scenes offer tranquility. Just the…Continue

Tags: and, wonder, awe, of, space

His Dark Materials and the Catholic Church

Started by Tonya R. Wheeler. Last reply by Plinius Oct 16. 27 Replies

I recently watched the movie, "The Golden Compass" and since I could not find the sequels, I read the books. I enjoyed them, and I will be reading the first one, Northern Lights, starting tomorrow, since it just arrived via inter-library…Continue

Tags: Fantasy, Catholic, Religion, Atheist, Pullman

bending truth, or "We Can All Be Manipulated" (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Sep 29. 39 Replies

The following is one of TheraminTrees' most thorough-going pieces, wherein he looks at the process and techniques whereby a "religious" organization (which will sound VERY familiar to most of us, once introductions are made!) takes a person who…Continue

Tags: indoctrination, truth, manipulation, TheraminTrees

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Comment by Randall Smith on September 6, 2015 at 6:56am

Way to go, Spud. Sometimes, one just has to take a stand.

I'm supposed to pay a $25 "rental fee" for my propane tank, but refuse. I tell them I'm going to switch providers, and they then relent. Happens every year.

Comment by Joan Denoo on September 6, 2015 at 1:10am

Spud! I loved those old songs:

Mairzy Doats. 

My kids loved them too. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on September 6, 2015 at 12:49am

Spud, I like Pat's suggestions to tell the bank to stop paying to that company, and contact the Rip Off Report. I would go one step further and name the company that did not follow your instructions, write your story for the various social media to which you belong. We need to complain, loudly, often, and everywhere. I am not saying being noisy about your complaint will make a difference, but it seems to me to be better than remaining silent. 

Spud, you know me, the "DO NOT REMAIN SILENT! person. 

 Rip Off Report.

Comment by k.h. ky on September 6, 2015 at 12:06am
Hex 5 remark about questioning god was dead on. Our family is taught that is something you don't do. It's the way to hell for certain. And Loren's reply that we're not better. But we are open to new ideas was also dead on.
Comment by k.h. ky on September 5, 2015 at 11:54pm
Loren/Hex5/All. Hello. I'm days late as usual to a conversation.

Monday's talk about relating to theist; l only found out recently that my oldest niece and her husband have stopped going to church and she was asking me questions about why I'm an atheist!
I was shocked. Thanks to whoever posted the link to Kissing Hanks Ass. I sent it to her and she enjoyed it. So did her husband.
Out of dozens of neices and nephews, Sisters, brother, brothers-in-law, aunts uncles,.... The entire family, no one, has ever genuinely asked anything.
I'm still surprised and continue to text her articles that are both well thought out and don't appear to harsh on the believers ideas.
Thanks all.
And it's hot and dry here.
Comment by Bertold Brautigan on September 5, 2015 at 12:50pm

Thanks, Pat, good to know!

Comment by Pat on September 5, 2015 at 12:34pm

Bertold, there is such a website. It's the Rip Off Report.

Comment by Pat on September 5, 2015 at 12:31pm

Spud, contact your bank and have them put a stop payment on any withdrawals to that company. Notify the bank and future withdrawals by that internet provider are unauthorized. Or, just change accounts and get a new account number. The company will only have your old number and it won't work.

Comment by Bertold Brautigan on September 5, 2015 at 12:29pm

Spud, I'm feeling your frustration. I hate companies that are arrogant enough to think they can treat their customers like shit. Sometimes it's just a single idiot in the system, but in your case it sounds like it's the company culture.  I'm trying to get estimates to replace my rotting deck, and yesterday two out of three contractors scheduled to do an estimate didn't bother to show up or call. 

Someone ought to start an "I call bullshit" Website to shame companies into some kind of minimum level of decent customer service.

Comment by Plinius on September 5, 2015 at 11:11am

That's bad, Spud, I hate companies like that! Keep your cool and I hope you win!


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